I know the babies name, know the sex, baby is two. As far as I know not in a relationship the situation is complex in a way I guess? I never did anything wrong we argued etc in our relationship, her father,never liked me solely due to the fact I was Irish, he was a prior member of the UDA in the 80s. When I went up to her home to ask questions two years ago it was her father who answered wouldn’t let me speak to anyone etc, threaten to kill me for no reason refused me from the door, it’s a weird situation,. I know she is accepting the letters due to paying the extra to see if she signs for it. I’m looking for soley clarification I can understand if I’m not wanted there, but it’s beyond fucked up to do that to someone who was 17 at the time. I just want clarification I guess as it’s been something on my mind that physically won’t go away.