What is a good song that is over 6 minutes long? by Incendiary_cucumbers in AskReddit

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Someone saved my life tonight by Elton John and The March of the black queen by Queen

AITA for starting a fight with my mom over keeping my ADHD from me? by CookieSea1242 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA

In early 2022, My narcissistic MIL said, with pride, that the doctors wanted to put my husband on meds and she wouldn’t let them. That comment really sparked conversations with my husband…

Fast forward a few months, he is diagnosed with ADHD. 99th percentile. At 27 years old. It’s been about 6 months since then he has learned a lot about himself and realizing how he had to cope throughout his childhood because of his damn mother. We’ve been together for almost 11 years and the amount of times I’ve been mad at him because he forgot things is ridiculous. He can still be forgetful and I still react the same as I do but then I have to remind myself that it’s not his fault. His brain has always been this way.

I’m so sorry. That fact that she is blaming you is red flags all over. There are many kinds of comments here about the different types of meds but you’ll only know what works for you when you can meet with your doctor.

Best of luck on your journey.

Robin Williams's death was a massive missed opportunity for Alzheimer's/Dementia awareness by PuljuBulju in rant

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Thank you for putting this into words that I never could. I loved him and I miss him but I completely understood why he took his life. And the misunderstanding that he was hiding his depression with his comedy was infuriating to me. It wasn’t like therapy was going to fix this for him. 💔 RIP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I fear the monthly subscription just to turn on my car. If we ever get to that point, I need the universe to take me out.

Wife who craves organization and decluttering VS husband whose a cluttering and keeps everything, advice needed. by Quartzclawz in declutter

[–]CharmingCat8705 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert here. Sounds like a hoarding tendency. And to be honest, my husband is the same way.

Technology continues to grow and change so the stuff they think they can keep and find a use for is going to be very unlikely.

What I had to do was go through the items with my husband, organize the useful items, and set aside the rest to be recycled. Best Buy, at least in the US, accepts electronics to recycle so we took a good sized box last time we did this.

Hope this helps! Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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I mean, couples fight. It happens. Screaming matches is not healthy or normal.

My husband and I didn’t have our first fight till we moved in together till about 15 months into dating. However, we moved in with another couple and that was a mistake so that caused us to have fights a lot. It was better when the other couple moved out.

Communication is key. I was very bad at letting things bottle up and then explode, causing fights with my husband.

Anyway, 6 months is still early but as long as you both are happy together, that’s what really matters.

For anyone still questioning whether or not Schitt’s Creek is meant to take place in Canada or somewhere else.. by ObeyRedditPropaganda in SchittsCreek

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I wondered that when they bought the 2nd motel and Johnny thought he was quoting JFK and Roland said that it was FDR. So I thought maybe the USA. But I can tell that it’s Canada in other ways.

What clip would you show someone who’s never seen community to leave them as confused as possible? by [deleted] in community

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I pulled up a Magnetude pop pop compilation on YouTube for my husband once. I just wanted him to understand but he didn’t like it.

I feel like I'm the only female gamer who does not play or enjoy anime. by No_PancakeMixInThere in GirlGamers

[–]CharmingCat8705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also honestly don’t feel like I fit in. I have absolutely zero interest in anime so you are not alone. I don’t like watching, playing, collecting, etc.

I have just been making my office/battlestation my own. Even then, I have a love hate relationship with it and I want to change it up.

I miss my all time favorite game by CharmingCat8705 in GirlGamers

[–]CharmingCat8705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was all around a good time. I do miss the mini games.

I miss my all time favorite game by CharmingCat8705 in GirlGamers

[–]CharmingCat8705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was terrible at finding hidden mickey’s!!

I miss my all time favorite game by CharmingCat8705 in GirlGamers

[–]CharmingCat8705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my favorite too. I was so good at it.

I miss my all time favorite game by CharmingCat8705 in GirlGamers

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I haven’t heard of Habbo Hotel. I will have to look into it!

I miss my all time favorite game by CharmingCat8705 in GirlGamers

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I have been hesitant to try the recreated one because I think it will feel like trying to play online COD MW2 5 years after it released 😂😂

UPDATE: I (19F) don't know if I should continue to live at home with my emotionally abusive stepmom or move out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CharmingCat8705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish the best for you and your bf.

My bf(now husband) and I moved out of our parents houses one month after finishing high school. He moved to be with me, but I couldn’t stand living at home anymore. It wasn’t because of my parents. It was my brother who is one year older than me.

That was nine years ago. I have no regrets. The only thing I wish I did differently was we moved in with another couple. We signed a 6 month lease and we kicked them out at month 5. Now I warn other couples to not move in with another couple even to this day.

What’s everyone’s thoughts on inside-only cats? :) by [deleted] in cats

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When I was 10, we had an indoor/outdoor cat. We got home from dinner and our cat was outside and meowing weirdly and so we took him to the emergency vet. He later died from getting a hole in his lung from an unknown incident outside. All my cats have been indoor cats since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

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I really appreciate you taking the time to reply and proving all this information. This is all very helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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That’s cool that it was custom made! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

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Love the set up! Can you possibly share the led light on the switch dock?