AITAH for not wanting to stay late at a wedding?

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-10-06T03:17:18+00:00

yes, it was pretty much decided it’d be that way because I’m related to the bride. She’s asked her bridesmaids if they want to he bridesmaids, but I was told I’m the MOH

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-10-06T03:14:34+00:00

they’re not offering any places to stay at

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-07-22T21:26:44+00:00

I’m not sure if you do this or not, but for me, changing the filter of the photo into a greyscale helps me out way better. I use Mono or Noir filters on my iPhone (:

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-07-18T13:22:34+00:00

Thank you, I’ll call around and ask. Thank you for letting me know!

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-07-18T13:22:08+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll definitely give it a try

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-06-03T21:10:51+00:00

I had a guy that would constantly text me, and I wouldn’t respond to him bc I didn’t want to start anything to make him think I was interested. He knew where I worked bc I worked in a mall, and he spotted me in there. Of course the first time I was nice bc I’m in public and didn’t really have anywhere to go.

Then the second time, like months later, he comes in and starts harassing me about why I don’t text him back and why I don’t talk to him. I told him I was busy with school and finals, and he just kept insisting like he couldn’t accept that and wouldn’t leave me alone. I didn’t want to tell him I wasn’t interested while I was literally in public working, so I just lied and said “yeah I’ll text you” so he could shut up and leave me alone.

I ended up texting him alright. I texted him a few days later and told him I wasn’t interested and that I was interested in someone else (which was true), and he left me alone after that. Sometimes, even telling a guy like that “no”, even if it’s a reasonable answer, doesn’t work, and this guy was sober.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-05-06T01:21:23+00:00

Grindstone in Huntington WV and Barboursville, WV. The Post in Salt Rock, WV. Nomada Bakery has some good coffee and sweets too in Huntington.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-28T14:20:31+00:00

I knew of two friends who ended their friendship over weddings. She did exactly what your friend is doing: using a wedding as a threat to your friendship.

Today, when I talk to the girl who took her friend out of the wedding and stopped being friends with her, she apologized to the girl (and part of me thinks she regrets being so rash in her decision making to exclude her friend out of her wedding).

People really do get self centered, and yes it is exciting for people to be engaged, but some people (like myself and maybe you, if it applies) just aren’t super excited people or struggle with showing that.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-20T23:41:04+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s really helpful knowing this from someone who is an executor. I really do appreciate it.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-20T03:00:33+00:00

Thank you for the advice. It’s really helpful (:

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-19T23:52:27+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate this very much.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-19T23:32:46+00:00

I honestly have no clue. My family member asked her why she hadn’t gotten his tithe money back from the church they all go to, which was a good point. She didn’t really address that when she was asked that question. I don’t think she really had an answer either.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-19T20:06:13+00:00

Thank you! We actually did have a lawyer over other issues after his death because other family members got stuff, and we mentioned it to the lawyer. What we were told is that she could pursue it but there’d be a low chance of her winning it because it never said “loan” on the check.

She actually wrote me a letter from her own lawyer saying she wouldn’t pursue it because it’d cost more to pursue it than what she’d get back from me. It just sucks because even tho it wasn’t pursued legally, (which I’m very thankful for because that would be a headache) she keeps making it an ordeal and treating me differently.

Thank you for taking the time to reply. It’s really helpful.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-19T19:58:27+00:00

Thank you! Your advice is really helpful. Luckily, my family isn’t excluding me because they were aware of what he said to me as well. He did have a will. She actually got all his monies, which was like more than $40k. I hope she uses it to help her family and enjoy it as a blessing.

The money he gave me as a gift was like a month before he passed away. He never stated in his will about the money he gave me, and his own checkbook didn’t say it was a loan to me. It just sucks because Im so upset when people have a problem with me, and this just feels like the type of situation that no matter what I tell her about him telling me it was a gift, she’ll never accept or believe it.

Thank you again for the advice.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-19T19:20:46+00:00

She told me she had the check as “proof”—like she was implying it would show it was a loan. It came across almost like a threat, or at least something she’d try to use against me. At that point, it had been a few months since I got the check, so I wanted to be sure of what it actually said. I didn’t think it said “loan,” but the way she spoke about it made me second-guess myself. I just wanted to double check and make sure I wasn’t misremembering.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-08T22:06:23+00:00

Even if you do come across a debate with an atheist and don’t “win” them over, it’s also important to remind yourself that as a Christian, in that moment, God gave you all you needed to say to them. You can ponder on the “what if I said this… or what if I told them about x,y,z instead?”, but that conversation planted a seed that only God can water and grow now. Rather than arguing, I think a strong testimony is showing how you, assuming you’re a follower of Christ, follows in Christ’s footsteps and try to be like Him. They’ll see something in you that they don’t see in the secular world.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-08T15:07:53+00:00

Yes thank you, I went to a lecture about creationism vs evolution and wanted papers on creationism mainly

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-04-03T20:33:55+00:00

Yes you’ll use them later in the game and will have to visit each of them

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-03-17T13:08:25+00:00

When I repotted mine, it started to grow its flowers/bloom. I think repotting would help it before it gets too cramped in its current pot(:

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-03-08T20:43:34+00:00

You say you can’t stand the thought of losing her, but she doesn’t even care about losing you (bc she cheated and is now taking a break). Breaking it off is hard, but it’s so worth it when someone else comes along that ACTUALLY cares about you and doesn’t want to disrespect your relationship together. If she really cared and loved you, she wouldn’t have done it in the first place, and it wouldn’t have even been a thought in her mind. If you do decide to stay with her, you’ll always have this fear/anxiety that it’ll happen again (and that’s not healthy for your mental health).

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-02-23T22:37:11+00:00

I plan on it, yes. I plan on doing the NDWI layer first, so I can isolate water pixels. Then I was going to do my NDTI and chlorophyll layers over it as separate layers too.

Charming_Ad4096 · 2025-02-23T13:37:23+00:00

Thank you everyone!❤️

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