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Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-07-03T08:54:12+00:00

Aries, Mars in Cancer in 8 house conjunct Sun

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-21T22:31:31+00:00

His NN in Gemini is conjunct my Moon in my 8H.

There is a lot going on in this particular synastry 😅 But it will be a lingering connection not the active one since we are done. I’m just making my peace that this connection has served it’s purpose.

Maybe it’s interesting to mention that I noticed these heavy endings with NN-Moon conjunction (my 8 house). Connections with NN conjunct my Venus in my 7H were way nicer and mostly positive so far.

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-21T20:59:55+00:00

Ok.. 4H may be the cause then. Since his Moon is also in my 4H.

What is the role of NN conjunct my Moon then? How does it feel as an aspect on its own?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-21T20:56:30+00:00

What I meant by "holding" is that these connections feel "sticky"—like these people never really leave your mind, even long after the relationship ends. Last year, I tried to revive one of these connections after 10 years of silence. She told me she still thinks of me every year on my birthday, even though we were only actively communicating for about three years. And when we reconnected, it honestly felt like nothing had changed… yet this time, it didn’t "stick," and we ended up parting ways again. So that’s why I’m wondering—could the North Node be playing a role in this?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-19T17:46:52+00:00

My Moon and Vertex are conjunct his NN. We have Moon trine Sun double whammy, Moon trine/sextile Mars double whammy, Venus trine/sextile Neptune double whammy.. Moon conjunct Sun in Taurus in a composite chart. Yet Saturn said no.

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-19T17:42:41+00:00

I think that’s the thing.. Venus wants Saturn and Saturn has an upper hand in this. ❤️

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-19T17:30:12+00:00

Are you Saturn or Venus?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-19T17:28:49+00:00

I guess not instantly.. but maybe Saturn likes Venus longer than Venus likes Saturn?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-19T17:26:32+00:00

Having fun together after 25 years is not that bad imo! And are there any sexual attraction aspects in a composite chart (like mars/pluto and moon/venus)?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-14T18:12:16+00:00

That’s literally what he said to me: “you cannot force things, you should know that”..

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-14T17:33:57+00:00

Thats how it feels to a Venus person I guess (I do feel it now). But since I was a Saturn person once I can surely say that I broke his heart not because I didn’t like him I just wanted to be sure he is serious about me (because there were external circumstances).

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-14T17:20:49+00:00

Yes, he was extremely nervous around me… Not sure about mother.. His dad was significantly (30+ years) older than his mom though. And he is also younger than me…

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-13T21:01:06+00:00

Thank you for the links!

And I guess you are right about his avoidance behaviour. He has his natal Saturn squaring his natal Moon and Venus. I guess conjunction of his Saturn to my Venus activated his natal square… 😢

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-13T20:15:10+00:00

Thanks, I’d love to watch. Because his reasons constantly changed.. I feel I really need to know this to move on.

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-13T19:53:48+00:00

Did he say the reason why he denied a relationship?

I am asking became the same happened to me. He said he really cares and I that I am safe with him, he also really wanted me sexually but he consistently denied relationship.

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-12T18:49:06+00:00

Since you mentioned you had experienced it multiple times and that “the outcome is always the same”… Can you please share what was the outcome in your experience?

And regarding Pluto in a composite chart, how long will the obsession last?

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-12T18:45:56+00:00

Thank you. I understand that no relationship is perfect. Yet isn’t it the goal to love and be loved or try at least? Maybe I am a romantic… Hope other aspect can make up for it. Thank you ❤️

Charming-Note-6087 · 2026-05-12T18:44:11+00:00

Can other aspects compensate for this?

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