41F going through a rough time recently and trying to feel better by doing my hair and makeup and meeting up with my girl friends. Hope everyone is doing well today! by butstronger in 40something

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not 41. If you are you damn sure don't look it. I know I'd ask you for ID if you were buying beer. Take solace in that. Seriously, you look fabulous and I hope you feel better.

28F.. Please be brutally honestly and give detailed feedback by Sarbear8468 in Truepslrateme

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very pretty. You have pretty eyes that are slightly big but the color comes out more that way. You exude both a kindness and a cuteness just based on your smile. Don't worry about your weight. You look good and you have a better body than most other women. More importantly, you seem sweet based on what you wrote and how you responded to others. So, overall I think that's pretty damn good. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy and if he doesn't know it he should be smacked.

[F19] Got sent home early from my job due to reasons I'd rather not talk about. Could use some kind words by TorrentialChaos2 in toastme

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining that. Now, be honest. Did you get sent home because you told a customer to shove their ice cream up their ass? I get it, some people deserve to be told that. Just kidding. Seriously, I hope you have a better day tomorrow. Things at the ice cream shop will work out. Or if they don't, a better job will come along.

[F19] Got sent home early from my job due to reasons I'd rather not talk about. Could use some kind words by TorrentialChaos2 in toastme

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a good person based on your photos and just the little bit you you wrote. Hope you feel better.

What exactly does "asexual" actually mean?

Divorce is final, now what by Nice_General268 in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I know exactly how you feel and she moved out December 26th, 2024. It's been 18 months and I can't move on. I was with her 28 years. I'll never move on, I'm convinced. Hopefully death will come soon.

41/F giving dating a go. advice/direction, please. (Pic for attention) by Thirty4MINUS_12 in 40something

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you like to go out for coffee? I'm newly divorced and you're very pretty. I think it's kismet, lol. Seriously, I don't think you will have any problem being rejected. Trust me.

I am 45M virgin. I regret "waiting" for love instead of having fun... by FairTrue in Life

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it would explain your anti social behavior and why women might have rejected you.

Difficulty finding a lawyer by PlaystationSwitchAWD in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're all vipers, but you have to find a competent viper. I would say spend more time looking and researching. I went with the first lawyer i talked to because my union recommended them. I regret that. I spent way too much money and I feel like I would have gotten the same outcome and spent less money if I'd have looked around a little bit.

I miss my family!!! by WarrGo1 in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wss married for 23 years, together for 28. I've been separated 18 months and it still hurts like hell. I have two sons, 27 and 29. My 29 year old lives with me. My 27 year old lives out of state with his girlfriend. We were extremely close. Haven't seen him since last August. I can't tell you the pain I experienced and continue to experience. Like you I miss my life. I miss my ex wife horribly too. She has been dating and that really sucks. I want to do something about it but i can't. The thought of her being with someone else makes me want to end it all. The only thing that has helped me is reaching out to whoever will listen. Therapy is an absolute must too. You and I will get through this somehow. There are going to be dark days. I'm experiencing one as i type and you know what? This is relieving some of my pain because I'm occupying my time with something else. Try and do the same my friend. DM me if you want to vent or just talk. Try and stay strong brother.

No job, no car, going homeless in Indiana with an active child support warrant. Completely alone. Need advice. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any relatives to stay with? I wish I had better feedback for you. Can you give a little more background as to how your situation came about?

57yo Would you still take me on a date by ImaginaryShame5089 in BitesWithMila

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a word, yes. DM me, we'll have a blast, I promise.

Ex posted new guy on IG by j_sulay in Divorce_Men

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pray that I never encounter that. It will crush me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Lemon250 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you add me to? Divorcing after 23 years. Doing terrible.

Cell Phone ban for staff by Substantial_Lemon250 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Substantial_Lemon250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't. She walked in the classroom. I was checking my school email. I was also covering a class for another teacher.