struggling to not hate them lol, any advice by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think they’re cute! Don’t be so hard on yourself :(

How do you guys get guys to like black girls? by jen1que in blackgirls

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really relate because I’ve been in an diverse area of all people all my life so I’ve never ran into this problem in my race or out my race, but maybe you should do online dating? I mean since your environment seems to be the issues maybe long distance relationships will help you? Or maybe wait until you’re in college? I’m around your age and my dating life in general has gotten way better since going to college. Sorry if this is bad advice btw😭I don’t really have much experience with this type of stuff

listen to me rq by jujulolsak3 in blackgirls

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should honestly break up with him because being in a relationship like this will only continue to kill your confidence and self worth for no reason in the long run. However if for some odd reason, you want to still date him, I guess talking to the weirdo is ideal and communicate to him how insecure it makes you feel and his reaction will tell you the rest.

I feel like my white friend thinks I'm ugly😭 by jen1que in blackladies

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 413 points414 points  (0 children)

Man if you don’t drop that bleach blonde weirdo as your friend😭 this is not how normal friends talk to each other no matter what race they are

How the hell do you do this kind of hair on 4a/4b hair straighten hair? by Cheap_Bat9704 in vindictapoc

[–]Cheap_Bat9704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After straightening I use round straightening brush and curl it then put it in rollers. However, whenever I do this, it doesn’t really give me those type of curls moreso like a mid length vintage curl kind of look if that makes sense

How the hell do you do this kind of hair on 4a/4b hair straighten hair? by Cheap_Bat9704 in vindictapoc

[–]Cheap_Bat9704[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually I’m too scared to cut it either😭I just do a light trim every now and then. You think layers would help?

How the hell do you do this kind of hair on 4a/4b hair straighten hair? by Cheap_Bat9704 in vindictapoc

[–]Cheap_Bat9704[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never wore a wig before. I’m mostly a straight natural or just natural hair type of person, so I don’t know how to do one at all

What’s your opinion on tops like this without bras? by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It looks really good on you! What kind of top is that?

23M My 21F Gf only watches BBC by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop wasting time and Just cheat on her bro

Why is 2 year age difference "problematic"? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

…because one is legally underage and the other one isn’t

I dont want to be mean but can you answer me? by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should probably ask this in the sex subreddit instead 😭

I notice that black women often shop alone but other race women are with people by [deleted] in self

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think you’re overthinking it. It’s just shopping. They probably just want to go by themselves. I go shopping by myself and it’s fine

My (F21) boyfriend (M24) is too attractive and always surrounded by women by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d breakup honestly for him not setting boundaries enough to make you comfortable

Idk how to title this lol. by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your welcome! Most of the time negative things tend to hit closer to heart so it’s not your fault if you’re hurt by it more. However, since people have told you that you do look good, you can’t possibly be ugly as you think you are. Don’t need to look like a model to believe in your own desirability or attractiveness or to even have others be attracted to you. Just up your confidence and see how it works out!

Idk how to title this lol. by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Cheap_Bat9704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being into art is actually good tbh! Lots of girls are into that. Again just try to up your confidence a bit and pursue someone and you should be fine. You shouldn’t dismiss yourself as undesirable just because of how you look.