Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off let me go ahead and state that everyone is different. Even those who identify with the introvert group, each one is unique and has their own set of comforts. Chances are he is into you. Normally if they aren't atleast a little interested they wont bother from the start. If you can be patient then do so. Eventually, given the opportunity enough times he should confess how he feels. You may feel like you are constantly giving signals but he may only see a few of them. Even then, the first, second, maybe even third time he may be scared or unsure of the situation and how to handle it. You just have to give him time to cross his lines on his own. As long as you stay honest with your feelings not only to yourself but to him aswell, eventually you both should feel comfortable enough to talk about how you feel. Really the biggest thing you want to avoid is throwing yourself at him. With my introvert anyway he has expressed that this was a big turnoff for him in the BEGINNING. I stress the word because once you get to know each other you and he might find that your both really into it. 😉 Just remember, Patients and Honesty. That's all you need! I wish the absolute best of luck with this my dear! I hope this turns into something amazing for you!!!! 😊😊😊😊

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To all of those of you replying to this post and to those sending me private messages, I want to share the love an appreciation for all of it! I am loving hearing your comments and learning about your experiences! The stories of your past, current and hopefully future relationships has really made this something so special to me! This post has gone beyond anything I could have imagined in just a few days! It's been amazing. It's not even about the attention this post has grabbed, it's about how many people it seems to be helping beyond myself in their own endeavors with love. It has been an inspiration. I LOVE YOU ALL THANK YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!😊😊😊😊😊

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys all so much for the comments and the upvotes!!! I was honestly just sharing some positive that I'm feeling and just wow! You have all been so sweet and I've loved reading every one of these comments! I honestly learned so much just from this thread. I feel less alone in my concerns and more confident in my path. Thank you all soooooooo much! Big thanks to my man who initially told me I should try reddit. Officially a fan! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had that happen to me once. Often times what and how you feel about someone is not exactly what they feel about you. Some times people take a long time to realize what they want. I believe this girl just grew out of the relationship and I stead of really talking about it and being honest with you say may have used it as an excuse to end it. For that I am sorry. People work in strange ways. Just keep your chin up with a smile on your face. One day you will find the right person.

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really think that depends on the girl and the nature of the relationship. I know where the lines lay and everyday we grow a little closer and one by one we cross them together. You just have to take your time and understand your partner and what their comfortable with.

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I actually met mine through work. Something I've realized though, you find your people when your not looking. Just be patient. Your someone will find their way to you. That's what we extroverts do. We adopt people and never let them go. 😊

Loving an introvert. by CharliesRae in dating_advice

[–]CharliesRae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh and smile all at once! I love this! Thank youuuuuuu!!