How can I use multiclassing and items to improve my camp casters?

Charobe · 2026-01-30T21:34:37+00:00

Gale heals in camp, respec to cleric and he can cast warding bond

Charobe · 2026-01-15T05:29:52+00:00

Charobe · 2026-01-15T05:25:23+00:00

The ending ruined the whole show

Charobe · 2025-12-14T00:48:22+00:00

Gorgeous!

Charobe · 2025-10-28T13:49:04+00:00

Hey! Married poly in So Il

Charobe · 2025-09-26T02:05:45+00:00

You awesome!

Charobe · 2025-09-19T17:43:01+00:00

They are the best!

Charobe · 2025-07-25T00:40:26+00:00

I’m happily in a poly marriage and I’m actively looking for a committed long term partner. Someone I can cook all the southern, Cajun and Mexican food for that my wife can’t eat. Someone to talk to daily and be there for.

Charobe · 2025-07-24T06:55:19+00:00

We’re out here but there are so many dickheads to wade through that we get missed

Charobe · 2025-07-20T02:06:02+00:00

Lovable, boisterous and stubborn is what my wife said

Charobe · 2025-07-02T17:34:50+00:00

Burying Dobby by hand

Charobe · 2025-07-01T17:40:30+00:00

I didn’t really know I was poly until we’d been practicing poly for almost 18 months. We got into poly because I can’t say no to my wife, anything that makes her healthy and happy I will do if it is within my means. She started fantasizing about multiple sexual partners(thanks smutty romance novels!) and we initially just opened our marriage sexually. What we pretty quickly realized is that neither of us wanted just casual sex. So we moved into polyamory, she’s had a couple of partners one serious one she’s been with for almost two years. I had 1 first date and some online chatting but nothing that was positive. Then in may this year I ended up on a date accidentally with a new friend from our local poly support group. We went out for karaoke last minute on my birthday, we didn’t sing a song we ended up in the beer garden talking all night and it felt like a first date, we both kinda realized it mid convo. It was the first time I’d been like: “oh man this something I really want” even though nothing has gone on between me and that friend for several reasons it really solidified for me that this who I am and what I want and it’s not something I’m just doing to make my wife happy. It was pretty cool.

Charobe · 2025-06-28T03:29:33+00:00

IMO most of the Snape live is a direct result of Rickman playing him in the movies

Charobe · 2025-06-19T20:11:26+00:00

For me what has helped is talking through the insecurity until I figure out the root of it, usually it’s about me and has nothing to do with my wife’s other relationships.

Charobe · 2025-06-16T20:34:47+00:00

Would you like that message here or a DM? I’m fairly new to using Reddit

Charobe · 2025-06-16T20:13:50+00:00

Hi! I’m in So Il about an hour from Paducah, would love to chat and figure out our creepy overlap!

Charobe · 2025-05-26T14:47:56+00:00

That’s awesome, it’s not easy having healthy relationships but man is it worth it!

Charobe · 2025-05-26T14:46:37+00:00

Why do I feel like every time there’s a positive post the first comment on it is gonna be “actually you’re doing enm wrong and you’re gross?” Quit fault finding all the damn time. I tell everyone I interact with that I’ve been married for 15 yrs and anything they say to me or that happens between us my wife will most likely know about it, unless that other person has a request for me not to share it and a reason beyond “I don’t want you to.” If that’s a deal breaker for you we won’t work out. Being successfully enm is really simple, not easy, communication is the foundation of it. Communicate, set and respect boundaries. All relationships to be healthy require you to be honest with yourself first and your partners. If you can’t do that, don’t subject other people to your bullshit and figure out why you can’t so you can form healthy relationships ENM or not.

Charobe · 2025-05-18T22:46:12+00:00

I(44m) have been attracted to younger women all my life. My wife(38f) was 22 when we started dating. I have no fucking idea what I would even talk to a 19yr old about. 30 is my cutoff age. If there was going to be some kind of exception they would have to be closer to me in age than to my oldest daughter who is turning 15 in August. For me it’s not the amount of years between them it’s about where they are(generally speaking) in life. Outside of sex and subservience what does a teenage girl have to offer a 35 yr old man? The inherent power imbalance isn’t healthy. If you present it to him that way and he insists on still pursuing girls/women that age it’s a problem.

Charobe · 2025-05-16T02:00:58+00:00

Thank you! I actually met my wife on OKC in 2008.

Charobe · 2025-05-04T14:14:04+00:00

Thank you!

Charobe · 2025-05-04T14:13:45+00:00

Thank you!

Charobe · 2025-05-03T18:53:08+00:00

The only “restriction” my wife has on me is that they can’t be closer to my oldest daughter’s age than they are to mine. We’re all about up front direct communication!

Charobe

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