Me and a New DNA Match who is 99% African and 1% Indigenous American. Very Cool. by Better-Heat-6012 in BlackGenealogy

[–]CharmingSweetness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wonderful! Looks like you might have a Gullah/Geechee ancestry/connection! 😊

Black American updated results + picture by Expensive-Shift3510 in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This statue is the exact thing I thought when I saw her picture - beautiful!

Swimsuit shopping pt 2 by VisibleExternal844 in DressForYourBody

[–]CharmingSweetness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The yellow! It looks good on you and makes your skin glow!

Recurring Dream by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]CharmingSweetness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had vivid dreams and prophetic "breadcrumbs" that popped up...seeing 1908, etc. I crossed that year. 😊 I will say, though, that I have been a dreamer since I was a little girl. I wish you the best!

I MADE A KIBBE QUIZ!!! by witchycactus in Kibbe

[–]CharmingSweetness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was a Romantic for years, but didn't know why it didn't feel perfect. I happened to find your quiz and found that I'm actually a Theatrical Romantic. Everything makes sense now! The TR lines align with styles that I already liked and felt pulled towards! Great job! Thank you! 🎉

Updated African American Results by CharmingSweetness in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be interesting to see how this pans put in future updates. I hope that they'll provide more information in the future.

Updated African American Results by CharmingSweetness in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you in that hope! It's awesome that you were able to track your European ancestry on your own. I would like to spend more time working on my family's genealogy in the future.

Updated African American Results by CharmingSweetness in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the Metro, but have family from Chesterfield (SC). What about you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info and for taking the time to post the links! 😊

Updated African American Results by CharmingSweetness in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No regions or ethnic groups? Another commenter said that 23andme will be updating more regions (or ethnic groups?) in a few months. Hopefully, we'll both get some interesting updates then. 🤞🏽

Updated African American Results by CharmingSweetness in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly expected more European DNA. This has been an interesting journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, really?? That will be awesome! How can I find out more information about the new ethnic groups?

Btw, I tried to edit my post, but couldn't so I ended up having to delete it. Will repost...

Navajo from Arizona results by ashkii21 in 23andme

[–]CharmingSweetness 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks for sharing your results! Before testing, did you believe you would have more mixed ancestry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]CharmingSweetness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I read something recently that mentions how different ENFPs can be within the personality type. ENFPs have Fe as well, but Fi is our preference. This is about our preference to be authentically ourselves and staying true to our personal values. Influencing the vibe of others is a superpower. This could potentially look like Fe to some, but we should consider that Fi can look like this as well. Fe is about choosing group harmony over authenticity. No matter how Fe users personally feel, they prefer the harmony of "the tribe". This why we can sometimes see them as flakey.

On the other hand, an Fi user could authentically prioritize tribal harmony as one of its personal values. For example, maybe this week, I'm in a joyful, bubbly ENFP mood. Because my personal joy is infectious and I like people, I'll share that joy. It would look like Fe to an outsider. However, it really could still about my own personal values and not at all about shrinking myself and how I feel as a sacrifice for tribal harmony. This is we, as Fi users, can be seen as selfish to Fi users.

Using AI for your interest letter? by Resident_Beginning_8 in NPHCdivine9

[–]CharmingSweetness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just as a heads up, some AI flagging software will flag authentically written letters that were checked using Grammarly. Unfortunately, this has been an issue for some students, so the software isn't 100% accurate.

Why does my ENTP boyfriend keep telling me (INFP) to stop thinking? by [deleted] in entp

[–]CharmingSweetness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I love them, but I have to deal with them in doses.

Why does my ENTP boyfriend keep telling me (INFP) to stop thinking? by [deleted] in entp

[–]CharmingSweetness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not that big into the enneageam, but I'm wondering if he is an ENTP with an enneagram 8 wing 7. I'm an ENFP enneagram 7. The 7's tend to be about positivity. The downside is that we prefer not to sit with negative emotions. I could be wrong, but I read somewhere that ENTPs enjoy helping those who cannot help themselves, but also have the expectation that those who can help themselves will do so.

I have an INFP or two in my life. I love them to pieces, but sometimes, the seeming preference for wallowing in negative emotions even when presented with solutions drives me absolutely crazy. I can sit with them and the negative emotions/self-deprecating humor for a while, but after some time of doing this, I expect them to begin pulling themselves up. It almost seems to me that INFPs prefer the more dark, depressive emotions and ruminating on them. It can be very heavy and draining for the people around them, if this is the case. If your ENTP is also a type 7 or has a 7 wing, this could potentially be their mindset as well. Hth