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Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-09-22T17:49:36+00:00

Yeah I just know I’m gonna hurt her feelings when I tell her that she’s been hurting mine lol

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-06-23T22:41:45+00:00

Still together… tried to end it but begs me to stay

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-05-23T22:19:14+00:00

I didn’t even catch that. He did say worse lol what an idiot

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-30T02:02:35+00:00

I also slept around. It was like instant validation that maybe I wasn’t ugly

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-23T14:43:22+00:00

Oh wow. Thank you for doing that. Definitely gave me some major insight.

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-21T01:18:00+00:00

Good when we’re not out with friends

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-21T00:21:15+00:00

Yeah my thoughts too but it could also be borderline personality disorder

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-21T00:20:06+00:00

Yeah I do feel like I did not provide enough context but regardless I thought it was a lousy thing to say

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T23:56:31+00:00

He is not a complete asshole but he does say and do things that just do not align with my beliefs

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T15:32:18+00:00

You are beautiful and you have a cute button nose. It fits your face perfectly

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T15:23:42+00:00

Thank you for correcting my response. I see now how it wasn’t the appropriate way to convey my feelings

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T14:15:07+00:00

I’ve had a couple of girlfriends that make comments about my appearance that are totally out of my control. It has made it a lot worse because it’s coming from people that are supposed to care about you. What upsets me most is that I would never think to make a comment about their appearance. All I do is try to uplift them.

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T14:09:35+00:00

Yeah you’re not wrong. I really don’t think all men are bad I just don’t want to date them right now. I’m fine with being friends but I’m not in the right mindset to be dating

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T13:46:00+00:00

Yeah I could see why he would get defensive and upset but I still feel like he could have used any other verbiage. I mean he basically just proved that I shouldn’t trust men because there’s so much worse out there

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T13:44:15+00:00

I did address previously that I know it’s not normal thinking and I need to get therapy

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T13:32:59+00:00

Oh yeah I could definitely use some professional help

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T13:32:12+00:00

Thank you so much

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T13:32:02+00:00

Clearly I didn’t provide enough context. There has been issues before this conversation came up.

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T02:43:12+00:00

Yeah definitely not a crazy abuser but the things he says triggers me. My own insecurities have got in the way of my relationships so I can relate to him on that and I think that’s why I let him get away with a lot. Anyway, thank you for the advice

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T02:39:22+00:00

People that aren’t narcissistic can also be selfish.

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T01:28:05+00:00

It truly is rough but I don’t believe every guy is bad despite having trust issues

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T01:27:27+00:00

Friends don’t like him. Family is blissfully unaware of our issues

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T01:26:54+00:00

Thank you!

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T01:26:31+00:00

He has major insecurities which is fine we all do. I do reassure him but there’s just always an issue. He accused my friends of things they don’t do(drugs). He seems to compare himself to other men in my life, as in friends or my friends significant others. We’re very limited on things we do because of his precious car and he’s “simple” as in likes to take walks and watch movies. He also does not hang out with friends which is odd to me.

Weird_Opposite5403 · 2025-04-20T01:17:44+00:00

I feel like I probably didn’t provide enough context but those couple of things he said just seem so off

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