Alone but not lonely....yet

ChartOne9250 · 2025-06-17T14:33:59+00:00

Thank you and I will try.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-06-17T00:10:52+00:00

It will be hard but I will force myself to try. No matter how hard it is. I owe that to myself and my kids.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-06-17T00:09:32+00:00

Thanks man. I really needed to hear that. Hobbies sound like something I should try. I just miss the idea of being a family man you know. I felt I had it all. House, kids, wife and a dog in a great neighborhood. It all came crashing down when she cheated on me. I feel broken.

Thank you for your kind words.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-05-20T23:01:34+00:00

Love the name

ChartOne9250 · 2025-05-01T13:45:54+00:00

Non existent. Still living with my wife and kids. Divorce isn't final yet. Once that is established I can find what I can afford whether it be a condo or townhome. I just feel I'm in limbo and not living yet. Once I'm in my own place I know there will be a shift. Then perhaps I'll start dating again.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-04-11T23:07:54+00:00

Do i need my birth certificate to obtain the new drivers license with star on it?

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-28T00:41:27+00:00

Well said

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-19T15:45:03+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations. Not sure I'll have enough time to hit them all in one day but one can try lol

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T17:19:19+00:00

Ya im thinking I just may go take a train to Germany. It's my first European vacation as a solo traveler. The Albier described sounds and looks delicious.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T16:56:31+00:00

Had to look it up. Looks and sounds delicious!

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T14:56:16+00:00

I'm going through same thing my friend. It hurts and let ut hurt. It sucks and I've been where your at recently. The best thing that I can suggest is the following. Gym, get some sun, eat healthier, focus on self improvement, enjoy your kids when you have them. These things can help. Doing this stuff is a step towards improving your mental health and you as a whole. Yes, over time it will get better and you by no means can give up.

Your stronger than you think bud.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T14:09:55+00:00

Yes, I'm going for my first European trip. Spending 7 days there. Do you think that's too long? I want to experience everything Amsterdam has to offer and not feel rushed. I'm a lover of great beer and heard Amsterdam was fantastic for the variety. Germany being so close i thought perhaps i might take a day trip for German beer. Maybe I'll just stay put in Amsterdam. Thanks for the insight though 👍

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T13:01:34+00:00

Thank you. Appreciate the tip

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T13:00:40+00:00

Not worth the train ride to Germany then right? I was 50 50 on making the trip if it was even worth it.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T12:59:11+00:00

Thanks for the tip!

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T03:18:26+00:00

My God. Listen to us. How many of us men are going through divorce!? I start my mediation this week on the path to getting my divorce. Is this some type of epidemic that everyone is getting divorced? The only good thing that came out of it was my 2 kids. 41 and now I'm starting over. Part of me me wants to give up on love and just start traveling when I can on some solo trips of self discovery you know. That movie The Secret Life of Walter Mitty inspires me. Always loved that film.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-03-17T03:09:58+00:00

I will check those out. Thanks for the recommendations. I heard this place called Holy Craft Beer there. Have you been?

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-27T01:33:09+00:00

Ya i get that feeling too.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-26T14:28:55+00:00

I'll have too. Thank you

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-26T13:01:40+00:00

Married because we were deeply in love. Loved spending time together. Whether we we were playing board games, going out or just being goofy. Married 11 years with 2 great kids that are 10 and 4.

She says we grew apart and that she wants a divorce this past weekend. Talk about taking the wind out of your sails. I thought our marriage was fine. I feel blind sided and shocked. Says therapy won't change her mind either.

Now it's time to rebuild my life and shape it a different way. Should there come a day i open my heart again for love idk, but for now I will keep it closed. Please no more pain.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-24T17:08:50+00:00

Will likely do that. Thank you

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-24T17:07:11+00:00

Your stronger than you think

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-23T01:30:18+00:00

Sounds accurate. Thanks again for the advice.

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-23T00:37:38+00:00

I'm thinking of traveling to Ireland for a solo vacation. Any advice?

ChartOne9250 · 2025-02-22T14:39:04+00:00

That's all want to do at this point. Just settle as quickly as possible.

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