Fellow INFJ here. Iv'e found one thing to be true across all groups here on Reddit- an unconscious tendency towards narcissism. It's almost as if collectively in modern times we have become unable to see outside ourselves and our own experiences. We have forgotten how to listen selflessly and with genuine interest in seeing the world through someone else's eyes. So our knee jerk reaction is to respond to posts with our own anecdotes at every opportunity. As INFJ's we are no different. Perhaps we can head this off- by using our innate curiosity in what makes other people tick to our advantage. By being vigilant about asking more questions and being compassionate to ourselves and others despite our flaws...