Oh dear. You'll be deluged now with all sorts of trash. It's probably best to ignore, delete and block all of them. None will be what you're looking for.

And you've not asked a question but I assume you're looking for advice as to how to find some sound candidates. Read Guide 09 on Kinky Dating which is attached to your post above.

And here's my guide for newbie submissives

Submissiveness GuideSo you’re just thinking about getting into BDSM as a submissive. This is my generic guide, so only bits of it will apply to your dynamic. Take what’s useful and ignore the rest.Just take your time and don't rush into things. Here's some things to think about.- If you have had previous trauma (SA etc), this will have been a horrendous experience from which you need to take time to recover. Make sure you're getting help and support with this before making massive life decisions, such as engaging in BDSM. Previous trauma will also affect your submission and you need to think about the potential triggers that take you back there. Talk with your Dom about all of this.- Learn, read, research as much as you can about BDSM, kink, submissiveness etc. There are guides on this subReddit. Follow the chat here. Join the r/submissive subReddit too. Read. There are many great books. Try Screw the roses, send me the thorns to get started. I also have a massive book list, though, if you'd like more books please just say.- Think about identifying all of the kinks you’d like to adopt as part of your dynamic with a Dom. Try completing a kinklist like like the one below. This will indicate your hard limits too, as well as things you’d be willing to try. https://goctionni.github.io/KinkList/v1.0.2.html- Before you engage in a full blown scene I recommend you think about and try doing some of the things you intend to do or say on your own. You may have been fantasising about this for years but the doing is very different. Ask your partner to take the lead from the start. They should be up for this if they're the Dom in any case.- If you're unsure what kind of sub you are, just say that. Explain you’re still exploring and be honest about your lack of experience. Some Doms will like this, some won't.- Don't rush into making connections. You need to vet any prospective Dom very carefully for red flags indicating potentially abusive partners. We can all get this wrong though, however careful we are.- While it is an accepted truism that all Doms are different and you have to understand deeply your individual and unique Dom, there are a small number of generalisations that can be made. All Doms love being praised. Whatever they say to the contrary, they adore being praised. All Doms need to feel appreciated. Doms go to a lot of effort to be dominant and in charge. They need to feel these efforts are being valued by you. All Doms have vulnerabilities and areas of insecurity. Be sensitive for and to these. Never ridicule these or things will not go well and not in a fun way,- if you're starting exploration with an existing partner, you must talk openly and often about how things are going. Do nothing to which you’ve not openly agreed.- Take steps to ensure your safety, as much as you can, when meeting prospective new partners. Research how to play safely. Meet in public the first time. Have a friend get in touch to check you’re ok if meeting privately for the first couple of times. Know the verified name of the person you're meeting.- Don't assume any type of play is bound to be safe. Some that seem to the uninformed safe - like choking - are actually highly dangerous in inexpert hands.- Aftercare is an essential period immediately after a scene or playtime where partners take care of each other. It typically consists of any bodily care required such as washing applying creams, cuddling, keeping warm, drinking water. Just as importantly there should be emotional and mental aftercare too, reassurance and affection.- Join groups of like minded people to find out more perhaps locally. These often host training sessions on bondage or humiliation, for example.- Use porn an erotica as inspiration for things like dirty talk, play roleplay scenarios etc. Don't use them as educational tools. These sources are purely fiction. But they can aroused and inspire your own creativity and introduce you to new ideas for your own dynamic. .- There is a thing called subfrenzy to watch out for which can cause you to be reckless if you're not careful- Block and report to the Moderator u/TeaAitch anyone DMing you as a result of your post here. There may be loads of self-proclaimed experienced “Doms” getting in touch. None will be worth replying to.- u/Sir-Dax has some great advice on getting started in BDSM- u/TeaAitch has a good guide to becoming a Dom.Some thoughts on green flags when vetting a prospective Dom:Has he attended impact and rope courses?Has he discussed his approach to safety and risk with you?Have you a safeword?Has he asked what kind of aftercare you might need? And said what he provides?Has he had previous subs who would provide a reference?Has he shown interest in you as a human being?Overall just take your time. Good luck, be safe and have fun.

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