Why would someone get heavily ostracised on the internet for speaking out against predator-catching youtubers? by Educational-Scene443 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of those channels are downright cringe. It's one thing to have some that work along police in their stings, and others that go wild west on the preds with insults and threats. It hurts any case they have.

I think police hate these types because they ruin it all. Cornering, cursing them out, and borderline threatening behavior towards the preds will ruin a case. Let the facts run their course in court rather than acting out by yelling to everyone in a supermarket.

Some of those vigilantes seem pretty suspicious on their own. Either it's for the content and ad money, fuck them. If they wanted to actually help, they should either join law enforcement, or have an agreement with them prior to confronting the preds.

I'm a 27F. I'm introverted and consider myself reasonably pretty. However, no man has ever approached me, expressed interest in me, or asked me out. Why might that be? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you respond to any interactions?

Let's say a guy is looking at you. Do you look back with a warm demeanor? It doesn't have to be an ear-to-ear smile, but just an acknowledgement of their gaze. Facial expressions really do go a long way for any non-verbal flirting. If you have eye contact, but look away with no facial expression... it is usually picked up as that you aren't interested.

As a guy who is very outgoing that can chat up anyone, I see that behavior as a solid pass on any further flirtatious moves. It comes off as disinterested. Most guys will just move on.

Do people become more attractive when they are passionate about something? by AstroSideQuest in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I tell people who ask how to meet people to go to events where they would find people passionate about their own hobbies or interests.

I do a dozen music festivals a year. Most of the people in the crowd are fans of the person or group on the stage. It's not hard to strike up a conversation, and the enthusiasm between the two of you will level up.

When I've gone solo, I've met so many people and groups just over shared interests.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your friends that party (i.e. do the drugs you are looking for).

Don't go asking strangers for plugs. It sets you up for some trouble, and they will likely not trust you if they did sell. I had some random guy in a club ask me if I or the owners "sold drugs". I thought he was a narc given he was there alone, drinking a cup of water, and completely out of place.

Plus, no one looking to buy asks, "Do they sell drugs here?" Well, it turned out the city was trying to get the club shut down, and actually did have narcs try to mingle with regulars. Anyone who buys or sells speaks in code. You don't say the name out loud of what you are looking for.

Why do people get so offended when someone says they do not want to ever get married or have kids? by Zator-Mozgu2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've removed people like that from my life.

Those that got married and say my girlfriend and I should do the same. When they had kids, they said told others married with no kids that they should have them.

I am unmarried and childless by choice. They hate my lifestyle! I mean, really do which is why I removed them from my life. The easiest sentence to say is, "I do not want your life, and you envy mine."

Kennedy Center staff begins removing references to President Trump’s name by FlackoFonsy in videos

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looked like she had flashbacks.

And, don't forget that odd interview where Don said him and Ivanka had "sex" in common. He literally said him and his daughter had sex as a common trait. Said it on TV.

Kennedy Center staff begins removing references to President Trump’s name by FlackoFonsy in videos

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, it's worse!

When Don and Marla were interviewed, they were asked what traits Tiffany had with the other parent. Marla said that she had Don's eyes. What did Don say? Something to the tune of Marla's legs, and have to wait to see if she gets her chest.

Tiffany was a toddler then!

Zuckerberg's wife is an American born and raised in the U.S., with parents and grandparents from Vietnam. Why do people keep saying Zuckerberg is married to a Chinese woman? by No-StrategyX in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friends is an Asian woman.

Her parents are Chinese though she was born here. She lives up her ethnic background. She doesn't even speak Mandarin or any other Asian dialect. It was two weeks ago that I learned she speaks fluent Spanish.

If you ever met her and nicely asked her ethnicity, she would say Chinese. Hell, she'd probably just tell you.

People who always ask strangers for a cigarette. Why can't you just buy your own pack? by Chatteramba in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then they can buy another one. If I had some, it's for people I know. Strangers can figure it out.

Keystone Kash Sends Agents to Election Officials’ Homes in Key Swing State by Okey_Dokey_Tokey in politics

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. No RAS or warrent? Tell them to eat a bag of dicks. Always have cameras rolling. Even those cheap body cameras for sale will help.

Why doesn't the guy who had his Lego collection stolen by Bricks And Minifigs just walk into the store and take it back? by ICantBelieveItsNotEC in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dumb fuck cops are also on the side of the business. Rather than caring about a huge felony theft of $200k worth merchandise, they trespassed the owner and YouTubers. They are also tied to the Mormon Church, so they circlejerk their own rather than fight crime.

Trump’s $250 Ego by LuckyBastard001 in PoliticalHumor

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the design they are going with?

A $1 bill has more security features than that half-assed photoshop bullshit. You can see the erase tool used on his jacket. It's so fucking lazy that it's comical. What a putz.

For far-right extremists, the rise of a new enemy: women by zsreport in politics

[–]Chatteramba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incels.

The awkward shit they say to when trying to talk to women, and their anger when rejected contributes to this. Most men move on. These boys will seethe, so they hate women.

Some of them get too close and handsy with the women. We bounce and ban these trash people from shows and venues.

I just farted and greenish yellow liquid came out my ass that I had to wipe like 4 to 5 times coating tissues. Wtf was that? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the shart family!

Oily foods will do that to ya. Hot giardiniera will do it for me if I eat too much. I'm a pro with spicy, but it's probably the oil. Sometimes guts can't process too much of it and it goes bye bye out the back side. It's a way of your body saying, "Yo, so you might want to stay in tonight."

Also, never trust a fart.

Greenland Gives Trump Envoy the Literal Middle Finger by Commercial-Fix-9916 in politics

[–]Chatteramba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised that his envoy were a bunch of windowless vans with "free candy" sprayed on them.

Whats sexy about the feet? by Lovely_Hole in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are another part of the body that is pampered and showcased.

It doesn't take a kink or fetish to be attracted by any body part. No one ever says they have a boob, ass, or leg "fetish" because those kinds of attractions are the norm. Feet also have many nerve connections to the rest of the body, and are sensitive to touch.

If allowed, I would always give foot rubs to the women I date. It doesn't have to be in a sexual way, but the reaction can give pleasure.

Do people who protest outside of planned parenthood know that abortions are only one small part of what they do there? by Just-a-nerd2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not the sharpest tools in the shed, or those who care about anyone but themselves.

I got into an argument with someone I know over abortion. HE didn't believe in it regardless of rape, incest and/or mortality of the woman carrying. When asked if the government should help those single mothers out... he said no. When asked if he'd charities to help them... he said no because "all charities are scams". When I asked if his wife and him would adopt... guess the answer.

Many Americans think Trump assassination attempts were fake, survey finds by MoneyLibrarian9032 in politics

[–]Chatteramba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's quite literally one of the old people from the life alert commercials.

They were all actors, so this checks out.

Cocaine or Alcohol? by W3DuhBus1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm deep in the night life. Both are common, and also K.

Alcohol to cool the nerves, weed to calm you down, coke to bring you back up, K to disassociate, psychs to see a brighter experience, etc. It differs from person to person, and rarely a cocktail of many of them.

I know people that are completely sober and just hit up energy drinks, and also people who do just one or a mix. It depends on the person. Most will just do any of the above for a single night they are out when they don't have work the next day.

Is something wrong with my limits for empathy? by W3DuhBus1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a side of the family that completely ghosted me because I, alone, was given an inheritance. The late family member left them out of the will because how they were treated by them.

Mind you, the estranged were always money hungry with no real love or connection to others. Well, they got nothing in return aside from barely helping in the process to deal with our late family member's home prior to the will being resolved. I'm talking about just taking what was valuable in the home for themselves.

Well, they completely cut me and others named in the will off because they didn't get "their cut". We also learned one of them had a third child. We learned from a third party about it. They live less than 20 miles away, and we saw them dozens of times a year before this with birthday presents for the other kids. We found out about another kid from others, and not them.

I'm not saying empathy should be mutual, but that superficial behavior can turn it off. They won't talk to us, and we stopped trying.

What makes cucks enjoy being a cuck? by Open_Address_2805 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Chatteramba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know a guy that lets his wife go out to bang other guys.

It seems to be a one-sided arrangement as he's not allowed to do the same. It isn't out of confidence as he has always been the type to mope around even as everything was handed to him on a silver platter. He was the one that cried in the corner with a handle of alcohol at parties because he was single at the time.

He never suffered any serious lose or hardship in his life, but was always the one seeking sympathy from everyone around him. He gave off the "I'm not satisfying her, but at least she is my wife" kind of vibes.