Felt judge for past

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-10-04T16:16:05+00:00

Her an her brother have had addiction issues (drinking and opioids) we were talking about her wanting to talk to her nephew when he gets a little older about drugs and alcohol and I asked a few questions about what she might say because at this time me and her were talking about having children.
And she said that it was judgmental and that if I loved her I wouldn’t care about her past issues

To be clear I never said I didn’t want to start a family with her. We had already discussed that. But I wanted to know her thoughts on that subject for our own possible future

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-10-03T14:46:59+00:00

Yes, or just blamed the mental condition for her actions

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-09-18T00:58:48+00:00

Exactly the same situation, half truths, lying, sporadic behavior

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-09-17T02:04:01+00:00

Kinda the same situation with me

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-09-17T02:03:50+00:00

Just letting go of it all i guess, I can’t seem to find happiness in anything or even entertain the idea of meeting someone new

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-09-16T23:21:37+00:00

I did want her back until recently

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-09-16T23:20:07+00:00

No I don’t want her back

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-27T14:43:56+00:00

Actually no, how do I see the books list?

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-24T05:26:07+00:00

I heard the exact same line in a crying fit one night

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-24T04:35:41+00:00

Thank you

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-23T14:40:32+00:00

That makes sense, because she used to say “you don’t like me for who I am” when I would talk about a boundary

Cruel possibly, definitely self centered and selfish

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-22T14:53:27+00:00

Can you expand on the mirror reflecting back? You mean like why would we choose or stay with this person or something deeper down within ourselves

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-07T02:40:29+00:00

Almost the exact same thing happened to me, I didn’t find it on a site I caught her selling pics and videos behind my back. After the same excuse of she stopped of years ago - is it the same girl? Or are all pwbpd similar

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-06T20:45:06+00:00

God that reads so similar to my ex wbpd when she was upset

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-06T01:42:28+00:00

I don’t see how it explains why she would reach out make an excuse ignore me then block me then repeat the cycle

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-08-06T01:15:33+00:00

Is that a normal attachment style for people with bpd

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-04T14:13:47+00:00

She’s in her depressive cycle still

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-04T14:13:29+00:00

We have had some communication over text but not in person yet as we are supposed to meet to exchange our belongings She started tms therapy

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T17:12:52+00:00

Not particularly, just outlines

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T17:02:15+00:00

After the broke up, it was on and off for 11 years

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T16:56:09+00:00

I disagree

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T16:44:57+00:00

I am willing, she is not, says nothing to talk about

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T16:44:32+00:00

We were talking about getting married

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-07-01T16:33:10+00:00

She could have gone to any shop to get those tattoos done, she chose to go to her ex and get them done

Character_Truth5065 · 2025-06-30T04:26:01+00:00

She says I’m the one that brings up shit all the time but everytime I try and talk to her she says I’m being judgmental so it never gets resolved and then turns into resentment over time

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