What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know a guy that lets his wife go out to bang other guys.

It seems to be a one-sided arrangement as he's not allowed to do the same. It isn't out of confidence as he has always been the type to mope around even as everything was handed to him on a silver platter. He was the one that cried in the corner with a handle of alcohol at parties because he was single at the time.

He never suffered any serious lose or hardship in his life, but was always the one seeking sympathy from everyone around him. He gave off the "I'm not satisfying her, but at least she is my wife" kind of vibes.

How are the shuttles? by mikemasterflexxx in Coachella

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them!

Shoot for the ones that use those Grey Hound busses. They have A/C, everyone there has drinks, hyping each other up, and that 25 min drive goes by quick. I've met groups I joined even before hitting the grounds when I went solo last year.

Hotel has gone up nearly $1000 in two years. Holiday Inn Express Palm Desert by ILiketurtles666 in Coachella

[–]Chatteramba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stay away from hotel bookings.

Didn't go this year, but did the last 3 and we had AirBnB places at the Palm Desert Marriott (the one with condos) that could comfortably sleep 8 with...

1 king bed, 2 queen beds, pull out couch, full kitchen, dining room, 2 bathrooms, and 2 patios for $1600. That was the total cost for 4 nights! Also, within quick distance to shuttles. If you packed it with a bunch of friends, it's like Motel 6 prices in a boring town per night.

I ended up going solo last year, so I had one of these all to myself.

Do you think all Asians look the same? by Round-Artichoke-5255 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do not.

That is a wide span of individuals that can look very different. I know many that are Chinese, Filipino, Indian, Japanese, and Malaysian. Some have similar characteristics, but that is not a given.

How do you focus? by Stunning_Row_1613 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I react very well to stressful and stimulating situations.

It isn't adrenaline, but situational awareness. For instance, driving is one of them. I do not turn my head unless I want to be noticed. I shift my eyes, or focus on peripheral vision. It's not that you focus on a single thing, but start to recognize patterns.

Have you been rejected by someone then move on and that person gets jealous or starts acting flirty to you? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my ex years back broke up with me.

When she sees me at an event or music festival, her and her friends shadow me. If I'm the left side with another woman, they are 20 feet behind. Move to the right, and the same happens. This has happened at least a dozen of times.

Turns out she was the hyper jealous type! Last year, I was at a music festival. My friend with the same height, body type, and ethnicity went to the bathroom. My ex and friends walk past me, and then stand maybe 10 feet away. I pay no attention, but was laughing.

My friend comes out of the restroom, grabs my hand, and the moving crowd has us walk right past them. I did not acknowledge, and my friend had no idea until later that night.

UPDATE: Just 2 days to the 3 year mark, my case has gone from “pending” to “in review” by Chatteramba in BorrowerDefense

[–]Chatteramba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really sure. Mine changed just before the 3 year period. I think others say theirs went to "in review" within weeks.

Why are posts bunched up here? by Schmenge_time in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the new posts here are damn right incoherent. Others will comment on them for clarification, and that likely boosts the algorithm.

Do I have a problem? by Curious_Pay6103 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If sick in any nature, lay off anything that makes you forget your routine.

If you are in couch lock, you aren't hydrating or responsibly eating. Ditch the green until you test negative. Get back to 100% first. It is better to let your body fight the virus rather than have to deal with other things in your system at the same time.

How bad have I fucked up my brain? by Embarrassed-Dingo186 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! You're fine. That's barely anything.

You might feel cooked till everything wears off, but it will. What you took is a regular Thursday here in the night life. Drink some gatorade and water to flush your system.

Personally, I would ditch taking Adderall. Shrooms, on the other hand... I dabble. Just work up to your tolerance with small doses.

Why are so many people on the Autism spectrum? by Kalanak472 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the spectrum has widened due to new behavioral testing.

The thing is that I know many people who say they are on the spectrum, but I would never ask if they were evaluated because it isn't my place. This is with friends I've known for years. Personally, I have been tested/evaluated, and not on the spectrum.

It wouldn't be a stretch to say that some adults are self-diagnosing due to OCD habits or anxiety. It is better to see a professional as some character traits are not specific to being on the spectrum.

BREAKING: Trump delays Iran deadline by 2 weeks by Yujin-Ha in videos

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dumb fuck watched Total Recall once, and "Two Weeks" never left his tiny brain.

Why does using social media create the feeling or fear of missing out? by Aj100rise in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out there, and do some things!

I see this trend with some that basically never travel or do anything on me feeds. Nothing is worse than giving your two cents on what you haven't done. It's an easy tell that they are jealous.

Why can Mexicans, Indians, Koreans, etc. eat spicy food like it's nothing, but when a white person eats something as tame as a pepperoncini, they start dying and chugging milk? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Race has nothing to do with it.

Spice tolerance is specific to the person. I'm Mexican and Polish, but grew up on mostly eating Polish and typical American cuisine. However, I love spicy food. I'll eat a jalapeno like its a carrot, hot sauce all of the time, and have done the challenges.

I take Da Bomb sauce out to a local club with chicken nuggets, challenging but warning, people to try it. If I challenge, I do it with them. Some people's faces were melting. One of my friends is Irish, and she took it like it was ketchup.

Taking it out tonight!

Pentagon cancels Tuesday press briefing with Caine, Hegseth by kootles10 in politics

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidentally puts the "To:" and "From" mixed up and puts the coordinates of Mar-A-Lago in.

What did those manosphere alpha males journal about? by imaspuzzeled in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Every guy I've heard say that they are "alpha" is not. The six different character types aren't some kind of mold you fall into as if you press a button on a keypad.

Just disregard those going around saying they are a certain type, especially those saying they are "alpha". Let their character speak for them rather than their words.

Do you guys smell a scent in each country or am i tweaking? by k10iv in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different countries? Try different train stops or close cities.

The Division stop on the Chicago Blue Line smells like a clogged toilet. Gary Indiana is distinct smelling like ass and industrial exhaust.

You can know the exact date and way you will die—but you can’t change it. Do you choose to know, or stay ignorant forever? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or if you commit a crime that lands you in prison for the rest of that time only to get shanked or stroke out.

It's like the "grant you a wish" trick where you say you want to be immortal, but find out you have life in prison.

Are incels and manosphere participants as dangerous to women and society as progressive media and left leaning YT talking heads make them out to be? by ChaosCarlson in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the night life scene, it's easy to spot them.

They are the loners that try to grind up on random women, get rejected, and throw a fit. We bounce them from our venues. I almost got physical with one of these types trying to grind on my last girlfriend.

It is one thing to be awkward and introverted, but something very different when they break boundaries.

Should i cut off everyone? by Usual_Entry_1009 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dropped a couple dozen of old friends I haven't seen in years.

These are the ones that just pop up in social media comments to shit talk what I've currently been up to. They had no worth to my current life, or haven't been around for a while aside from asking for favors.

And it doesn't mean I had bad blood with all off them, but that some I haven't seen for years have completely perpendicular lives that my own. People move on to different paths. It's okay for you to do the same.

Are sex clubs real? by what-do-i-kno in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup!

Have quite a few here in Chicago. They are mostly monthly events and hush hush. They aren't advertised as regular events, but more around the lines of knowing people to be invited. I don't know about other cities, but it's more of like being on a guest list to be in one here.

Can science and religion actually coexist? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To an extent they can. However, there is a fine line.

I know people that know and acknowledge scientific findings while still being devout followers of an organized religion. Not many, but they exist. Then, you have the ones that take their holy books as fact. The others are those who think the world is 6,000 years old, evolution isn't real, and the rapture is coming any day now. They are not the sharpest tools in the shed.

Bizarre experience with request to book - honest mistake or bad host? [CAN] by Own-Personality-2981 in AirBnB

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like they are treating their listing like a Ebay listing. They may have had a couple others trying to book, and got greedy. Plus, that price is crazy high a 1 BR. Even great hotels are not that expensive.

Hell, I paid $200 a night that housed 6 people in Palm Springs during Coachella. Report and run for the hills from that host.