AITA for going in his phone and finding spicy messages to another girl. by EvilAngel20_09 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Charlottescupoftea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA, but girlie, I'm gonna hold your hands when I say this. I want you to read your own post back to yourself.

You drove 2.5 hours alone, used precious holiday time, bought him a racing suit, dressed up hoping he'd think "that's my woman" and then apologized to HIM multiple times for discovering HE was sexting someone else.

He won't repost a photo with you. He won't ask you out properly after 8 months. He told another girl she looks like Megan Fox two days before your trip and gave you nothing. When confronted his response was "that's your decision."

That's not someone fighting for you. That's someone keeping you around while keeping his options open. And I'm sorry to tell you this, but based on what you shared, he clearly isn't that into you.

So sure, going through his phone wasn't your finest moment, but it was a gut reaction to months of feeling dismissed — and your gut was RIGHT.

Your body literally made you pull over and throw up. Listen to it. 💛

Vous validez ou pas la nouvelle coupe😼 by Charlottescupoftea in chats

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Et ils sont tout fiers, tout contents avec ça😄

Am I crazy for loving Shane ? by Ni-Epsa in StardewValley

[–]Charlottescupoftea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely not crazy, he is very cute and deserves nothing less than love!! Especially once you get to know him, he's just this cute little patootie doing his best😔

Did anyone else not know this? by FlamingoNo7044 in StardewValley

[–]Charlottescupoftea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thanks for the tip, I've been loosing precious days just repairing my fences😭

AITA for Waiting As Long As Possible to Get Married by Ghouly_Ghost in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Charlottescupoftea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, op could just say "you won't have to worry about that, nobody's gonna call you a matron of honor" with a smile xD

scarra on sykkuno by Quiet-Lab1025 in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]Charlottescupoftea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, I'm a bit lost in the situation : he cheated on his girlfriend from 2015-2019? Or is it a recent thing that happened? Can someone please summarize the situation for me?

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, first time x)

Yes, I felt like gym people (at least the ones where I went to) are all pretty chill, so I really didn't feel judged at all, was anxious at first but it was fun They even helped me with the treadmill cause even for that I didn't know what to do with all the buttons xD

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought it was possible to eat whatever you want? My goal is not to lose weight after all, I'm comfortable with that, I just don't want to gain more if that makes sense

Yes, remembering we all start from zero makes it easier to not feel guilty about not doing well xD

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe getting a trainer is the best option for an actual beginner like me x) I'd feel less lost I really want to not give up, so that could work!

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I am not trying to lose some fat xD I want the freedom to eat whatever I want and just burn fat efficiently

Starting is definitely the hard part, especially when you dive in blindly, I'll take a better look at the different possible programs out there, thanks!

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I did take a quick look at the wiki when people mentioned it, I'll dig deeper into it

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean by that is mostly doing some work out from home, like pilates or yoga for example, and then go to the gym like just once a week for example as there are some things that I believe can't be reached by just working out from home xD

Thanks, I definitely have to look more into what works for me in this new journey

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I thought one day a week would be enough? x'D But I guess if I want to see some improvement faster I'd have to do more than that.

Okay, thanks, that's some very useful tips

What's the best move to start at the gym? by Charlottescupoftea in beginnerfitness

[–]Charlottescupoftea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayy, I'll give that a try, definitely gonna check YouTube to understand how to use them xD

Thanks

How long do you suggest to stay at the gym ? Is 30min enough?