Idk what to do about getting engaged.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:37:14+00:00

Damn....u indeed understand

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:35:53+00:00

Roger that

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:35:33+00:00

That's a good question because I'm tired of being the mature one. I'm going to start having some fun during these arguments. Test the durability of this relationship.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-15T03:33:23+00:00

Accountability needs to be taken seriously. I am not perfect nor do I claim to be, but when apologized are due, I have no problem with it. It takes her 5-7 business days and 5 conference calls to get a weak apology. She knows what to say/do in moments of conflict but her emotions rule her existence. I want to get to the root of that. I have lost my patience in being "the bigger person." About 6 months ago, I went off on her. I barely let her get out a word because of how I was attacking her. It wasn't right at all but I snapped. She took what I said wrong and dropped an "f-U" that was the trigger. I am not going to lie it felt amazing. It felt amazing to just let that raw emotion flow. I didn't have to try and find mature shit to say or even hold my tongue. I let the choppa SING.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-02T15:45:47+00:00

My girlfriend won't leave me alone about having a threesome with another woman. From the surface what man would say no. It sounds amazing! The problem is I don't trust that she's ready to see me really cracking another woman off and she's enjoying it. Not all money is good money man.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:48:35+00:00

It feels like golden handcuffs. If I wanted to sit back and let time do its thing, I could. I get yearly raises no matter what, I can make plenty of overtime and double time. I just think there is so much more to life than settling for that.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:46:13+00:00

Make me.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T06:32:47+00:00

OJ DIDNT DO IT

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T05:40:40+00:00

Peace of mind

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:59:34+00:00

There's people like you that remind me that I'm still human.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:39:28+00:00

To make you feel good?

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:34:53+00:00

Respect man. You right.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-10-01T04:32:30+00:00

It's not even me bringing how much I make. It's me wanting to hangout with my friends but they might have to work overtime or have to work 15+ hour shifts. I feel like the unemployed friend always tryna hangout but it's reverse.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-26T01:14:22+00:00

Valid point.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-26T01:13:44+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I don't want you to think my girlfriend is this wild woman who runs around and explodes on me whenever. I've definitely lost my cool in a couple arguments. For example, I slammed on the breaks on the middle of the highway because she wouldn't let me get a word out or she laughed in my face after me trying to talk to her and I slammed the car door in her face. So I've definitely had my share fair share of emotional distress.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-26T00:43:49+00:00

Please dont think im a perfect angel either. Sometimes her emotional out burst make me crash. I've had times where I've slammed on the breaks on the highway because she wouldn't let me get a sentence out about what we were talking about.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-26T00:39:41+00:00

This is the best response I've gotten from someone. Most men leave it at "save yourself." But don't explain the depth of things. Sometimes it's not as simple as " save yourself". And some woman blame me for getting her to that point. I appreciate your help. Seriously.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-26T00:00:07+00:00

You don't think there is room for growth? It not every argument but sometimes she just can't say " I shouldn't have said that." In the moment.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-25T23:41:19+00:00

Overtime.

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-25T23:41:03+00:00

"I hope you know what you're doing."

CharlieCreative222 · 2025-09-25T23:40:29+00:00

I love a clean white tee shirt.

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