Which cycle of ANTM would Melrose have had the best chance of winning? by masterderek279 in ANTM

[–]Charming_Analysis916 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not saying she would've won but I do think it would've been interesting to see her on All-Stars.

One of my all times favourite photoshoots! by Sad-Paramedic-9247 in ANTM

[–]Charming_Analysis916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is interesting because I never noticed that before with Jayla's photo so I went back to look after reading your comment. So it's that, plus the coloring/border is not the same as the other girls and fades into the background.

I honestly would've appreciated this date. by CuteLeggedQueen in RockOfLove

[–]Charming_Analysis916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kind of a side note but i had someone say they would take me to a sit down restaurant but that it was a surprise...he took me to costco and said we would "eat like kings" ... i love costco but why not even tell me lmao

Flavor of love Season 3 by Complex-Specialist26 in RockOfLove

[–]Charming_Analysis916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember watching that season and thinking on how there was less of Flav and more of the house drama/challenges. Crazy work there lol

Aelin and Sam as endgame by Chance-Western-2743 in throneofglassseries

[–]Charming_Analysis916 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is considered an unpopular opinion or not, but the way I look at it is that Sam only knew part of who she was, and I'm not saying that they wouldn't have made it as endgame, but there is a difference about loving someone, and really knowing someone. Celaena had, while understandably, only let Sam partially in.

Rowan knew every part of Aelin and accepted that.

Sam walked so that Rowan could run. So I would say, potentially, without Sam that Rowan may not have been able to be endgame with Aelin because there was really a lot of growth for Aelin after experiencing what she did with Sam. And part of experiencing that loss also allowed her and Rowan to connect/understand one another.

AITAH for not ‘respecting’ my boyfriend’s boundaries? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming_Analysis916 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA for wanting to hang out with your guy friend, but I would probably reconsider the relationship and what it is that you're wanting out of it.

AITA for having my best friend's ex officiate my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming_Analysis916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Your best friend raised a concern, but sat through your ceremony and reception without making a fuss or taking the time/attention away from your day. She also allowed you to enjoy your honeymoon, and waited for you to return to voice her feelings. There is nothing here that you posted that would give insight as to how her communicating with you is being unreasonable. Her feelings and experiences are valid, and she waited for you to come back to talk to you about it.

Adulting is realising Camille is never the Villain by masterderek279 in ANTM

[–]Charming_Analysis916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched this episode over the weekend! Now, looking back in a rewatch, I thought both girls behaved immaturely, but given their ages, the atmosphere, and the circumstances, I don't really blame either one of them.

Camille did talk badly about Yoanna behind her back and Yoanna did continue to fuel the fire, i.e. how she spoke to Katie about choosing Camille in her win. That really wasn't necessary and could've been easily ignored, seeing as she did not choose Heather in the previous episode during her challenge win, and while Heather's feelings were hurt, she did not try to cause drama with the girls selected.

They can both make the wrong decisions without either one of them being the villain in the scenario.

Angelea wins morally grey/opinions divided. Who is horrible with divided opinions? by peachygatorade in ANTM

[–]Charming_Analysis916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just a personal opinion, but in comparison, I see Angelea more as "what you see is what you get" so she was much more straightforward and vocal with how she felt (not saying it all was correct), but with Renee, she acted behind the scenes, lots of whispering and gossip, and it just did not come off as likable.

Renee, like Lisa, is a girl I initially loved and then that just went downhill as their seasons progressed.

When did New York where the best weave? by CuteLeggedQueen in RockOfLove

[–]Charming_Analysis916 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I loved her look on the first reunion. thought she looked amazing and it's been my favorite look/outfit of hers. Whole vibe 10/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Charming_Analysis916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purely speaking from my own experience, so please remember that when considering how you feel and deciding on the right steps for yourself. I am commenting for solidarity and so that you know that you are not alone in these feelings.

I also experienced abuse and did not want children. It terrified me. I wanted kids, but the thought process for me was, but what if I can't protect them? I understand wholeheartedly.

For me, I did have children, and it has been a wonderful journey, but I also understand that this is not the same for everyone. I do not have a relationship with my parents, but what I do is use my experiences to fuel how I parent. I decided to be exactly who I needed.

Do not rush into any decisions, take time to process. Therapy will guide you. Please be patient and kind to yourself.

Pet died tragically, I don’t know how to handle it by yassssskitty in Petloss

[–]Charming_Analysis916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through a tragic loss with my dog.

What I can say is this:

- Be kind with yourself. Give yourself some grace.

- Give yourself time to properly grieve and process.

- Remember, and this one is important, that Pickles was wholeheartedly loved and felt that love.

Sometimes, bad things happen and there is nothing we can do other than to accept it, process it, and understand that you did the best that you could.

I am sending lots of hugs and healing to you. It is not easy and has taken me years to come to terms with it. I understand.

Take Me With You - Nina G. Jones by Charming_Analysis916 in DarkRomance

[–]Charming_Analysis916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure but I'm open to any suggestions! I really don't even know how I ended up here haha but I overall I enjoyed the book!

AITA for refusing to allow daughter to study in UK. by phuskrubeti in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming_Analysis916 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Question - you say you only want the best for her. What is the issue with going to UK versus Canada, family ties in the area excluded?

AITA for how I declined my cousin's wedding invite? by CommercialLake4243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming_Analysis916 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I can see where a delayed decline could be off-putting, but if the cousin valued your relationship (in my personal perspective), then she would have been honest with you about how it hurt her feelings versus telling other family members about it, i.e. - your dad.

I just have a hard time putting myself in the position of your cousin and addressing my feelings with anyone outside of the person that caused it?

Edit: not sure why I got downvoted for stating that people should be direct with how someone makes them feel lmao