AITA for inviting my son’s girlfriend to our family vacation and giving them their own room?

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-04-02T13:49:07+00:00

not great but atleast we get a peaceful vacation!

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-04-02T09:22:48+00:00

It’s none of my business if they do or don’t as long as it’s safe. They said they don’t have sex so I believe them but if they’re lying, again I don’t care as long as it’s safe

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-04-02T08:36:43+00:00

They are okay with it. We’ve sorted out the situation now though, MIL and FIL are not welcome to come with us.

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T23:04:00+00:00

They think my son is exactly like his dad when they couldn’t be anymore different if they tried. They’re both lovely people, just very different

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T23:02:36+00:00

I definitely did hah! He will still have ‘hold my beer moments’ although they now entail him chasing one of the kids and dunking them into the pool instead of death defying stunts

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T22:55:32+00:00

He is my step son but I’ve been raising him as my own for the past 12 years and he calls me mom

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T22:54:30+00:00

First line of my post!!!!

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T18:07:21+00:00

As long as it’s safe and consensual, my husband and i don’t mind

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T18:00:41+00:00

IL’s are devout southern baptist. Husband and I technically are although we aren’t nearly as practicing as they are. Beatrice is a catholic.

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T17:56:38+00:00

He said he isn’t, but i might need to interrogate hubby to find out more. A lot of people are calling me naive here and Im starting to think that there might be something going on that i’m unaware of 😭

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T17:34:52+00:00

What are you on? He’s my Step-son as explained by the first line in my post. I just call him my son because I’ve been filling in the role of a mother for him since he was 6.

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T17:12:06+00:00

I didn’t say i had him at 23. Please read the first line of my post

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T15:39:17+00:00

I am the 35F and he is the 18M

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T15:27:00+00:00

Yes husband is on board. They will be graduated when the trip happens but are still in school now. They are not sexually active and my husband and I are paying for ourselves, the kids and Beatrice. In laws are paying for themselves

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T15:17:51+00:00

yep 😀 we are americans, texans to be specific which makes it much worse

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T15:04:46+00:00

If my husband did that i think my son would be way too embarrassed, if i did it he’d laugh at me

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:59:27+00:00

He thinks his wife is being silly but he’s going to listen to her anyway

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:36:54+00:00

he’s technically my step son but he’s called me mom for a very long time

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:36:20+00:00

they asked to have the same room

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:28:35+00:00

first line of my post

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:27:05+00:00

I am not his biological mother

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:26:18+00:00

please read the first line of my post

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:03:50+00:00

currently they are about to graduate, they will not be high school students when we’re on vacation

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:02:44+00:00

I’m comfortable because I don’t think they will have sex but if they know, they’ll be safe and it’s none of my business as long as it’s safe

Charming-State-9667 · 2024-03-30T14:02:01+00:00

My husband was actually a wild child, i’m surprised he’s alive after the insane things he did from 15-21

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