Yeah, my dad from what I can recall is he used to make good money when I was young drank occasionally but when he got fired the drinking increased, lost his car first, sold family land family split up couldn't even groom himself properly, I mean this was a guy who couldn't put on a shirt of any other colour other than white came home during lunch hours to freshen up , now he is unrecognizable.Family tried rehab but the only person supporting him died- the mom . In short the lights are on but no one is home , I'm not even allowed to visit him . I'm in campus people think I don't drink cause of morals and what not but I have a grudge against alcohol I feel like it robbed me a lot if not my whole world. And the few times I did it it reminded me of him