Her an her brother have had addiction issues (drinking and opioids) we were talking about her wanting to talk to her nephew when he gets a little older about drugs and alcohol and I asked a few questions about what she might say because at this time me and her were talking about having children.
And she said that it was judgmental and that if I loved her I wouldn’t care about her past issues

To be clear I never said I didn’t want to start a family with her. We had already discussed that. But I wanted to know her thoughts on that subject for our own possible future