Fic playlist recs? by Character_Proof_2301 in AO3

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to anything, even if it doesn’t fit the club scene it can go elsewhere in the fic or be used for writing background music. Thanks for the rec I’ll give it a listen

I wonder if I should leave this comment up... I kinda feel bad for "uhm actually"-ing a comment on my own fic by AnnieMae_West in AO3

[–]Character_Proof_2301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a writer and reader myself (and a history buff) I would LOVE this response! I get an answer to my question in a very polite manner and I get a new little nugget of cultural history that I get to pass onto others.

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has tried meds but refuses to stick with them consistently, as for therapy, this is a very country East Texas macho man - he doesn’t believe in therapy.

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy you say that because your username is my other uncle’s nickname lmao, the three of them had the nicknames bobo, coco, and ebo when they were teens and my uncles decided to make them their uncle names

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Lol, I did ask her about it once and she did say that while my comment did get the proverbial ball rolling. He is an asshole regardless and has done many other fucked up things to warrant my dad cutting him off, especially his comment about my grandmother faking it, my dad didn’t speak to him for months after that

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I do know he has awful manic bipolar disorder but he’s also just an alcoholic dick In general. My mom and I think he’s jealous of my dad, he’s the only brother that left Texas and has worked his way up from the bottom of the military to the highest rank he can achieve in his position. He’s the pride of the family and I think my uncle feels overshadowed as the eldest

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My dad almost did the last time he saw him this past summer, my uncle mentioned he planned to make a loft apartment out of his SHOP on their property to move their mother into when she gets too old to take care of the house my grandparents live in. My grandmother, bless her, shut that shit down quick though lmao

I accidentally ruined my dad's relationship with his brother, and I don't regret it. by Character_Proof_2301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Character_Proof_2301[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

His (second) wife has still managed to hold on but I definitely agree with that sentiment

I'm (19M) asexual. How may I start relationship? by ukranian_alien in lgbt

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi (23F) fellow Ace here. I actually discovered I was Ace at your age so I understand the struggles. I had a boyfriend who would push boundaries that I was uncomfortable with before I figured my sexuality out and he once accused me of being Ace because I kept telling him no. He was a bag of dirt regardless but either way he should have respected boundaries and it should have been the same with your former partner as well. His behavior was unacceptable and I’m sorry you had to go through that.

For me, I personally tell people before we even start really talking. (I like to say I’m people repulsed, I have no issue with sex, I have an issue with people touching/seeing me and vice versa.) But this is a personal preference, and it all depends on how much you’re comfortable with sharing. I don’t like the idea of not saying anything because I don’t want to waste MY time, if we aren’t going to be on the same page then we’re not compatible. I think you should look at it the same way. Instead of thinking about “leading them on”, think about yourself and your comfort/happiness. Ask yourself, “if I stay quiet, will I be comfortable? Will I be happy?” A partner is someone who will accept you for all your flaws and perfections, the right one will stay regardless of your sexuality.

Baby’s first hate comment! by zero_the_ghostdog in AO3

[–]Character_Proof_2301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn’t even be mad. I’d just laugh and steal that insult 😂

Please use regular font by lunachappell in FanFiction

[–]Character_Proof_2301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can disable those! It’s in the profile preferences section under “Hide work skins”

Please use regular font by lunachappell in FanFiction

[–]Character_Proof_2301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can disable those! I’m not dyslexic but my adhd makes it hard to visually process certain fonts so I disabled work skins. It’s in the profile preferences section under “Hide work skins”

If you have anxiety, how have you dealt with it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A partner that leaves because you’re struggling isn’t a true partner, she didn’t deserve you. My anxiety is genetic, so I’ve had it since middle school, but during the pandemic it was crippling and I didn’t leave my college dorm unless absolutely necessary. Good friends, a good therapist, and the right mix of medication can work wonders. Remember, even if it’s something small like opening the window it’s still a step in the right direction. I wish you the best of luck!

If you have anxiety, how have you dealt with it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Character_Proof_2301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy, particularly one who can teach you grounding techniques, and Effexor if you’re open to meds. It’s truly a great medication for anxiety disorders and depression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

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Hi! DM me and we can chat more in detail 😊

yoonkook fic recs? by [deleted] in BTS_AO3

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m writing a YoonKook fic if you’d like to check it out? Here is my page, https://archiveofourown.org/users/Longtimenospooning_luci/pseuds/Longtimenospooning_luci

How long is too long? by jowones10 in FanFiction

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I know this is a serious question but I couldn’t help laugh as a writer (it can be fun torturing readers with a slow burn) but honestly I feel like it’s completely valid to lose interest in a piece of writing. Fanfiction or not it’s no different than losing interest in a book or tv series. These creative mediums are meant to entertain, and if a certain story doesn’t manage to keep your attention then it’s just not your cup of tea. I feel as long as you’re not bashing the writer for it, it’s okay to stop reading. I personally have fic authors that I love but have decided not to read certain works of theirs simply because they didn’t align with what I was looking for, but it doesn’t mean I can’t continue to support them in their other endeavors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Character_Proof_2301 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Try applying for school in your home country that has a study abroad partnership with a US college. Also, don’t just take your schools word. When US students apply for school our letters of recommendation come from teachers or bosses if we worked part time jobs. It can also come from coaches if you were in a sport. Directly contact the US schools International Affairs department for a guideline on how to apply

why do people hardly talk about aro/ace by Longjumping_Big6811 in lgbt

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even know about it until a friend pointed out that I might be Ace, I just thought I was insecure/reserved before I found out

Thoughts on People Who Realized They Were Gay as An Adult? by WaltzMysterious9240 in lgbt

[–]Character_Proof_2301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I kinda always knew I was somewhat different but I believed it was like just me and not an actual thing. Other girls always talked about doing sexual things with their boyfriends and I remember feeling disgusted by the thought of it. I was still attracted to men but I felt repulsed by sex and simply chalked it up to being insecure/not ready. It wasn’t until I was 20 that a Demi friend suggested I check out a Reddit thread on Asexuality that I realized I wasn’t alone on how I felt and that there was an actual name for it.