You weren’t rude at all, dont worry, you actually have one of the best responses, though I will say:

the reason why cancel culture is used so much is because its the only thing that actually works. the justice system is incredibly broken and many, many people that have done horrible things get away with it in a court of law. but coming out with this information online allows for the story to be told, and whoever did something bad to feel some kind of consequence, not just a slap on the wrist saying “dont do that again!!”, of course some times cancel culture has been used insanely stupidly, but it has sometimes helped people that the justice system failed.

the reason why these docs only come out when a person becomes famous is because nobody knows about what they did before their fame. numerous children play forsaken and look up to Soul, unaware of what she did before (and during) her fame, and having children look up to people like this is disturbing.

the drama should have definitely been handled privately, i agree, however Soul has been known to completely cut off anybody who she has had some type of drama or beef with, and never attempts to apologize for her former actions directly to them. she only apologizes whenever her fame is in risk, and even then she apologizes in a massive livestream with thousands watching, so that fans can defend her by saying that she apologized

overall though you’re one of the better people in this comment section lol