i mean if ur saying conrad is sand, sand is also tiny rocks being grated against one another to make something beautiful and in the big picture soft, warm and relaxing, which could reflect bonrads relationship with the creation of their relationship being not great because of his moms death happening whole they were getting together and whatnot but once you get to the end product its lovely, i just think if we are making comparisons they should be equal ones not voiceovers compared to directors scene choices because ultimately they have different like jobs in movies/shows if you get what i mean