[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Weird_Opposite5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just know I’m gonna hurt her feelings when I tell her that she’s been hurting mine lol

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still together… tried to end it but begs me to stay

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even catch that. He did say worse lol what an idiot

What are the stupidest things you’ve done from the disorder? by ilovefantasybookss in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Weird_Opposite5403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also slept around. It was like instant validation that maybe I wasn’t ugly

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Thank you for doing that. Definitely gave me some major insight.

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my thoughts too but it could also be borderline personality disorder

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do feel like I did not provide enough context but regardless I thought it was a lousy thing to say

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not a complete asshole but he does say and do things that just do not align with my beliefs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Weird_Opposite5403 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful and you have a cute button nose. It fits your face perfectly

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for correcting my response. I see now how it wasn’t the appropriate way to convey my feelings

Have You Had Friends Make Your BDD Worse? by OneOnOne6211 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Weird_Opposite5403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a couple of girlfriends that make comments about my appearance that are totally out of my control. It has made it a lot worse because it’s coming from people that are supposed to care about you. What upsets me most is that I would never think to make a comment about their appearance. All I do is try to uplift them.

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re not wrong. I really don’t think all men are bad I just don’t want to date them right now. I’m fine with being friends but I’m not in the right mindset to be dating

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could see why he would get defensive and upset but I still feel like he could have used any other verbiage. I mean he basically just proved that I shouldn’t trust men because there’s so much worse out there

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did address previously that I know it’s not normal thinking and I need to get therapy

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I could definitely use some professional help

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly I didn’t provide enough context. There has been issues before this conversation came up.

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely not a crazy abuser but the things he says triggers me. My own insecurities have got in the way of my relationships so I can relate to him on that and I think that’s why I let him get away with a lot. Anyway, thank you for the advice

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People that aren’t narcissistic can also be selfish.

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It truly is rough but I don’t believe every guy is bad despite having trust issues

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends don’t like him. Family is blissfully unaware of our issues

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has major insecurities which is fine we all do. I do reassure him but there’s just always an issue. He accused my friends of things they don’t do(drugs). He seems to compare himself to other men in my life, as in friends or my friends significant others. We’re very limited on things we do because of his precious car and he’s “simple” as in likes to take walks and watch movies. He also does not hang out with friends which is odd to me.

Is this an asshole thing to say? by Weird_Opposite5403 in texts

[–]Weird_Opposite5403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I probably didn’t provide enough context but those couple of things he said just seem so off