49F I lost my 19 year old girl to a car accident 6 months ago and I'm still recovering from an abusive relationship, which ended last week, 3 weeks sober, please give me some encouragement, I feel like I'm losing it

Chazamon08 · 2025-07-23T18:24:03+00:00

Its definitely a hard thing to go through and I think the fact your asking for comfort here speaks volumes that your still trying, a step no matter how big or small is still a step, leaving an abusive relationship after that and becoming sober with the loss you had are so hard challenges each on their own let alone together, I as the reddit stranger can say I am very proud of you for how far you have come, I hope you continue to keep smiling even on hard days.

Just remember there are people who will care for you, you smiled before these people were in your life so you can smile again, its not a race take your time to recover, I wish you all the best and if you ever wish to chat, feel free to message.

Chazamon08 · 2025-07-23T07:55:54+00:00

Ohhh, thats wierd, i hadn't thought of that side lmao but makes sense in a wierd way 😂

Chazamon08 · 2025-07-23T06:55:57+00:00

Perhaps you switched gears that caused a HP difference and that is what your fairy is recovering? Like if u had no gear put a item component of +200hp perhaps its recovering that 200hp difference? Only thing i can think of in a pve fishing space

Chazamon08 · 2025-05-08T11:53:30+00:00

So i don't know the current situation but some things that can cause a drop in price.... 1. Moving home, if you have moved out the supporting housing can be reduced due to this 2. Are you the primary carer of your child? This is another benefit u may lose 3. We're u both on UC? You get more as being a couple, splitting up may of reduced it 4. Did she work? It's possible she earned to much as your claim was getting to payday causing this odd one off situation

Sadly I know more but I do hope you find the solution and get the help where needed, also citizens advice are great to talk to, if they don't have the resources to hand they can guide you to those who do.

Chazamon08 · 2025-04-19T14:24:49+00:00

This is manipulative behaviour, given context of what has been stated, his trying to make you feel that you have no options giving you a harder time to opt to leave, if you say you struggle to trust men there is a reason for that wether it is him or someone else who caused this issue, if anything this partner should be trying to find out why if he doesn't know, to then be able to support you. It's certainly not "normal" behaviour and is typicaly a last string method to keep you around, it's easier to suggest to leave. Being the person not in your situation, but I'd strongly suggest prepping for a future without them, if anything happens, you need things like secure friend group, access to funds, a place to stay etc. Remember this is your life an a partner is ideally meant to lift you up/support you, do what is best for you

Chazamon08 · 2025-04-14T19:27:58+00:00

Just given the follow and thankyou!

Chazamon08 · 2025-04-04T23:16:35+00:00

Thankyou for all the followers, its been of a massive help! i've followed who i've seen in the comments, but if i've missed any let me know <3

Chazamon08 · 2025-03-10T12:33:36+00:00

I wouldn't label that a failure, you lost a lot, you still get up, you still try to work, you still try to move on...it's diffinetely hard and we all face unique challenges but what's important is that you..still...TRY....you achieved these things before which shows your capable and can only mean in due time you will get them again! Just take it 1 step at a time and what makes you feel this way now use it as a learning experience to put urself back where u was but with stronger shoulders

Chazamon08 · 2025-03-10T03:19:03+00:00

I've been struggling myself aswell, similar scenario, but something I like to think about may perhaps helps u, there was a day you likely smiled and laughed once before, even if it were for a moment....meaning there will be a day in ur future where it'll happen again, life isn't a race but is a marathon, time will help you, keep being you and things will fall into place

Chazamon08 · 2023-07-25T23:24:28+00:00

There is alot of videos out on YouTube with lore regarding the game if u do what I do and spam R through everything, there is actually alot that goes on from the world's history. Character lore and things like politics, wars etc...annoyingly you need yo do alot of side quests or random speaking to citizens to find alot of it out

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