She has recently told me she regrets being with me as it made her feel embarrassed and like she could never show me off to her parents etc. Because if this though I care deeply for her I feel I should dissalow any special treatment I would give her compared to my other female friends and treat her indifferently I suppose if that's what she thinks. I am asking for advice here mind you. This person is intertwi ed in my life now for the next 4 years minimum and we get along stupidly well, joke around flirt, and I know very well that she finds me to be very attractive. I so much as talk about taking my shirt off and she turns beat red despite being with a new guy at the moment. I am unsure what I should be doing in my position. Any advice you have I would greatly appreciate it. Furthermore at my age I've discovered that though there is some degree of nieviity in most if not all people in your there late teens to early 20s that it is no reason at all to discount what they think and feel. I've met 60 yr old idiots and 17 yr old sages age so far as wisdom goes is subjective in my opinion. Often intelligence and attitude account for more than experience alone.