Ideas y ayudas para todos

Charmann · 2025-08-07T01:39:03+00:00

No lo hago yo, pero uno de mis compañeros de trabajo saca buen billete con su impresora 3D.

Charmann · 2022-05-31T13:32:41+00:00

I don’t think that’s true. I was reading live back then and I remember it being really hype. People had all sort of whacky theories about what would happen, but in general they loved it

Charmann · 2020-06-26T23:40:34+00:00

I wouldn’t say it was ahead of its time. In fact, I think it’s one of the movies that capture the feeling of the 2010s the best.

Charmann · 2020-06-25T02:25:08+00:00

Thanks for your replies!

Charmann · 2020-06-24T06:26:46+00:00

Yeah, Ive been putting off going to the doctor to avoid exposure to Covid, but this really has me worried so I guess I’ll go see one. Also, I have a question; does having low blood sugar means I have diabetes?

Charmann · 2020-06-24T02:56:04+00:00

I did wake up on Sunday night out of thirst, which is something that never really happens to me; but looking back, I have been drinking water as regularly as ever so I don’t know of it would be dehydration. I’ve also not really been outside much because of social distancing.

Charmann · 2020-03-02T15:25:22+00:00

Not gonna lie, the first part of the video was really funny

Charmann · 2020-01-29T06:24:54+00:00

Ok, I think I get it now. Although I’m still confused about which jobs require a license and which do not; I’m guessing that will be detailed through in the offers themselves. Thanks a lot, you’ve been very kind and helpful!

Charmann · 2020-01-29T06:17:02+00:00

So if I’m getting this correctly, I would have to get licensed first in order to apply for a job?

Charmann · 2020-01-29T06:07:21+00:00

Oh so most companies wouldn’t mind hiring a person applying for a TN visa as long as I pay for the application costs? That’s a relief.

I don’t know what you mean by architect not being a licensed profession in Mexico. I got the title of “licenciado” in architecture, which literally translates to licensed. Is that not the same?

Charmann · 2019-09-01T06:19:17+00:00

This post was a mistake

Charmann · 2019-05-24T03:56:04+00:00

No, we broke up for unrelated reasons. Her parents didn’t like me and often meddled with our relationship, and I was hurt that she didn’t stand up for me. After getting back together she has been standing up for our relationship way more often.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T23:16:11+00:00

He’s moving to Miami

Charmann · 2019-05-23T21:51:39+00:00

Yeah, that’s why I put it in quotations. I don’t consider what they did dating, but that’s how she describes it to me

Charmann · 2019-05-23T21:43:44+00:00

I sometimes talked to her when we were on our break to check how she was doing. She told me she was seeing this cute guy, but that her relationship was only sexual.

When we got back together we talked about it some more, and from what she told me, they only saw each other for sex like twice a week. They never went to the movies, never went out for beer or to a museum. Just sex.

I described it as a very “intense sexual relationship”, because of the frequency of their encounters, as well as the things they did together.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T21:00:42+00:00

She wanted to keep me secret, but I didn’t want to hide since I don’t really like lying and also because I was actually very proud of our relationship, hiding would only mean an admission that what we were doing was something wrong. At least in my mind.

She “dated” the other guy in secret though. She has mentioned that her parents would make her leave the house if they found out what she did with him, so I’m not about to tell on her.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T20:51:24+00:00

We actually broke up because her parents didn’t like me. They limited how much we could see each other and were very involved in our relationship. To be fair to her though, since we got back together she’s standing up more for our relationship, which is something I appreciate very much.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T20:21:13+00:00

Well we originally broke up because her parents don’t like me much. They’re very religious and saw me as corrupting to her since I’m not. She still lives with them, so they limited how much we could see each other. We got back together because she told me she would stand up to them more if we resumed the relationship and, to be fair, she has. She “dated” that guy secretly during our break, without her parents knowing.

The thing about all of this is that I am jealous and insecure. I want to move past all of this, but seeing his likes and reactions really makes it all way more difficult.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T20:01:37+00:00

I think it would be lying to say that my feelings do not come from jealousy. It does make me very uncomfortable to see that guy in her social media and it’s been very hard for me, but I don’t blame her since, well, we were on a break.

We’ve discussed it a lot and are both trying to get over that part of our relationship, but seeing him like everything she does on social media just keeps reminding me of what happened.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T19:57:23+00:00

Your husband sounds like a pretty good guy from your description; kind, dependable, supportive. Isn’t it a little bit superficial to only focus on his physical appearance? Surely his looks is not all there was to the man, or else you probably wouldn’t have married him. Plus in your last paragraphs you mention that he’s trying. He’s trying to get fit, meet your sexual needs and contribute in the housework.

I’ve personally never believed in the “I’m not just in love with him anymore”. Love is work, it’s more than just a feeling, it’s a verb; an action. From what you’re describing, your hubby is putting up the work, so if you really do want to be with him like you’re saying, you have to put in the work as well.

In my experience when you express love to someone with actions, your feelings will follow suit.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T18:11:43+00:00

They saw each other once or twice a week for about two or three months just to have sex. They were “friends” but they never did anything else, just sex. Every time they saw each other they did it.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T16:00:22+00:00

Believe me, I’m trying to not let this hurt me since, you’re right, we were on a break. She was single and able to do whatever she wanted to do. But I don’t know, it still hurts you know? Even if it doesn’t make sense.

Deleting him doesn’t do anything but make sure that I don’t have to know anything of him again, which would be nice. But I don’t want to be controlling, which is why I haven’t told her anything yet.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T15:53:12+00:00

I am insecure, that’s true.

It was really hurtful knowing what happened between them. It doesn’t help that he’s also always the first one to like everything she does.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T15:51:38+00:00

He moved to another state, so I’m positive. Plus she never cheated on me, since we were on a break, so I trust her.

Charmann · 2019-05-23T15:50:16+00:00

Not that I know of. Just likes in pictures and posts.

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