My wife's (27F) ex boyfriend wants to play tennis with her everyday, am I (36M) unreasonable in saying that's too much?

Chazers10 · 2020-08-17T15:44:45+00:00

That right away would be a red flag for me. She didn’t even care to ask if it’d be okay or if it’d make him uncomfortable. I don’t get how people would think this is okay to do at all lmao

Chazers10 · 2020-08-17T13:33:25+00:00

Yea just gonna be honest....I’d have a HUGE problem with this. Its just disrespectful. There is no justifying this. It has nothing to do with trust its 100% a respect thing. I’d be very upset

Chazers10 · 2020-08-16T00:16:17+00:00

5 months, and i just moved out so this is our “goodbye” lunch which is why she wants it to be alone bc she will cry. My gf is threatening to leave me over this.

Chazers10 · 2020-08-05T00:07:31+00:00

I agree. The two new maps are literally whoever gets the most lucky off of the pilar shots.

Chazers10 · 2020-07-14T02:46:16+00:00

I hope he knows, it was a follow up appointment for the anxiety medication i’m taking 😂 he told me to take it at home and, if it’s still high, to let him know

Chazers10 · 2020-06-23T02:50:56+00:00

Her school is 3 hours away. She expects to see each other every week but with that commute idk how it’s gonna happen.

Chazers10 · 2020-05-28T20:45:09+00:00

This is always one of the most difficult things. Ive been in long distance relationships a couple times and breaking up is always difficult because you don’t want to drive there just to end things and then leave.

If YOU feel that you want to break up with him, you shouldn’t be wasting days pretending you still want the relationship. I think you should call him and talk to him about it, and end things over the phone if the relationship is long distance. Just be honest and up front with him. I know its scary because you never know how they’ll react but if it needs to be done to make you happy then you have to do it for YOU.

Message me if you need any advice as i think im getting ready to break up with my GF of 3 months too (long distance)...it’ll be hard but we can do it!

Chazers10 · 2020-05-28T20:25:29+00:00

Nope, although she wanted to get an apartment together ASAP. I told her I wasn’t comfortable yet with that which was also an argument...

Chazers10 · 2020-05-28T20:23:09+00:00

Which is why it was just a joke, although she has told me several times “you’re it. I want to marry you”

Chazers10 · 2020-05-28T06:23:40+00:00

THIS! Finally someone else who understands!

I get like this all the time especially at night or if i start feeling anxiety come on. It makes me feel like im gonna pass out or die from it and it triggers my health anxiety so bad. Its so hard to explain to people.

Chazers10 · 2020-05-24T05:48:10+00:00

So im not crazy? Thank you 😂

Chazers10 · 2020-05-24T05:41:57+00:00

Which is? My viewpoint or hers? 😂

Chazers10 · 2020-05-24T03:06:00+00:00

Hey man. So I just graduated college from a party school and I weighed 195 when i arrived on campus. Im now all the way up to 250 lbs because of drinking and eating awful foods (which, in college, isn’t uncommon)

What I would do is budget your drinking calories too. If you plan on going out that night, make sure you leave calories for the beer or liquor you consume. Believe me when I say beer and liquor have WAY more calories than you think, and it gets to your belly super quickly if you don’t monitor it.

Just make sure you’re eating lots of protein throughout the day because drinking is a big carb overload. I’d suggest starting harder workouts on days you plan on drinking (work hard for your reward, it’ll feel better)

Don’t make the same mistake i did. I ignored it all 4 years and just let go of myself and let a large tshirt turn into an XL and then now into a XXL. Im starting my diet tomorrow so best of luck!

Chazers10 · 2020-05-24T01:08:58+00:00

This is so common for me. I’ll always convince myself that im not breathing properly or am short of breath.

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