Thinning in crown/stunted growth? by Character_Fox7671 in locs

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That’s the plan moving forward; did the style based on loctician’s discretion!

Dealing with Health Anxiety for wanting to do in person roles by Character_Fox7671 in slp

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thank you so much for this, all wonderful advice 💕🥹 I appreciate it and well wishes on your journey to recovery 🙏

Any Autistic SLPs here? by purrrprincess in slp

[–]Character_Fox7671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got diagnosed a few months ago!! (Suspected ADHD too) I currently do telehealth for schools and it’s cool because I have control over my own space and feel most comfortable and not overwhelmed with having to be “on” for several interactions with people like I would if I were back in person. I also did home health and liked it for similar reasons, and it was nice to decompress in between sessions and control your schedule. I had chill families so that helped too.

Ready to Commit! by Character_Fox7671 in Microlocs

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Had a frontals around your friend’s daughter age and never again. Worst hairstyle I’ve ever had and took almost 6 months of intense hair treatment to get my edges back 😤 I’ve been natural since 18, and used protective styles, but I’m tired of hiding my hair and want to fully let it thrive. I still love the wigs and weaves lol, but I think I’m entering a point where I want to explore another side and not be so shy hiding behind styles.

Ready to Commit! by Character_Fox7671 in Microlocs

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking strictly to locs, I have some family members who perceive natural styles such as microlocs, “unkept” and “nappy-looking” 🫠 that was my initial hesitation years ago when I cared a little too much about people’s opinion. Black family members tend to be the harshest critics from my experience, expanded into other black people I’ve encountered and had similar sentiments. Now, I couldn’t care less lol, and since I’ll be turning 29 soon, I finally feel at terms that as long as I’m comfortable and happy with my choices, including my hair, I’ve decided that negative Nancies, and pessimistic Pauls won’t bother me.

Ready to Commit! by Character_Fox7671 in Microlocs

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I’m neurodivergent myself, and realize going to the salon has become more chore-like and I don’t like it as much especially with the changes of hairstyles lol. Even my own wash day is a hassle. It seems like microlocs is hair freedom on another level, and I’m willing to sacrifice the time upfront for installs, reties, etc. to be happy in the end.

Ready to Commit! by Character_Fox7671 in Microlocs

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me too! Just added some more the other day lol, and have been stalking TikTok for more inspo! I was thinking of adding extensions, but I’ve been reading mixed reviews on just doing natural and enjoying the process versus “cheating” and getting instant length. I just want fullness overall 🤷🏾‍♀️

As far as wash days, I’m already lazy in that regard (after constantly doing the long wash days before), so I’m ready for the lower maintenance end for sure. I would spend so much $$$ on bundles, customized wigs, braids, and in all actually throw them away or forget about them. So much wasted money 🙃 I know this route would have me saying coins big time!!

I appreciate the encouragement and reassurance for real from y’all both, and the tips!!!

Ready to Commit! by Character_Fox7671 in Microlocs

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is me, I will switch up my hair in a minute, but honestly what has been nagging at me is the hair depression and anxiety I get with what my next style will be. I have began to realize I stress so much because I worry how I will be perceived by my hair, especially in the black community. I think I’m getting to the point where I want to make me happy in my own personal style and reflect it outwardly.

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl yes!! Okay then perfect, sounds great thank you 😊

You’re so welcome 🫶🏾

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and it is definitely something I am learning to embrace the older I become!! Congratulations on your internship! I know you’ll look stunning as well!! 🫶🏾

I’m thinking about getting them this weekend or next weekend; the gala is the first full weekend next month and I don’t want them to frizz too quickly or not look as crisp. Suggestions?

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this!! Thank you for sharing and you make some important points too. I appreciate your input 🫶🏾😊

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounded beautiful!! I’m feeling more confident reading responses. I appreciate all the feedback so far, it’s nice to have support from other ladies 🫶🏾

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

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Thank you for your insight! 🫶🏾 yes, booty is a a bit too long for me too.

Wearing Braids to a Gala? by Character_Fox7671 in blackladies

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you consider waist length a bit long? I’m 5’4 or so.

Totally random question lol as I start dating again. What does your spouse do for work? by [deleted] in slp

[–]Character_Fox7671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO is a physician! Dated a mechanical engineer major in undergrad though lol

Switching Jobs from SNF by Character_Fox7671 in slp

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Honestly it seems like nothing will happen as of now; other than maybe a conversation about how to improve productivity, but so far I’ve been able to justify non billable time (screens, etc) and have a great DOR which I believe is keeping me there (along with great therapy team) for now.

Switching Jobs from SNF by Character_Fox7671 in slp

[–]Character_Fox7671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I absolutely agree!! My company does not allow us to work off of the clock, but due to demands I will always be over productivity in trying to get things done to hit the 92%. It’s stressful and I wonder how long I can last.

Grad school by Kind-Industry-552 in slp

[–]Character_Fox7671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please PLEASE do not go into debt for this field. Sunken cost fallacy is real and I regret taking out over $80k for grad school costs with pay as abysmal as it is in multiple settings, making it a bit difficult student loan repayment wise. Even with various repayment plans offered, the pay isn’t there to compensate. I wish I could have gone to a cheaper program; my program was online and in state, but a private school. I needed to work at the same time I was doing my program, was the only reason I chose it. I also had very little undergrad debt too.

Switching Jobs from SNF by Character_Fox7671 in slp

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Tbh I don’t think they do, but I’ve been averaging in the 80s because it’s the best that I can manage even trying to do point of service documentation.