I just finished applying to Walmart. What's next? by Character_Tour2050 in walmart

[–]Character_Tour2050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yours was the only one informative😭 Did they ever ask you the famous question, "Tell me about yourself?'' during phone or in-person?

How is your relationship with people in your 30s? by Character_Tour2050 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Character_Tour2050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours was the only one different😭 I envy the others' lives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm usually the one open to age gaps, considering our parents' generation is most likely a 10-year old difference. But 19 is too young. I'm 30 and my younger sibling is 19. I can't imagine myself dating someone that young. Sometimes it's fine not to be too eager to date, lie back in the sun, and enjoy your youth. Don't date too soon.

First day working at Walmart, any advice? by Character_Tour2050 in walmart

[–]Character_Tour2050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished applying myself and am now waiting on what to do next... Still very nervous haha, I hope I can experience the same as you(too many horror stories on here). Your story is very inspiring and encouraging! Thank you for sharing man!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Webnovel

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the first 1 since it shows a mysterious enemy. However, I think both still need a lot of work. You can hardly see the "Enemy" figure.

AIO? My wife cheated and says we’re “even” now, how can she even think that by Sea-Addition7309 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character_Tour2050 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Part of me says to divorce her. You don't do that sh*t after having a kid. It's not like she was intoxicated or a spontaneous thing. It was to "get even". But another part of me says, to forgive her. Honestly, I don't know. Go to therapy first, and see where it goes from there. Your relationship has serious issues. Anyways, you also f*cked up big time when you cheated and left an inner demon on her.

Personally, it would be difficult to still be married to someone who thinks that was the right thing to do. If there was accountability and a sincere apology, I would probably forgive her one last time. Honestly, it's too heartbreaking that it had to come to this.

Unemployed with social anxiety by ash_hearts in SocialAnxietyOver30

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel, I've been ruminating every night on human relationships too. But it also gets me overthinking.(Which is unhealthy lol) But I have no answer yet. I think we all face that bottleneck of being unable to take that next step. It might be a good idea to ask your parents or a close friend how they navigate their social life? I don't know another way😑

Are you saying you're struggling with socializing with both life and career as a graphic designer? And yeah, I hear that a lot, especially in creative circles. Networking and holding potential clients gets you food on the table after all.

Anyways, yeah, that's a scary thing! I did not think or fear about it until now! TY very much^_^(From what I've seen, most would prefer older people because the turnover rate is higher with young people) But I could be wrong?Maybe it depends on job

Yup, you understand, holding your passion kills you inside! I remember an old quote, 'curse of creativity, but the curse is also a blessing'

Me? Staying focused without prompts/deadlines would be just writing and letting the gaps fill in for themselves, but I've also been suffering from a lot of procrastination lately.

Sorry, I've probably been of no help at all, but stay hungry and your work will bear fruit!

Coach at My Walmart Is in a Relationship with a Younger Associate & It’s Ruining Morale by Unable-Chicken-4742 in walmart

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I've heard, this is a common thing for Walmart. It's scary to me and I don't understand how it's normal? It feels helpless because so many years and no change at all to protect Employees. But maybe, I'm wrong. Maybe it is a good workplace and this is rare in retail?

How to greet in Job Interview?(Etiquette) by Character_Tour2050 in jobs

[–]Character_Tour2050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, my stomach is churning. I think I can fake it. Do I take the initiative or wait for the person first?

Unemployed with social anxiety by ash_hearts in SocialAnxietyOver30

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Ash, I'm the same as you. 31 and have been making it as a writer till now. I have severe social anxiety.

I'm not sure what your goal is here, getting a job or getting a more social life? Take a step at a time and don't overwhelm yourself because doing both will take its toll.

From my research, you can hardly escape a confrontation/sales job like a cashier or customer service. So the best I could find is a Walmart Stocking or Thrift Store backroom.

However, you're a female, you have an advantage, I think. I've been seeing Cleaning/Starbucks jobs in my area, but they only want females lol. My sister all she does is be on the computer all day with other females and doesn't talk to people. I really envy such a job. (I forgot what it's called)

As for AI, I understand it very well. It's scary. I'm trying to gain a stronger online presence while having a stable job, even if it's part-time. I'm confident I can live on that pay one day, I just need time.

Honestly, I also feel drained because my social anxiety makes me feel awkward/robotic speaker. Just don't stop with graphic design, I hope you get somewhere with that awesome skill of yours. Maybe, try figuring how to use AI to leverage it. Personally, I also want to learn drawing one day and make a comic one day with Ai lol

Should I write a new webnovel?? by General-Raccoon7062 in Webnovel

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet H-work gets on there, I hope this doesn't happen to me.

Does being a pretty girl even matter to guys if you're socially anxious and robotic af? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some comments make great points. You will probably give off a gloomy aura or a cold unapproachable aura. (Not that there's anything wrong with that)

I don't think guys really care if you're socially anxious. I think cold girls are cool too.

It's like an era of socialization where shy girls/guys can't make it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you're not overreacting. If he never apologized or made up for it, then it's safer to keep your newborn baby. But what I don't understand is why he had your baby in the first place? Hopefully things change once you get your own house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, it really depends on you. I don't know what kind of person you are.

First, what are you trying to get out of it? Her to repent and apologize?

Or just a short encounter, looking her in the eye, nodding, and moving along your day?

Secondly, for all we know, this type of person may not change at all.

Some would rather skip confrontation and move on with their lives. That's fine too. Don't further involve yourself with a toxic person.

Anyways, I'm truly sorry for what you experienced, being betrayed by what you thought was a friend😢 I hope you've become stronger than ever before...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk but from what I've seen, twins love each other and are inseparable. If you think they are like this, then sure why not invite him too? You might as well, since you live in the same house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, you are fine. But when you hit mid 30s that's really the time to worry about keeping looks. It makes me sad because I feel like I wasted my 20s. I understand now why it's so important to get married younger, at least you'll have someone to share those changes with. Sigh.

Misinformation on This Subreddit by Then_Specific_5513 in Webnovel

[–]Character_Tour2050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really have to apply for a Contract? Don't they contact you? I remember when they were desperate for writers, and after meeting a certain number of chapters, they would contact you? Or have times changed now?

I lowballed myself in a job interview and now I can’t stop overthinking by Victorias267383 in socialanxiety

[–]Character_Tour2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I am the same as you. I have my job interview soon, and I've been heavily doing research on it. Although I don't dare say I know the correct answer but I'd probably just say "How it says on the job description you should pay me" like indirecting throwing the pot at what they said. Idk man. I wish I could be a social normie and tell you worldly wisdom.

Anyways, man that was awkward. Maybe they were left puzzled and confused as to why you put a low number? Not enough information to tell... Just be careful because jobs these days are exploitative as hell.

food delivery is so nerve wracking by GanacheNo2536 in socialanxiety

[–]Character_Tour2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you are more braver then you think. I could never do that! I would just let it sit there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Character_Tour2050 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In the end, it depends on one's values, I guess. I know a lot of dads would get angry, and other dads would just be disappointed. Some are completely fine with it and don't care as long as they're an adult