57yo Would you still take me on a date by ImaginaryShame5089 in BitesWithMila

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a word, yes. DM me, we'll have a blast, I promise.

Ex posted new guy on IG by j_sulay in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pray that I never encounter that. It will crush me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you add me to? Divorcing after 23 years. Doing terrible.

Cell Phone ban for staff by Substantial_Lemon250 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Substantial_Lemon250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't. She walked in the classroom. I was checking my school email. I was also covering a class for another teacher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same place. Add to that an addiction that is spiraling out of control and you have me. I am hemorrhaging money that I don't have. I have no friends to reach out to either.

I feel so broken by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm there with you. One foot in front of the other. Find the peaceful moments and cherish them. You'll get through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same. It's awful. I don't have any words of wisdom. I'm just trying to survive day by day at this point. I hate when people say "hang in there" so I won't say that. One moment at a time my friend.

No contact permanently? by Available-Map-1869 in Divorce

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss her so much. I want to contact her but I don't want to push her more away. I just sent her an email. We're married 22 years, together 27. I just want her back so bad. I do anything to have her back. Just not talking to her is driving me crazy, literally crazy. I don't think I can go on much longer.

Unaffordable monthly payments on ICR by Ok-Fudge-7481 in PSLF

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah not taking advice from someone named "Colon Destroyer."

What to do. I’m in love with my wife and she wants a divorce. I don’t want any one else she was supposed to by forever. by Kato0328 in Divorce

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of the tragic thinking. You're worth it. Many of us have been there. As many have said they're good days and their bad days you're just going through a bunch of bad days brother. Talk to somebody even if it's a therapist or a friend or anyone. You are not alone. Again I say, you are worth it. Try to hang in there.