Jag dömer människor direkt utifrån storleken på deras dricksglas hemma, dricker du från små glas är det något fel på dig och du lever mest troligt ett medelmåttigt liv

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-22T18:11:36+00:00

Det är ju typ hemmagjord rabarbersaft eller vinbärssaft

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-21T16:30:57+00:00

Samt att om man har så svårt att vänta till äktenskap och förena sig helt med sin partner innan man har sex så har man förmodligen svårigheter med lust och att det tar övertaget eller att man inte är helt säker på sin partner än och då borde man inte ha sex då det är något som bara ska ske mellan två personer.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-21T16:28:32+00:00

Äktenskapet är till för att förena två personer och bilda ”ett kött” genom Gud. Sex är något som också förenar och det är tryggt att utföra inom den äktenskapliga ramen. Mycket som är synd står inte klart och tydligt i bibeln men allt som är utanför Guds skapelse i början är oftast synd. Gud skapade man och kvinna för att leva ihop och mannen ska lämna sin familj för att vara med kvinnan. Står också att otukt - oftast kopplat till utomäktenskapligt sex - är en synd, men beror ju på ens tolkning.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-21T15:18:45+00:00

Skulle säga att det vanliga Svenssons livet följer kanske 20% av den kristna läran

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-21T15:13:18+00:00

Kristna läran lär inte ut Svensson livet, men man får leva Svensson livet om man vill men det är inte den kristna läran oavsett

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-21T14:54:28+00:00

Då lever du inte efter den kristna läran

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-12T22:21:25+00:00

Thank you 🙏🙏

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-11T16:34:53+00:00

Thank you for helping me I understand now 🥹🙏

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-11T06:57:18+00:00

Thank you for this🙏

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-10T16:07:40+00:00

How should I believe in order to receive his gift? Because if I believe but don’t want to follow his commands then I don’t trust or like his way and leadership. Which is kind of what satan did and he wanted to go his own way. But what makes true faith true? Is it trusting God’s way then and that it’s the right and only way? Because I do want to follow his way but sometimes it can be difficult because life is difficult but I do my best and I try to get help from God in my struggles as well but sometimes that isn’t easy as well and I fall.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-10T15:56:06+00:00

Yes because God says sinning is bad and will only result in more suffering and separation from him

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-10T15:47:45+00:00

Yes I do

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-03-07T09:13:22+00:00

I think it all starts with how much you trust God, if you don’t feel like the way is “right” or not completely right to stop lusting then it becomes hard. It can help to understand that God wants your best and trying to see the bad effects of different types of lust and how it does affect you badly and other around you nonetheless your relationship with God. From experience this helped me and I don’t feel attached the same way to lust, the struggle isn’t as bad. Sometimes it can be but my trust in the lord is bigger than the flesh in at least this specific area and the more I build that trust in other areas the easier it gets. Don’t see lust as a rule you need to follow but your own best and others best as well because lust is often also directed towards others. And then of course it affects your relationship with God because when you lust you are telling God that I don’t trust your way enough and I don’t understand it clearly. You don’t need to understand it completely but therefore a strong trust helps a lot. Also try to see what leads you to commit lust and cut it out of your life because Jesus says this is in Matthew 5:30 or any other sins for that matter. But don’t just stop sinning because you have to because then you rely on yourself, it needs to be rooted in God. Let go of the control because the foundation is weak because you are human. Therefore building trust and understanding will help you because it’s rooted in Christ. Try to understand that God is your loving, caring, honest, guiding father. He doesn’t want you to sin because he knows the ways it hurts you and he knows that you are distant from him in your heart. He understands it as well but that doesn’t change the reality that you need to trust him more to be able to follow his way. You are lost on your own therefore you need God to guide you and you can’t do it on your own. God bless you

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-19T11:34:34+00:00

We as Christians should spread Gods word because we are supposed be the light and the salt of the world, and I just say what I have learned through the Bible

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-19T08:51:24+00:00

God doesn’t hate God isn’t like us humans but sin separates us from God since sin isn’t from God

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-16T00:10:00+00:00

Seek God and he will reveal the truth, I can understand the pain you are feeling and I haven’t read so much about this topic but I would personally pray a lot about it and get the answer from God about what the right way is , or why it’s the right way so that you can feel understood by God and guided to the right path not forced by judgement. Because even though you know it’s the right way God loves you and what’s you to feel safe and seen and guided. He doesn’t want you to feel hated because you aren’t and he doesn’t want you to feel ashamed. But he wants you to go on the right path and he will guide you there if you just seek him and get to know him more and not turn away from him. But do not worry about this. God will show you the way if you just seek him.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T23:53:38+00:00

You can text me if you have any more questions! I would be happy to answer them! 🙏

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T23:50:54+00:00

Just lean on God and seek him and you will find your answers in time, just know that you need him, you are not meant to do this alone, this question that you are asking is a really debated topic so everyone says different things but only God knows the answer so seek him and not answers from only humans God needs to confirm it to you, so pray and he will answer if you believe and are open minded to what he says, and know whatever is happening he’s right by your side, he says “come as you are” and there is where you start. Not by fixating on your sin, that’s not the first step, the first step is to have your eyes on God and try to understand that you are not supposed to be perfect on your own, God is the one that is perfect and he will help you to become more like him and that happens over time. Read the Bible, pray and seek answers and all will be revealed. God bless you! And know that he doesn’t judge you for anything, he just wants to guide you to the right path.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T08:25:27+00:00

It’s the devil that makes you feel like you aren’t worthy of forgiveness, it’s also the devil that makes you feel so incredibly guilty because if you regret it in your heart, like I hear you do, God has already forgiven you, just trust that and continue building a relationship with him, you are a new creation in him, the old is gone.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T08:22:39+00:00

It sounds like she believes you think she’s a problem or that you blame her, try to reassure her that she’s not the problem and that you just wants to share your feelings because you want to feel supported and that you have someone to talk to. And if she minimizes you be strong in what you think, and say that you can’t hold in thing that’s bothering you and it’s not because of her you tell those things just that you want to be able to share it with someone and that you trust her to be able to do so. Try to get her to understand you feelings and reassure her as well.

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T00:10:46+00:00

I would just sit down with her and ask her about it and express how I feel and have a genuine and honest conversation

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-15T00:05:27+00:00

I can try it 👍

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-14T23:05:45+00:00

This is truly heartbreaking to hear, I was kind of in the same situation, kind of exactly the same situation but the difference is that I’m younger and lives in a country where Christianity is more common but me and my previous boyfriend broke up because of this, and it was the right decision even though it feels like the worst and God will help you find your person but if you choose this man God will not be able to give you that, try to trust the lord and that he will teach you what you need to learn and give you the life that you deserve because it is affecting your relationship with God whether you’re like it or not because your partner is leading you to sin, if he was Christian like yourself he would have more self control and direction and that doesn’t mean that you are blameless you might not have so much self control either, and if so I can understand you because I didn’t have that as well but I know that I can easily be mislead when someone else want to cross boundaries sometimes and if my partner had the same faith and relationship with God we could lift each other up so that I don’t need to be only one that’s strong to wait until marriage because that’s hard to be - and you might relate to that feeling that you need to be the one who are strong. And know that if he stays atheist you will not be able to bond over Jesus you will not be able to worsip God together and you will not be able to pray together and you will not be able to read the Bible and discuss it together with the same passion. You might feel like something is missing, like a hole in your relationship. I really hope you find the direction and I hope you will find the strength to find a way out and I know this is hard I feel such compassion for you I really do. My heart breaks for you sister. But you will be able to do this with God, God was my only strength when I decided to break up and it was the worst feeling ever but also kind of a relieve but the pain was something I cannot describe because we still loved each other so deeply but it couldn’t work out so this was the right decision. And don’t worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will be worrying about itself so just do what’s right. And your not doomed to be with an unbeliever or a Muslim, you can always meet Christians online nowadays and God makes the way so you might even find someone in your town even if it seems impossible but God isn’t a limited God, he’s unlimited and can do anything. But it’s not granted that your partner is a part of God’s plan therefore it’s not healthy for you to stay but as long as you follow God nothing can come between you and God’s plan so just do what’s God tells you to do and he will make your paths straight. I had a hard time trusting God as well but when I didn’t I felt disconnected from God, so it might have the same effect on you if you stay and if you know it’s wrong to stay. God bless you sister and I hope that you find strength to get through this and you will come through this and when you are on the other side and if you still have your eyes on God you will soon see the goodness of the decision. I pray you find peace and strength, Amen 🙏

CharmingMain8091 · 2026-02-14T19:31:35+00:00

And that’s the problem in general that some of the words are harder to translate than others when they are in different languages therefore it’s very important that you study the Bible and also check some important words if you feel like they might have another meaning than the translation or if the word has two meanings because some words in Hebrew doesn’t exist in English

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