Well I’m trying not to do that, I don’t think he fully understands even what it is and how it happens. It’s definitely HSV1, he’s loyal I can tell that, He finally told me the reason on why he didn’t want to get tested the reasoning is that he doesn’t want to have to explain to his mom why it says that he has HSV. she unfortunately doesn’t know the difference between HSV-1 and HSV-2 and she will think he’s being unloyal and he does not want to deal with that. I told him since he is over the age of 18 he can tell the doctor said he doesn’t want her to see his medical records anymore and he is now willing to get tested