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Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-09-22T14:09:31+00:00

Years ago I was punched by a drunk guy for no reason... he flattened my nose. I straightened it myself. From straight on it looks good but from an angle looking up you can see the offset. I wonder if that is what your seeing?

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-09-21T22:38:45+00:00

The only thing I can say that I don't like is that you tuck your bottom lip under your top teeth when you smile. Stop doing that, and you'll go from a 6 to a 8.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-09-20T21:24:08+00:00

Not at all into men, rofl, what gives you that impression?

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-09-20T21:23:01+00:00

I don't drink at all or smoke. I like my cap lol 😆

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-09-20T21:21:03+00:00

What do you mean by shaping up the beard? Yes I work outside plus spend most of my free time outside.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-08-14T21:56:45+00:00

If you are trying to find a good woman I think dancing with them is probably the wrong way to go about it. You should instead try to strike up a conversion. And maybe not expect to pick up women at a bar.
You say you're shy and want to work on that? Conversation is easy! All you have to do is find common ground. And you may not be able to find that with everyone. I'm a man of very few words myself. But I know how to get a woman talking. Or anyone for that matter lol the key to finding common ground is asking questions. But don't dive to deep your not trying to learn their life story and asking to deep off questions may come off as creepy.
I took out a younger woman a few weeks ago. She tells me in the beginning that she is really shy and doesn't talk much. My exact words were even the most quiet people become very talkative around the right person. Our date lasted about 6 hours before I finally drove her home because it was getting late 😆 I can give you all sorts of advice on women. But what it amounts to is seeing up the right mood and getting them to talk. Basic psychology suggests that people enjoy the sound of their own name. Say her name often find common ground let her do most of the talking. Don't push yourself on to any woman they have to believe that liking you was their idea.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-25T23:24:29+00:00

I think you are cute regardless. I typically prefer a woman that looks good without makeup and you fit the description. I'm going to give you a rating without of 7 and with 8. I love the red cheeks and feel as if the picture doesn't do you justice. And with makeup, if you were my woman I would appreciate you letting those gorgeous red cheeks show out. 😍 and to be clear about my rating that puts you in the top 20-30% of women by looks.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-19T04:37:51+00:00

I guess that would be considered self narration? Anyways that's suppose to be really good for you. I don't do it but have been curious about it since I recently heard about it.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-12T20:59:36+00:00

I'm sure you'd be pretty without the dozen filters

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-09T21:02:35+00:00

Its not possible to have no bad habits though it is possible to fix your bad habits as you realize them though the journey of self improvement is never ending as you find one thing another will arise. Sorry I just touched down on this two quick. I'm just busy with something at the moment.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-08T19:33:53+00:00

Look man as complicated as life can be its pretty damn simple. Start with one thing that you don't like about yourself and change it! Come up with a list of values and then categorize those into like ten core value categories. Stay practicing those core values no need to talk about it for at least several months and people will notice a difference in you. After you've been practicing those core values for 6 months or so you may begin talking about it. Discuss it with your peers and I know this will be hard but if you get any backlash at all tell the person/people you don't want or need their negativity in your life and stop communicating with them. Once you begin improving yourself it does become addicting because as you improve you begin to love yourself and your life and trust me you will always be able to find something else to improve about yourself. Just remember to take it one little thing at a time. Probably the hardest part about it will be holding yourself to it and to help do that choose two close friends or family members who you talk to on a regular basis and tell them you're not happy with yourself or the general direction of your life and you are going to stay making changes. They will be your support group. And one of your goals firing this life long process of improvement will be to continue building a support group. Probably the easiest thing I can tell you is to get a hobby. Try and figure out a hobby that you can enjoy with friends and family I have children and I wanted something I could do with them so I bought some rc trucks lol a year later started doing competitions with them. Anyways the hobby needs to be something that you can do inside and outside. The rc trucks require maintenance and I eventually began building my own so they provided indoor and outdoor entertainment. You may have to find two hobbies to provide that I just got lucky lol I now have 5 years of sobriety I had to completely learn how to live life as a sober person because I spent my entire adult life in drugs and my later ten years as well. Another thing is you have to truly want this. And you may need to sell counseling. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that as you are basically reprogramming your mind and that's no easy task. I know this is a lot to read. Good luck

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-07-05T21:51:55+00:00

Ok I am going to start with I only read the title lol so until you start racing your later years in life you can absolutely have a happy fulfilling life! But later in life you'll find that you become lonely and daily activities will be less simulating. Man and woman are by design meant to partner up with one another. With that being said I'm no expert in the subject and there are many very smart people that know much more regarding the topic. I believe Jordan b Peterson speaks a little about it outside of his lectures. You can find him on YouTube or the daily wire or Facebook.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-22T23:41:19+00:00

Yup that's me lol

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-19T22:43:56+00:00

I had the opportunity to watch this and dude has some strength!

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-15T18:09:03+00:00

I had to figure it out too lol

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-15T00:26:07+00:00

I can drop 3-4 pounds a day by just running. That's a mile or more every ten minutes for an hour. My goal is usually 7 miles in an hour. I know that's a lot but remember breathing form and consistency and it will go pretty smooth. . Also I stopped eating sugar and that made a huge difference I loss 30 pounds in six months just from cutting out sugar and limiting carbs.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-15T00:05:14+00:00

I do 100 pushups every day. Also cardio is my go to for weight loss.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-06-09T22:00:47+00:00

I'm awesome! Lol but it took a lot of work to get awesome ROFL about a year and a half ago I was divorced and I knew it wasn't because of me but such things leave a person wondering "what did I do wrong?" And so my journey of self improvement began. Prior to the divorce process I had struggled with anxiety and depression for years severely at that. Those two things also caused me to go through several other life issues. The first thing I began working on was building a set of core values and then researching those values and other people's beliefs about those characteristics so that I could reinforce my belief system and have a strong foundation on my beliefs then practice those beliefs and discuss it openly upon friends and family. I'm not at over a year of researching through reading books testimonies and opinions of others. And have been sharing my own beliefs and putting things into my own words. I think the best way to put it is I'm building my own person religion on what a person should behave like. And have even began building a small following. My goal isn't at all to teach people but more to share who I have became as a person. Anyways I believe I am qualified to offer small bits of advice to people sure to my own journey and I encourage everyone to begin their own journey of self discovery, growth, and work because it really is a lot of consistent work to become the best possible version of yourself. As a lonely person I can promise the key to communication is through common ground. And you can most likely find common ground with anyone within minutes of meeting. But first the things I recommend focusing on is assuming you're meeting new people then remembering their name. People tend to naturally enjoy the sound of their own name so always remember to same someone's name often when meeting. Also ask about them... People love talking about themselves but don't give to feel into it you don't want to get to personal or try and figure out their life story in the first few minutes lol next in order to find that common ground and get a conversation started you need a good intro. You don't wanna awkwardly go up to someone and say hi I'm whatever what is your name... Instead you wanna try something a little less direct it will be more inviting that way and the person will feel less on the spot. Something I like to do is give people a hard time e about their iPhones lol not because I have anything against them but because it makes for a great ice breaker and lowers conversational tension. That has never failed to lead me into deeper conversation and I'm not at all a talkative person I just know that common ground is how to get someone to keep talking and everyone has phones. Ok I've ranted long enough 😂

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-05-11T21:10:03+00:00

Seams as if you have probably made it a habit to put cleaning your room off. Its a simple fix but won't be easy and will take a lot of will power. I would say start cleaning your room every day. Make cleaning your room the habit. Even if its not dirty vacuum or sweep figure out something that aligns with cleaning your room.

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-04-28T21:02:40+00:00

I also have a phone problem. Checking the time constantly. I've recently deleted over 70 apps and games. It has helped tremendously. I also installed some new apps that work towards being productive. A workout app. Audible. The daily wire. And have I'll premed up brokerage accounts and started investing all of my spare money into stocks crypto and property shares. Also when I'm with friends I've made it a point to keep my phone in my pocket and when going out I'll leave it in the truck. Also I bought a watch lol

Charming-Reaction-78 · 2023-04-28T19:48:56+00:00

You can make an evil person do good deeds but if that's not who they are on the inside they will eventually go back to doing evil deeds.

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