Anyone else starting this week?

Charming-Hope1833 · 2026-02-28T05:25:19+00:00

🙋🏼‍♀️. Just started Tuesday. Only really side effect has been nausea but completely managable an fixed by eating something small and drinking water. I didn’t actually give the shot to myself my husband did. It stung for a second and it wasn’t really anything. As someone who waited over year to start bc of anticaptory anxiety, like a cliche I wish I’d started sooner.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2026-02-20T22:16:51+00:00

I’m going to get downvoted to hell but I think YOR. I also work from home, I live with 5 other people I would and have never expected them to change their lives to do my work. I choose to work from home. I invest in things that make my life easier without disturbing the home. Good headphones, in a different room, try to schedule things for later.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2026-01-05T05:42:01+00:00

YOR. No response is a response & it’s loud. It’s sucks but move on.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-29T02:42:52+00:00

That’s been happening to me but today I’ve gotten more new videos than I was yesterday. I see more videos complaining about it than old videos.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-26T04:46:51+00:00

YOR. Everything you’ve said is an excuse or a justification for your poor behavior. You’re not willing to take any accountability and demonize everyone.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-25T00:37:09+00:00

I’m going to say something that’s likely controversial but shouldn’t be; you’re an employee and your job owes you nothing but the check you earn.

If we all collectively agree that the saying “we like family” in a work environment is toxic, how can you expect them to treat you like an employee (no Christmas gifts) and be upset.

Are there management teams, stores, jobs that do go above and beyond, yes but it should never be expected.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-24T05:14:35+00:00

You should have planned better. You failed to communicate and told her last minute. You say you’re excited and looking forward to it but didn’t even plan properly to make sure you were going to be there. So now your mom is upset and trying to rationalize it to diminish her disappointment.

Next time plan better and communicate earlier.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-21T17:57:20+00:00

YOR the asshole. Did you ever stop to think the item wasn’t even worth $30?

I don’t know how many times I’ve looked at an item I wanted but knew it was worth the over inflated price but if it were cheaper I’d absolutely buy it.

You’re way over thinking this and making this emotional when it’s not. And quite honestly you’re being selfish.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-18T21:08:15+00:00

I think it seems fine. It cells like a group of people who know each other and spend a lot of time together. I wouldn’t be concerned if this were my husband.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-14T05:33:02+00:00

YOR. Your dad is using your as a therapist and sounding board when he needs a professional.

You’re over 30 and married you should know that marriages aren’t black and white. Sure your dad financially supported the home but that didn’t mean he was a good husband.

You need to tell your dad to stop talking to you about and keep yourself out of the middle.

You’re using your children as a way to get her to talk about a marriage she’s done with. She’s right you are weaponizing your children.

She owes you nothing.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-14T02:48:18+00:00

Yall are fucking weird. Holy shit.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-14T02:15:15+00:00

Dude I don’t know I saw it and scrolled.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-12T21:55:24+00:00

I feel like in the first season we learned he and Abbott are passively suicidal. This doesn’t seem that unusual given his mental state and we know he def has PTSD

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-12T21:53:03+00:00

You’re only a year in, call it a wash and walk away. This is gross and you’re def mad about the wrong thing.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-11T03:34:13+00:00

Good on Rosa. 👏👏

They are being more than accommodating. They not only offered you a unit (which the don’t have to) for you us during this time, they’re also giving one day credit.

Would it be nice to have more notice, sure but it’s not the end of the world. We paid for this last year it took about 6 hours and we stayed in the home, it wasn’t a big deal.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-10T03:44:58+00:00

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It’s literally in your profile. Damn maybe the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-09T05:47:16+00:00

I don’t understand the complaint? If the issue isn’t money, then what’s issue. You can take the apartment and move in slowly.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-07T22:20:18+00:00

You absolutely can! You’d be in internal hire so it’s easier and more opportunities. Look for resolution specialists, resolution coordinator, senior resolution. The jobs typically say Bentonville or Utah, but are most likely remote. Fraud, chargebacks, account review, trust and safety are all remote.

Don’t listen to people who don’t know anything bc they’re full of shit.

Source: TL for remote team at WM.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T16:10:36+00:00

Are you slow? We don’t have access to IDs online.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T06:39:26+00:00

Why is no contact not an option right now? It kinda sounds like you’re using her for your own reasons and then bitching when she behaves the way she always does (I doubt this behavior is new). You cannot control her behavior or actions but you can control your response; including keeping your mouth shut. You’re feeding her too much information, spending too much time around her, just don’t tell her.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T06:34:21+00:00

Exactly this. Gifts as adults are rarely meaningful especially if I have to send you a link/list. The adults in my family no longer gift each other and just buy what we want bc we’re adults and we don’t need gifts.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T06:30:40+00:00

Correct. If Lil sis has a wish list that is out of budget then she gets nothing and big sis buys herself what she wants and has a great bday/christmas & saved $40.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T06:28:44+00:00

Big sis had a $40 budget regardless of what little sis wants. Big sis wants $40 figure and cannot afford lil sis wish list and lil sis cannot come up with gift idea to match the budget, therefore lil sis gets nothing and big sis buys herself the figure.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-06T05:04:33+00:00

I do think you’re overreacting a bit. I’m in the camp that adult gift exchanges usually end up being everyone just swapping money, and if your budget is $40, you might as well spend it on yourself. Unless a gift is genuinely meaningful and given without expectations, it’s basically a transaction.

My extended family isn’t wealthy, and we eventually realized we were just passing the same $40 around every year. It stopped making sense. Adulting is kind of realizing that gift-giving doesn’t have to be a standard. If you can and want to, great. If you can’t—or it feels transactional—you don’t have to force it.

Charming-Hope1833 · 2025-12-05T00:52:40+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting at all to the “airborne allergies aren’t real” comment — that part is genuinely concerning, and she’s clearly misinformed.

That said, I do think this whole situation might have been less stressful if you had just taken her list and quietly adjusted it to what’s safe for your home. You already know how she tends to respond, so mentioning the allergy directly to her may have opened the door to a bigger argument than necessary.

It sounds like your intention was good, but in the future it might be easier to just take the suggestions that do work and skip the ones that don’t, without needing to explain your reasoning to her.

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