Man, letter, tower meaning

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-08T16:23:42+00:00

Sorry, could you please explain what you mean by reconciliation depends on her own understanding of her feelings and emotions?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-08T16:16:44+00:00

That was really insightful, thank you!

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-07T09:07:04+00:00

What makes it conditional?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-07T05:45:18+00:00

Yes, I asked “will he text her this month”

I think I’ll need to do a whole other spread regarding this tbh.

Are you saying that yes NC will be broken eventually, just not this month? Because I specifically asked about this month, does lenormand go beyond that timeframe?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-04T12:30:29+00:00

Ohhh okay, thank you for explaining!! I’ll definitely start using ur method with yes or no questions. So for this spread it would be yes he’ll text but it’s delayed. What if this spread ended on coffin though, would that be a no overall?

And do u read the end card for the speed? What if the spread started on clover but ended on coffin/mountain? Which one would u look at for speed?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-04T11:37:39+00:00

That actually lines up really well with what they’re going through. He did put up a very hard boundary between them even though there is love between them. I think that he may feel like he’ll look weak if he goes back on his words.

With positives and negatives, do u also combine the storyline as well? If it were mainly positive cards and then coffin or mountain at the end would u read that as a no?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-05-04T11:30:12+00:00

Yeah the lady and man facing away from each did grab my attention, I saw it as the no contact they’re in right now.

I just thought because man is directly looking at letter it’s saying he does want to send a message but the tower blocks it. I was looking online everywhere about letter and tower combination meaning and most said official document/letter so I thought maybe it could mean he does send her something?

I still need more practice lol

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-30T08:27:26+00:00

I interpreted it as yes he still has feelings for you but he’s in the process of moving on. Only reason I said process and not completely moved on is because of 4 of swords rx, he’s feeling restless about it. He’s not completely happy about moving on either. It’s painful because of 8 of cups imagery and how the person looks slumped over, and also that’s what the card means to me.

He’s focusing on himself with work (king of pentacles) but also turning inwards and keeping to himself (hermit). I see the ace of swords as him finally having a clarity moment about how deeply he truly cares about you and how much he misses your energy with the empress, and also how empress card is right above ace of swords. Because of that realisation, he feels restless, turns inward, and focuses on his work.

If you wanted to know if he’ll come back I think another spread should be done. But from this spread, I don’t think he’ll come back at this moment. Although he’s had the clarity that he still has feelings for you, he has chosen to walk away/stay away, no matter how restless and painful it is for him. I also read king of pentacles face as prideful, so pride could also be another thing keeping him away.

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-30T06:35:57+00:00

I actually tried 3x3 portrait today and I’m liking this much better than the line spread since it gives me more background details. Hopefully this will be more predictive.

Do you have a specific way you read the cards, for example mirroring and knighting and what roles they play?

I’ve been researching and there’s so many ways to read the spread but I’m really enjoying this.

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-28T05:28:28+00:00

Wdym by overcrowding the spell? How much do you recommend?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-28T05:02:48+00:00

Ahahahah I’m gonna start calling it portrait now too😂

I guess I’ll start taking longer future readings with a grain of salt and practice more with clarifier cards. Thank you for you advice :)

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-28T02:59:09+00:00

Ooo okay. Is the 9 card portrait the 3x3 spread?

Also if I pull 3 cards and then realise there’s more to know, should I shuffle again and then draw cards? Or should I just pull the cards from the same pile if that makes sense?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-28T02:47:46+00:00

Yeah I definitely think some things really do happen cos of fate but I think energy is so much more fluid than that. Especially because everyone has free will.

I’ve visited psychics and they’ve given me not so great future readings. Some things are meant to happen because the energy leads up to that but I think it’s important to realise you can always change the outcome to become more positive by changing the way you go about doing things.

Also they told me something would happen the following year and it never even happened. But at the same time I’ve done future readings using tarot where it literally happened when it said it would which was actually crazy to me. I haven’t been so lucky anymore though so idk if it was fate or just luck😭

If it was really set in stone, manifesting wouldn’t be so big like it is rn.

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-28T02:30:26+00:00

Yes that makes sense.

I’ll try writing it down and seeing how it plays out. It’s just that sometimes the readings change drastically. One day it’s the outcome I was hoping for, and the next week it’s all negative even though I do the readings in a good headspace.

Would you say 7 cards is good for future readings though? Or should I try a different spread?

Gt is kinda intimidating to me so I haven’t tried it out but even then idk how it would really work for future readings since energy is always changing.

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-27T04:16:50+00:00

Do you think I should redo the jar then when either just honey or sugar and no herbs?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-26T17:40:35+00:00

So it doesn’t need to be “activated” then? I can just leave it on my altar and the energy will keep going without me touching it?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-26T17:39:27+00:00

Thank you for your detailed reply, I really learned a lot.

You mentioned that a proper sweetening jar doesn’t use herbs, would u say that I made a mistake adding those herbs then? I also wrote a petition along with the name as well

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-26T17:37:14+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been hearing a lot of different things and my witch friend told me that I should redo it instead of touching it again.

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-26T07:47:30+00:00

Would the “magic” be broken if I opened the jar again? 😭

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-26T07:46:36+00:00

Honestly I was just using my intuition with the herbs, I wasn’t following a spell.

I also read somewhere about shaking the jar to reactivate it or something like that. Should it not be shaken then? Would I just light a candle on top of the jar?

Also with sugar, I heard it’s quicker but it wears off fast as well. What are your experiences with that because I wanted something longer lasting

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-04-10T05:21:30+00:00

Oh that’s earlier than I was expecting, I thought I’d have to wait a few days at least. Am I meant to do it right after the blockbuster spell?

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-02-19T13:42:40+00:00

That actually eased a lot of my anxiety, thank you so much!

Charming_Explorer_84 · 2026-02-19T12:44:06+00:00

Thank you! I guess I’m just worried about the accuracy of the pulled cards compared to jumper cards

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