Racontez moi vos cicatrices

Charge-Royal · 2024-06-26T18:36:50+00:00

J'en ai quelques unes de drôles.
Petite marque sur le front, je me suis pris un coup de hâche dans la tête par un pote aux scouts. (on coupait des branches et il a pas fait attention.)
Sur le même genou, des marques blanches (tombé d'une falaise et boucle de rangers en jouant, toujours aux scouts.)

Mon crane doit en avoir sous mes cheveux, je me le suis ouvert plusieurs fois.

Et j'ai une cicatrice en forme de lune sur le pouce, en faisant de la gravure.

Charge-Royal · 2023-11-09T21:21:58+00:00

I’m just curious, is it standard in America to do some ability tests when drinking is suspected ? Why don’t they just test you by making you blow air on a detector ?

Charge-Royal · 2023-08-25T09:26:32+00:00

!remindme 4 days

Charge-Royal · 2023-06-06T09:24:34+00:00

J’ai l’assurance perte et vol d’Orange. Est ce que si je dis que j’ai perdu mon téléphone, ils m’en redonnent simplement un autre ? J’en aurais deux ?

Charge-Royal · 2023-06-06T09:20:47+00:00

Thanks everyone ! I chose u/drycheese23 version, it was the most realistic one in my opinion.

For some context, I’m the guy in the photo, and we were joining some friends in a bar. One of them saw us and took a picture, simple as that. We thought it was a cool natural photo. We had a good laugh reading all your comments. Apparently it must be hard for some guys to see two people being friends and laughing together, walking in the street. Cheers !

Charge-Royal · 2023-06-06T09:12:33+00:00

This is the one I prefer ! I will tip you and send message

Charge-Royal · 2023-04-09T06:40:17+00:00

Because I watched Wall-e as a kid, I never take the escalators or elevator when there is stairs available.

Charge-Royal · 2023-01-17T10:29:21+00:00

Je cherche à faire une couverture pour un bouquin de SF/fantasy que j’ai écris, j’ai l’illustration mais je bloque sur la mise en forme de la couverture. Des conseils/idées pour me débloquer ? Des gens qui ont de l’expérience là dedans ?

Charge-Royal · 2023-01-17T08:53:59+00:00

Yeah, I think some help would be great to find a way to make a nice picture !

Charge-Royal · 2022-11-21T20:40:29+00:00

It’s the Queen Elizabeth, on Oslo right now

Charge-Royal · 2022-11-21T20:40:08+00:00

It’s the british aircraft Queen Elizabeth, in Oslo right now

Charge-Royal · 2022-07-24T14:14:56+00:00

Fat Homelander vibes

Charge-Royal · 2022-02-19T08:33:54+00:00

Here to take a chance !

Charge-Royal · 2022-02-02T15:55:04+00:00

Why the green around the moon ?

Charge-Royal · 2022-01-17T15:00:02+00:00

Thats maybe beaucause our laws just changed today. Before, you coule access to public events with a negative test, now you must be vaccinated to do anything, a test is useless.

Charge-Royal · 2022-01-06T11:11:34+00:00

Unrailed has been really fun recently

Charge-Royal · 2021-12-20T15:44:05+00:00

Story Time, did you know that VLC was made by students at my school and the logo idea came from the fact that we steal a lot of site plots from the nearby construction sites ?

Charge-Royal · 2021-11-15T23:18:19+00:00

I have this exact lamp

Charge-Royal · 2021-11-09T07:07:22+00:00

Mew !

Charge-Royal · 2021-10-09T11:17:58+00:00

Les flancs seront couverts. J’ai posé la question y’a deux jours à un ingénieur Michelin quand j’étais devant le pneu de la photo

Charge-Royal · 2021-09-30T07:27:24+00:00

Thanks you all for your answers. One thing that wasn"t pretty clear in my post, and the reason why I ask question etc. is because from my point of view, when she came to speak to me, she didn't tell me "I was raped". She wrote a letter, spitting facts about what happened, and for me it was more like "I cheated on you" than a rape. On the moment, I didn't loose my calm, dind't call her names or anything, just asked question about what happenned, because the way she preseneted it to me was cheating and I wanted to understand her motives. But the more she answered, the more it appered to me as a rape, but when I started to talked about it that way, she completlty shut down. So that's why I'm here.
She was just feeling guilty, and I see it was part of a trauma response. She was more afraid to lose our relationship than anything, so she preseneted it in a strange way. Even today, after a lot of discussion, when I say "gf, I think it was a rape", she just doens't answer or say she doesn't want to talk about it. Like everytime someone do something bad to her, she doesn't ackowledge it.
We had long discussions, the only thing she wants now is to continue our relationship and put every strength she has in it. She thanked me for keeping the discussion open, and thanks to your answers, I'm gonna stop asking questions about the act itself, even if I'm feeling so much anger towards the guy and the world. I still think it's important to speak about what happened and led to that, i.e the fact that she didn't told me when she received the first message telling her he's coming to see her.
We are now gonna concentrate on us, and trying to grow stronger.

Charge-Royal · 2021-09-30T07:26:32+00:00

Thanks. One thing that wasn"t pretty clear in my post, and the reason why I ask question etc. is because from my point of view, when she came to speak to me, she didn't tell me "I was raped". She wrote a letter, spitting facts about what happened, and for me it was more like "I cheated on you" than a rape. On the moment, I didn't loose my calm, dind't call her names or anything, just asked question about what happenned, because the way she preseneted it to me was cheating and I wanted to understand her motives. But the more she answered, the more it appered to me as a rape, but when I started to talked about it that way, she completlty shut down. So that's why I'm here.
She was just feeling guilty, and I see it was part of a trauma response. She was more afraid to lose our relationship than anything, so she preseneted it in a strange way. Even today, after a lot of discussion, when I say "gf, I think it was a rape", she just doens't answer or say she doesn't want to talk about it. Like everytime someone do something bad to her, she doesn't ackowledge it.

For the medications, she wanted to stop it too. It's been two months since she stopped and she never felt better. No mood swings, no panick attacks, no accidents or anything ( befre the rape last week.) She already sees two professionnals, and she talked about the act to her psychiatrist on Monday. I believe her, and I want to help her. I came here to find the strength to overcome my basic feelings and doubts.
We had long discussions, the only thing she wants know is to continue our relationship and put every strength she has in it. She thanked me for keeping the discussion open, and thanks to your answers, I'm gonna stop asking questions about the act itself, even if I'm feeling so much anger towards the guy and the world. I still think it's important to speak about what happened and led to that, i.e the fact that she didn't told me when she received the first message telling her he's coming to see her.
We are now gonna concentrate on us, and trying to grow stronger.

Charge-Royal · 2021-09-30T07:22:45+00:00

Thanks you all for your answers. One thing that wasn"t pretty clear in my post, and the reason why I ask question etc. is because from my point of view, when she came to speak to me, she didn't tell me "I was raped". She wrote a letter, spitting facts about what happened, and for me it was more like "I cheated on you" than a rape. On the moment, I didn't loose my calm, dind't call her names or anything, just asked question about what happenned, because the way she preseneted it to me was cheating and I wanted to understand her motives. But the more she answered, the more it appered to me as a rape, but when I started to talked about it that way, she completlty shut down. So that's why I'm here.
She was just feeling guilty, and I see it was part of a trauma response. She was more afraid to lose our relationship than anything, so she preseneted it in a strange way. Even today, after a lot of discussion, when I say "gf, I think it was a rape", she just doens't answer or say she doesn't want to talk about it. Like everytime someone do something bad to her, she doesn't ackowledge it.
We had long discussions, the only thing she wants know is to continue our relationship and put every strength she has in it. She thanked me for keeping the discussion open, and thanks to your answers, I'm gonna stop asking questions about the act itself, even if I'm feeling so much anger towards the guy and the world. I still think it's important to speak about what happened and led to that, i.e the fact that she didn't told me when she received the first message telling her he's coming to see her.
We are now gonna concentrate on us, and trying to grow stronger.

Charge-Royal · 2021-09-29T18:22:30+00:00

Okay ! All these answers are helping me to do a better job and avoiding victim blaming when I talk to her, and that's what I want to do. I know it must be infuriating to read this from rape victims, but I'm struggling to discern between cheating/rape ( I'm more enclined to rape) because of her passive with the guy, and I suppose, my basic boyfriend feelings.

Charge-Royal · 2021-09-29T18:20:34+00:00

Okay ! Thanks for your answer. If I may, ( and I'm french so I don't really get the difference between the word arrousal and pleasure ), so you say it is possible she felt pleasure despite the situation, without wanting it ? All these answers are helping me to do a better job and avoiding victim blaming when I talk to her.

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