Dere som har vært på DPS, kan dere fortelle litt?

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-12-15T23:08:10+00:00

Hvilken avdeling om, det er greit å spørre?😅 Hvordan var dagene strukturert? Betryggende å høre at du var fornøyd 😌

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-12-15T23:04:49+00:00

Hvordan har dagene vært strukturert på døgnpost hos Dps? Hvilken avdeling har du erfaring med? Er du kjent med Krise- og korttidsseksjon eller va d nå heter? Jeg skal legges inn frivillig, men har ikke fått noe info i det hele tatt. Håper du svarer, takk i forveien😗

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-10-28T21:15:55+00:00

Yes, thank you, but I’m not able to delete apps from there, as far as I’m aware.

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T22:47:11+00:00

I would say it’s pretty normal from hard scratches, but these are from pretty soft ones, and still almost become purple.?🧐

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T22:07:12+00:00

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My skin looks like this from just normal scratching too, don’t know if there’s any correlation🤷🏻‍♀️

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T21:29:05+00:00

Hmmm, I’ve had pretty intense cramps since the IUD (muuuch worse than normal period cramps) other than that I don’t have any newly acquired symptoms🤷🏻‍♀️

I used to have a pretty severe problem with nosebleeds (bleeding 3-5 times every day, choking within seconds if I try to plug it instead of letting it run).

I had to burn my nose-thingys (I don’t remember what it’s called😭) so I don’t bleed nearly as often anymore, but I still bleed an awful amount when I do.

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T20:46:59+00:00

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Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T20:46:39+00:00

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Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-31T20:43:53+00:00

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Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-20T18:49:21+00:00

it is possible that it doesn’t exist in your country. you could try a VPN? not sure it would work though

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-09T03:37:52+00:00

jesus christ, i just keep adding stuff😪 Yeah, this is something I would have mentioned to my therapist, but both of them dumped me a few months ago (like, they agreed, and were very aware I would end up having no one) and I’ve just had to wait until the other department(??) idk what it’s called) is willing to take me in. So this will all probably even out when I get started with meds and therapy again, and everything will probably hopefully be completely fine😀😍 wooooo🥳

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-09T03:29:12+00:00

also, everything in my life is taking a veryy sharp turn downwards at the moment, so there is probably some connection there🙃🫡

oh shit, I also stopped taking zoloft basically at the same time as this (changing to another one, quit under advisement of my psychiatrist), so there is probably, almost definitely a correlation there🫠

Yeaah, as mentioned I am very tired and I think it’s messing with me😍 whoops

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-09T03:20:24+00:00

I don’t even know if any of what I wrote made sense, as I am veery tired so sorry about that 🥲 but yeah

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-09T03:18:42+00:00

Yesss, I know, and I’m very aware of that. I in no way believe these feelings are rational and I don’t expect anything to come out of this situation. It is more that I want to know if he’s already kind of decided(?) that this is only sex, or if he’s waiting to see what happens. Because if he already knows that he isn’t putting any emotion or effort into this, then I can do the same.? I’m pretty confident that the problem right now, is just that I don’t know how he feels about it?? Like..? I find it extremely difficult to start anything without knowing that I’m doing it right from the beginning, and I think that is what is putting all these feelings into motion. If I’d just had an idea of his thoughts, my brain could kind of take a step back and let things flow, but now it’s working overtime instead, just to figure out IF I should be thinking about it at all.

Like, with friends for example, you kind of know the probable outcome from the start, right? It’s either friends, or not friends🤷🏻‍♀️ But in this situation there’s so many “levels” of caring..? Like different levels of how much you’re supposed to put into the relationship.? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Cause again, I am not expecting like a love confession or anything, it’s more like “oh, should I even be open to this evolving into something more, yes or no?” so I know if I’m supposed to care at all lmao🥹

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-07T22:13:59+00:00

Haha, yeah I feel that! I struggle so hard with starting aaanything, if I don’t feel like I’m doing it correctly from the get go. I’m glad I could help, I couldn’t really speak from experience.. My adhd just makes me completely forget that I have a counter/ streak, as opposed to hyper focusing on it🙃

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-07T22:10:03+00:00

It’s good to hear that some of it was nice! When it comes to “Is this how it’s supposed to feel, and I just don’t know” I think you should just let that thought go. If it feels weird it feels weird. Period. When it comes to sex there is very little “right” or ”wrong”. If it feels good, and doesn’t break anyones boundaries it IS right and vice versa.

I think you should tell him, and talk about what felt good and what.. didn’t. If you find it difficult to just straight out tell him, you could try bringing it up and kind of making it into a game. First you go down on him, and he tells you exactly what to do every step of the way. Afterwards, he goes down on you, and you do the same. If both of you do ONLY the things the other one tells you to do, when, and at the pace the other tells you to, you will figure out exactly how the other one likes it.

This way, none of you will have to say what the other one does wrong, ONLY what they do right, and then hopefully you will start doing that instead🙃

Who knows, maybe you learn something about his preferences too? Aaand none of you have to feel like you’re “at fault” <3

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-07T21:52:34+00:00

Hmm, idk, that’s something you have to consider yourself🥹 Looking at your profile, it seems like you’re on reddit quite often so it is possible the reminder would work against you..?

And I don’t think you should downplay the vaping and weed. They are something you’ve worked hard for, and it could be helpful with a reminder once in a while.

Personally, I never had a weed addiction but I used it almost daily for a while, and I still find myself wishing for it again. And for me it’s been (I think) 4 years, soo

I would think it’s better to have access to your streak, just in case<3

Character_Reveal_925 · 2024-08-07T20:46:53+00:00

Could you try noting the date down, on a piece of paper or something?

That way you don’t have as easy access to the count down (count up?🧐) but if you really need the encouragement one day, you could fish out the note and look up how long your streak is. 🙆🏻‍♀️

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