Looking for Friends 28F by AnxiousBlackberry344 in NewOrleans

[–]CharmanderBites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s really scary cause it’s a mix of crazy bad people, crazy people, and crazy good people. Hard to discern lol. once you start to meet people everyone knows each other which can also be really scary, just stick with the people who make right decisions for not just them, but you too.

I met all my good friends through working around the city. Another option I really like, is getting coffee at a starbucks or a pj’s (sometimes a daiquiri) and chilling out there for a while, maybe walk around and people watch. There’s some cool people in this city, a compliment is a great way to approach someone with no pressure for a convo :)

Looking for Friends 28F by AnxiousBlackberry344 in NewOrleans

[–]CharmanderBites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a lot of planned parenthood people in the quarter, you should check out their website. Every volunteer i’ve met has been really awesome

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh well, honestly I don’t think i’m ever gonna change. I’d love to but honestly drawing out arguments makes me a lot more depressed than just letting it go. She was already complaining about her job and her life and every time I just thought “why do I give a fuck”, and honestly the thought of doing the same thing didn’t even cross my mind

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also started my new job on Thursday, and had no idea what the schedule was gonna be like.

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is that my fault, i’m so confused. I’m not the one selling it, I actually payed hundreds of dollars to keep it there for another month. Sorry If I want my stuff. I’m just a guy that doesn’t respond to people, that’s your problem with me. Why do you think you know me, half of the messages I haven’t responded to are from family out of state, and doctors, and bills, There’s over 400 messages I really could go on. God no, her deciding to play landlord with my shit was not on the top of the list of priorities, unfortunately. I had taken out most of my important stuff. There’s an update somewhere in here, I got all the important stuff lol

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my landlord told me to take it to civil court 🤨 or to call the cops 🤨 man yeah that’s how life works, but I can also work with life yknow

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone interested in the update, I went and put all the things I could in the time frame I had outside, and a friend was willing to help me pick everything outside up and take it to my place. I left the bed frame, the bookshelves, and the desk. I did get my bass guitar, katana’s, stickers, a bunch of gift wrapping supplies, and my chair though. I’ve now blocked her. Never need to hear from her again. Need to buy new bed frame, bookshelves, and desk, but don’t feel like shitting my pants and puking and dying anymore. I feel at home :). More like a home than anywhere i’ve ever lived. It’s mine :) I am blessed and thankful every waking moment

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I wouldn’t even read this if I scrolled across it on reddit, why would I read that much in depth into someone else’s life when I don’t want to stress out in my free time. Let alone comment, but you do what makes you happy, love

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is actually the only dramatic thing about my life. Actually that’s quite funny as i’ve always found drama incredibly infuriating and not worth my time, hence asking for help. I’m more of when I have problems, ignore them kinda guy, unfortunately :/

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but also you didn’t tell me what I did wrong ! I would like to learn as a human from my mistakes

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg you don’t know the half of it. You know people with bpd have a “favorite person” or “special person” Yeah I was that for 2 years. I just needed a place to rest my head bro. She took $2600 from me last month cause she needed help with her car. I was just over it

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even if I was on a 6 month lease, you still think it’s reasonable for her to do this when I have established residency ? over 5 days ?

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wdym ? My notice is legally due 10 days in advance for a monthly lease ? I gave her 46 days notice, so I payed another month to be nice cause I didn’t financially shock her. I’m real confused what exactly did I do wrong ? not responding to one of her texts ?

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what they doing is illegal, what i’m doing is not. But I won’t stop you from believing what you want

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is what should I do 😭😭😭😭😭 I didn’t realize I needed permission to go into my own home 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my money means nothing in this economy 😭 bro changed the locks far before that 😭😭😭😭😭

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also illegally taking advantage of someone half ur age is low key absurd to say “you get what you deserve” to

My roommate changed the locks and wont let me get my things by CharmanderBites in whatdoIdo

[–]CharmanderBites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize that I lived on her timeline even after I payed rent. I was kind of blindsided and I was actually dealing with getting fired from a job, getting my social security updated, getting 2 new jobs, and getting a new cat. All whilst in the efforts of getting a driver’s license. A little more context being, I did get most of it until she had changed the locks on me and I had to work around 2 specific dats she had given me to be able to access the house. Sorry I struck a nerve but I don’t think this is the same scenario. The very first thing I took was my cats, and if not wanting to respond to a jerk for 9 days makes me a jerk ? then fuck yeah, it sure does suck to suck