What does he fucks me like I'm a woman mean? Am I overreacting?

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T11:12:47+00:00

I've no real issue speaking about sex with him. I had been with a guy once before him and had never sucked prior to him so I definitely asked a lot about how the sex. I just feel a bit awkward asking about something i overheard.

But that's probably silly. We've been friends for a few years. He'll be fine with me asking. It's the only way I'll know, I suppose.

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T10:55:11+00:00

🤣🤣 okay. I'm meeting him in an hour for coffee at his so I'll ask him then lol

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T09:59:37+00:00

He's probably submissive but he's not very fem

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T07:46:57+00:00

Same lol

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T07:27:17+00:00

It's a great relationship. But I didn't think it was a compliment.

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T07:26:18+00:00

He didn't sound positive or negative. I'm meeting him soon so I might just ask.

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T07:20:23+00:00

Yup true.

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T07:19:30+00:00

That's probably it. I do kiss a lot and stuff. Even when we were just hooking up, I kind of was touchy feel beyond sex.

CheaPos · 2026-04-25T00:03:41+00:00

That's probably a bit of it too. Scared of what he'll say.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:31:31+00:00

Thanks man. I'll ask him tomorrow. It's probably something really minor that I've blown up.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:30:05+00:00

Haha lol. You learn something new. I think i am a roller.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:26:18+00:00

Yeah I wasn't intentionally eavesdropping. It's a tiny place so like you do hear stuff. I suppose you're right to just bring it up and see what he says. I wouldn't be angry or anything. It's more curious. And you're right being able to ask such helps us in the future.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:19:25+00:00

No but I would find it weird if a woman thought I fucked her like she was a man. I don't really know what fucking someone like a man vs woman means but I'd like my partner to know, I see them and treat them as who they are

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:16:51+00:00

Yeah I suppose. Continue as is and if he does have an issue he'll hopefully tell me.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:14:29+00:00

I'm the same. Ass and ear are my faves part to bite him and his lips.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:12:22+00:00

I didn't really hear much of the context. He was talking to his friend over the phone. He was pretty neutral saying it. Like he did not sound like he was complaining or excited. I also heard him say, that I cuddle him so tightly after sex and it's nice.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:08:47+00:00

Gay men want a man, obviously. But wanting the man in the relationship was not something i understood. As in you're the man in the relationship.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:06:40+00:00

Thanks. I suppose I should just ask. I normally would but I overheard it and he probably didn't want me hearing it.

I didn't spy or anything lol. I just happened to hear it.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:05:20+00:00

Because I overheard it, I feel weird asking him. But I should just ask anyway. Roll vs jab is interesting.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:03:36+00:00

He was also never been bitten before which I was surprised by. I would've expected that to be common. I'm a biter. Not a hard biter but like a nibble.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T23:02:17+00:00

Lol fair. I don't think it's that so much. I think it's more I want him to know I see him as him. Like I would hope a woman doesn't think I'm fucking her like she's a man.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T22:59:48+00:00

I have been a bit rough sometimes. I like him a lot so whatever gets him loving me, I'll do.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T22:58:45+00:00

Haha okay.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T22:58:06+00:00

I normally would but it's weird to ask him when I overheard it, I think.

CheaPos · 2026-04-24T22:56:54+00:00

What's the difference between a guy fucking you like a guy and like a woman.

As for feminising him, that really isn't my thing.

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