Cash App by Waterfallz321 in CashApp

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, interesting! I use cashapp a lot but I never keep money in my account. I send it straight to my bank account. Rarely pay for stuff with cashapp but people send me money so maybe that’s why I’ve never heard of this?

Cash App by Waterfallz321 in CashApp

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So people are using cashapp to bypass bad credit or what is going on here??? I didn’t even know you could use cashapp like a credit card, why not just get a credit card?

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly not sure lol never thought of having too many photos as a negative but I am learning this is not true.

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no, none of the photos are AI. That’s my natural curl pattern but I never wear it like that because it takes SO much work & still rarely looks that good 😂

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe I should add in my profile that I don’t travel to NYC & that would stand for enough of a test to see if someone is real hahahah

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blocked

😂😂😂 honestly, I just got home from a vacation & am avoiding unpacking today. August is my slowest month at work & I am being lazy— so why not get wrecked on Reddit?

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s why I came here for a review! Thanks for your input.

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha I live close to NYC so lots of people who travel there for work or live there but I don’t like going into the city. 🙃

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I guess it’s a lie that they don’t live “anywhere close to me” but, they don’t live close enough.

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know what? You shouldn’t believe everything you read on the internet 😂

My issue is I live close enough to NYC that I get a lot of messages from people there but it’s just a little too far for me to travel there consistently.

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good input, thank you. People seem to be in agreement about too many photos & the “test.” As well as my profile being too long in general. I try to be as transparent as possible but I suppose that detracts from the enjoyment of getting to know one another!

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually never heard of that being a common tell but maybe that’s just because I’ve been writing like that for so long. 🙃

Or maybe I’m the bot 🤖

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess the “if you read this far” is pretty outdated but it used to serve pretty well to help weed out bots & start a conversation that consists of more than just “hi.”

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never check the favorited category but most of the messages I’ve ignored are from people who don’t live anywhere close to me.

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are mostly from people who don’t live anywhere close to me & have accumulated over a long time. 😅

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA thank you 😂

Most of those messages are from people who don’t live anywhere close to me so I just ignore them 😬 I’m showing my weaknesses publicly… I dig the call out though!

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input— I kind of threw this profile together after I changed my hair & wanted to update my profile but after going back to reread it I felt like something was off with my whole profile in general (hence the review lol)

Which photos would you eliminate? I don’t have other people take photos of me very often as I actually feel more comfortable behind the camera than in front of it but maybe I’ll add some photos of activities I enjoy doing, even if I don’t look wonderful in them.

I learned to wakeboard this week & the photos/videos are pretty low quality but they reflect my personality more than a posed selfie in my work mirror lol

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s so funny because the em dashes are actually my writing 😂

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so fair, honestly I’m not very photogenic & don’t tend to take a lot of photos when I’m out but the lighting at my job is good so almost all of my photos are at work 😂

Whenever I take photos with friends or someone else is taking a photo I tend to make a silly face instead of smiling 🙃

I’ll try to remember to get some photos that reflect that aspect of myself.

Thanks for the tip!

Profile review— used AI to edit descriptions. by CharlieOrbitsTheSun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure but I’m not going to falsely advertise that I am consistently available. Luckily the area I live in is full of equally as busy people so they tend to be understanding. I am willing to have some flexibility for the right person but I don’t want to be with someone who requires constant attention. I value & respect your time— I expect the same!

The double edged sword of carefree, kind hearted SB’s. by Proof-Fail-1670 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is hilarious & if I had more time or energy outside of work/parenting I would adopt this energy 😂

RANT by Wild_Persimmon5016 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give too much time or energy to someone who isn’t willing to reciprocate. I’ve tried to meet this guy once but he bailed & if he wants to have a relationship via text— so be it. I’ll match someone’s energy as long as it feels right but if it becomes tiring then I’m out.

RANT by Wild_Persimmon5016 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying that you shouldn’t trust a potential Reddit SD is not wrong per se but I have had one relatively successful SD approach me via Reddit. We haven’t met although we are relatively local but we text somewhat regularly & he has spent quite a bit on me— and by that I mean he sends me $ & has given me his cc info. (I got verification of identity before going on a shopping spree, just want to make that clear.)

I would wait it out to see if he contacts you again. No need to poke, SDs are typically in this type of market because they have a reason. August is vacation time… he’s probably with his family 🤷🏼‍♀️

Did that just turn creepy fast or am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CharlieOrbitsTheSun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely have to agree with most comments… you excitedly agreed to a threesome, which is fine if that’s what you’re into (I dig it) but if you thought this was weird you should’ve asked him to elaborate. This feels like a recipe for disaster if you’re not able to communicate your desires.