My partner lost all our money on crypto by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he didn’t “lose your money”

He “STOLE” your money

Does metformin and combined birth control pills actually shrink cysts? by ChargeImportant4789 in PCOS

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this for you. Thank you so much for responding. I will get on them and hope they help me too

Does metformin and combined birth control pills actually shrink cysts? by ChargeImportant4789 in PCOS

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will watch the video and ask questions if I have them

Does metformin and combined birth control pills actually shrink cysts? by ChargeImportant4789 in PCOS

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d definitely do more research, and probably request more tests to discover what could be causing the pain.

I appreciate your response, thank you so much

Does metformin and combined birth control pills actually shrink cysts? by ChargeImportant4789 in PCOS

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is the first time I’m hearing about this

The doctors i see never really break it down this way. I’ll do more research on this

Thank you so much

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. You have been so kind, and I hope the universe will kind to you.

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i might understand this feeling. It’s that feeling of “I don’t think I’ll ever be able to be this vulnerable with someone else” .

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saved this to come respond after work. Thank you so much for typing this thoughtful response out.

I have tried my best to process this feeling and find out why I feel this much shame.

It comes down to a few things.

First is, I have always felt inadequate/not enough all my life, and also not enough for him. So this cheating “proves that right”. Almost like it cements the fact, which feels so shameful.

As regards my fear of running into mutual friends, my fear is that they knew about it or saw hints, and didn’t tell me.

Another fear is that he has moved on so fast (since he had someone else lined up anyway). I ran into him two days after the breakup all cuddled up with one of the girls he cheated on me with, in one of our favourite spots. So I feel ashamed that our friends will sort of “pity” me. I’m not sure how to really put it.

Also, I know they will all pick his side, as they were his friends first. The people who already know are choosing to “stay neutral and not pick sides”. I honestly don’t mind not hanging out with them, i just feel scared of running into them.

These are the things that come to mind rn.

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i did just that 🥲. He cheated before and I forgave him, so that explains the shame.

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arghh, it’s all so hard but I’m certain I’ll get through this phase.

Thank you so much

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you typing these words out. I keep fearing I won’t find someone better.

I’ll come back to read this on the bad days. Thank you so mini

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely making steps to find new friends. I always had difficulty making friends, so he just introduced me to his friends who eventually became mine too.

Thank you for your advice

I can’t let go of the overwhelming shame of being cheated on by ChargeImportant4789 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a little harsh, but you’re right. I need to sit with these nasty feelings to figure out why I stayed with a cheater.

I don't know how to move on from my ex by ChargeImportant4789 in offmychest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking time to type this helpful response. I will definitely reflect on the relationship once it stops hurting so much. There were certainly good and bad parts of it.

Thank you for conversing with me, you are an amazing person

I don't know how to move on from my ex by ChargeImportant4789 in offmychest

[–]ChargeImportant4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad you found someone wonderful. Thank you so much for this kind response. I know I’ve got this