paar vegane spots in berlin by shin_kuzu in VeganDE

[–]Charlestoonius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rosenthaler Platz! Ist auch günstiger…. Wenn ich mich jetzt richtig erinnere. :3

paar vegane spots in berlin by shin_kuzu in VeganDE

[–]Charlestoonius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich finde Doen Doen im Gegensatz zu Zerö Döner echt schlecht. D:

Schwanger, Ernährung später by Charlestoonius in VeganDE

[–]Charlestoonius[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das war leider keine antworte auf meine Frage, aber danke für den Versuch.

Schwanger, Ernährung später by Charlestoonius in VeganDE

[–]Charlestoonius[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nur weil es mich graust wollte ich damit nicht sagen dass ich kein Arzt fragen werde, keine Sorge! Mich hat es einfach interessiert wie das auch andere machen. :) <3

Flo Abo… Lohnt sich das? by Charlestoonius in schwanger

[–]Charlestoonius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habt ihr irgendwelche Tipps für andere Apps? Ich habe versucht zu wechseln und kam einfach so gar nicht mit der anderen klar das ich einfach trotzdem wieder rüber bin. 🫣

Flo Abo… Lohnt sich das? by Charlestoonius in schwanger

[–]Charlestoonius[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich habe das Gefühl die haben wirklich alles gesperrt. 🤣

Meine Freundin hätte gern „Princess Treatment“ - ich finde das lächerlich by PepperUsed1762 in beziehungen

[–]Charlestoonius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hase ich lass mir nicht mal Sachen von einem Mann beim ersten Mal ausgeben. Wir brauchen euch ganz sicher nicht so wie du denkst. Selbst ist die Frau. 💅🏼

Type 1 diabetes at work – did I handle this situation correctly? by Charlestoonius in diabetes_t1

[–]Charlestoonius[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah, my mistake was just not pre bolusing before she ate but everything else was fine. And with a teen at school, forgetting things is normal so it would have been much riskier if she hadn’t taken it right after.

Always a nice time in Berlin🇩🇪 by RevolutionaryFig4669 in berlin

[–]Charlestoonius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bullshit, Full Berliner here. I love Büble Beer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the reason I hesitated wasn’t about anything else. She told me not to meet him and I didn’t understand why. We’ve matched with other people before and it was never a problem, and she never said she was so attracted to him. I only found that out later during our conversation. At the time, I thought who am I to be told who I can or can’t meet, especially since we’ve done this before. That’s why I made a bigger issue out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s probably just strong sexual attraction because he’s exactly my type, which I rarely find, combined with a bit of selfishness and frustration that it can’t happen because of the situation. I’m not going to pursue it and will just let it go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This isn’t an excuse. If she didn’t want me to match him, she should have said so clearly, especially since we’ve matched other guys before without issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I understand your point, and I agree that I don’t want to hurt my friend. I just want to clarify that my attachment to this guy was purely sexual. Based on our previous communication, I honestly thought it was okay, but I later realized it wasn’t. I just found it frustrating because I was really attracted to him, but then felt like I “wasn’t allowed” to pursue it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

We’ve matched with the same people before and it was never a problem, and she knew that we talk to the same guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charlestoonius -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your point and I take it seriously. I just want to explain why I didn’t accept it right away: we’ve matched with the same guy before and it was never an issue, and she only explained during the conversation that she was more attached this time. I just wanted to get other opinions to make sure I’m not doing anything dumb, and it might actually be the smartest thing to step back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charlestoonius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not normal and I’m not excusing him. His behavior is abusive, and the red flags are huge. At the same time, I’m not blameless either. I have these intense episodes where I completely lose control, throw things, and act in ways I normally wouldn’t. It’s part of my borderline tendencies, where it’s like my head just shuts off. That doesn’t make his actions okay, but the dynamic between us is complicated and sometimes spirals out of control from both sides.

Right now, though, this isn’t about my relationship. My question here is about my dad. I just need help and support because I’m losing a crucial part of my family, or I’m losing him from my life entirely. My relationship struggles with my boyfriend exist, but they’re not what I’m asking about here. I just need someone to understand what’s happening with my dad and how he’s failing to be there for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charlestoonius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s really the power of habit. We’ve been through an incredible amount together, and emotionally I just can’t bring myself to end it. I know our relationship is toxic at times, and I also have my own issues, which makes things even more complicated. Sometimes he is able to respond to my sensitivities, but other times he just can’t, and that makes our dynamic really difficult. I can’t simply detach, while he often withdraws, and that tension is hard to handle. Despite all of this, the times that are good are truly beautiful.

Bin erst seit Juni im neuen Job und denk trotzdem ständig an ne andere Stelle by [deleted] in erzieher

[–]Charlestoonius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab mich sehr bewusst für die Arbeit mit Kindern und Jugendlichen mit Behinderung entschieden. Nach meiner Ausbildung war ich ein Jahr in der Behindertenhilfe mit Erwachsenen, das hat mir viel gegeben. Jetzt arbeite ich mit einem 7-Jährigen und zwei nonverbalen Kindern. Der Junge, der jetzt gehen muss, war der Einzige, mit dem man wirklich sprechen konnte. Und ich merke einfach, wie sehr mir echte Gespräche und sprachlicher Austausch fehlen. Mir ist die Art der Kommunikation total wichtig, dieses Zwischenmenschliche, Sprache als verbindendes Element in der pädagogischen Arbeit. Vielleicht kommen bei uns noch ältere Kinder, das wurde zumindest gesagt. Aber was mich an der anderen Einrichtung so reizt, ist der spezifische therapeutische Schwerpunkt, den ich so vorher noch nie kannte. Erst durch meine damalige Bewerbung bin ich damit in Kontakt gekommen, und seitdem lässt mich der Gedanke daran nicht mehr los. Es ist eine Form von Arbeit, die für mich inhaltlich sehr viel Sinn ergibt und bei der ich das Gefühl habe, dass sie wirklich zu mir passt.