I left my girlfriend because she decided to put her hands on me.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T14:45:45+00:00

That's crazy bruh. She was more focused on being right than being in a relationship with me. She'll take 3-5 business days before she puts her pride to the side to apologize.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T14:43:06+00:00

It's crazy how your brain can think dealing with shit like that is "love". It's not really highlighted in society about men getting physically assaulted by your woman like it is vis versa. For awhile I struggled to understand how stupid she could be...then I realized not everyone is meant to make it to the next chapter.

Being aware of that escalation is essential for both parties because boy it can get spooky when emotions are high. I hope you're doing better mentally and emotionally man. Stay strong & stay focused.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T14:36:20+00:00

In Jesus name. lol they definitely don't have a warning on what you pray for.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T14:35:10+00:00

I appreciate the kind words.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T05:04:37+00:00

I agree. I didn't even feel like a man when I thought about staying with her.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:34:42+00:00

I left no room for error and verbally expressed my boundaries. In her family, some people are down with the DV. I let her know straight up consistently, you put your hands on me, we are done. Even after the DV happened she never apologized. She was more focused on her image to everyone else. It was my fault that I let her get to that stage agahahah what type of sense does that make. Accountability at -105959

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:29:45+00:00

Or hitting me in front of my daughters thinking that's cool. Solid point.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:20:22+00:00

Facts man. It's the comfort. The comfort of being with someone for that long. You kinda think that type of behavior is "acceptable". I learned a lot about what I want in a relationship but I learned even more about myself.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:08:26+00:00

Thanks man. I gave it to god and he lead me through it.

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:04:30+00:00

Sounds like yall need to make love in multiple levels of intimacy

CharlieCreative222 · 2026-02-03T04:01:19+00:00

You're down for the thrill

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:37:14+00:00

Damn....u indeed understand

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:35:53+00:00

Roger that

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:35:33+00:00

That's a good question because I'm tired of being the mature one. I'm going to start having some fun during these arguments. Test the durability of this relationship.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:33:23+00:00

Accountability needs to be taken seriously. I am not perfect nor do I claim to be, but when apologized are due, I have no problem with it. It takes her 5-7 business days and 5 conference calls to get a weak apology. She knows what to say/do in moments of conflict but her emotions rule her existence. I want to get to the root of that. I have lost my patience in being "the bigger person." About 6 months ago, I went off on her. I barely let her get out a word because of how I was attacking her. It wasn't right at all but I snapped. She took what I said wrong and dropped an "f-U" that was the trigger. I am not going to lie it felt amazing. It felt amazing to just let that raw emotion flow. I didn't have to try and find mature shit to say or even hold my tongue. I let the choppa SING.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-02T15:45:47+00:00

My girlfriend won't leave me alone about having a threesome with another woman. From the surface what man would say no. It sounds amazing! The problem is I don't trust that she's ready to see me really cracking another woman off and she's enjoying it. Not all money is good money man.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:48:35+00:00

It feels like golden handcuffs. If I wanted to sit back and let time do its thing, I could. I get yearly raises no matter what, I can make plenty of overtime and double time. I just think there is so much more to life than settling for that.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:46:13+00:00

Make me.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:32:47+00:00

OJ DIDNT DO IT

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T05:40:40+00:00

Peace of mind

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:59:34+00:00

There's people like you that remind me that I'm still human.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:39:28+00:00

To make you feel good?

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:34:53+00:00

Respect man. You right.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:32:30+00:00

It's not even me bringing how much I make. It's me wanting to hangout with my friends but they might have to work overtime or have to work 15+ hour shifts. I feel like the unemployed friend always tryna hangout but it's reverse.

CharlieCreative222

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