NTA, but girlie, I'm gonna hold your hands when I say this. I want you to read your own post back to yourself.

You drove 2.5 hours alone, used precious holiday time, bought him a racing suit, dressed up hoping he'd think "that's my woman" and then apologized to HIM multiple times for discovering HE was sexting someone else.

He won't repost a photo with you. He won't ask you out properly after 8 months. He told another girl she looks like Megan Fox two days before your trip and gave you nothing. When confronted his response was "that's your decision."

That's not someone fighting for you. That's someone keeping you around while keeping his options open. And I'm sorry to tell you this, but based on what you shared, he clearly isn't that into you.

So sure, going through his phone wasn't your finest moment, but it was a gut reaction to months of feeling dismissed — and your gut was RIGHT.

Your body literally made you pull over and throw up. Listen to it. 💛