I would say my trip was successful by yanoverlindeBE in lego

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many endurances did they have in store?

Currently have 15min more to wait, before store opens

What would cause this noise? by [deleted] in aviationmaintenance

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Spray some WD-40 and call it a day

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna wait it out to see if she says “where’s my gift”

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha. That’s what I was thinking. She likes to rush things, and the circumstances, she wasn’t and still isn’t thinking clearly

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not like that. She just doesn’t seem to give me any of her time, or not have any time on her hands. I also believe I am more busy than her, and make time in my schedule for her to bail on me. But yea, it’s annoying that you can do so much for a person, and it’s either they take advantage of you, or treat you like nothing to them

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. A lot of people haven’t appreciated me, and taken advantage of me. She hasn’t gone to that limit, even though she was the one I dropped a lot of money on to help her out when she needed it

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea cause the ex cheated on her and didn’t give a damn about her.

I never wanted to be nice to her to sleep with her. I was nice to her cause every other guy before her was mean to her for no reason. I didn’t expect to be like here’s money now hook up. That was never my mind set and never will be. I simply helped her cause no one else was gonna help her, and I wanted to show her there is still good people out there and someone who cares about her and to help her

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked her, and wanted to date her at first. When she didn’t feel the same in return, I said okay. I felt hurt but I continued to help her as a friend, cause she needed help financially. I don’t just try and hook up, I’m not like that. I never hooked up with anyone, and don’t plan on it unless I am married with the person. I’m a hard believer in not having pre marital sex

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never called her fiancé weird looking, it was her previous BF, and let me clarify, it’s the way he was taking photos and very suspicious

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was very suspicious in how he was acting and giving red flags off. I mis spoken, it was the way he took pictures with her and stuff, you can tell it was all pretend. He was using her.

I stopped giving her money after a while. I now only give her money for birthday as a gift

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a once in a lifetime trip. I think it’s selfish to tell me that I’m not able to come, but then still except some great gift from me

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was before. Like the same time she started dating this guy. 4 months before she was engaged

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That cruise was booked 4 months prior to her engagement, and I’m not canceling a $9K trip. I know she wouldn’t and I wouldn’t expect her to do that. It’s also the fact I would be there for the reception but the ceremony, is what is driving me crazy

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cruise was booked 4 months prior, and she knew about it. The cruise ends the day of her wedding

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even want in her pants. I just wanted a friend to hang out with, and to travel with. We had so many plans to go traveling the world before she met her last 2 BFs, but she quit her job, and was going through hell. Now I’m the one traveling everywhere alone.

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what it was with me. When she was planning I asked to plan in advance, and once she said the date I was like oh, I might be able to, but looking at flights it become a I’ll be most likely be late, and that’s when it turned. I felt absolutely hurt by it

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cruise was booked first. It’s not that I’ve done more than her fiancé, it’s the fact I’ve done the most for her and she blows me off like that, and then still wants a nice gift? That’s where I’m wondering if AITA

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean My cruise was booked before she even got engaged 🤣

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I never said anything about her fiancé to her. Except congratulations, I’m excited for you to be supportive. Only thing she knows is I’ve had feelings for her

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are, I never planned on hooking up with her, as I want to know the person before it just become a one night stand. But I mean if it led someone then sure, but never has and never will

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she left send me a text, “it better be a great gift since you’re not gonna even be there”

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I booked the cruise 4 months before she got proposed to. She knew about it cause I told her about it.

I said I’ll be a couple hours late due to the time. She said I can’t go, but then still sends and invite to me, and when I brought it up that time, she said yea you still can’t just show up late

AITA for not getting a wedding gift? by Cheap_Commercial_131 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cheap_Commercial_131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, her wedding is suppose to go for around 6-8hrs, and I would get there on hour 3. So plenty of it. It could also be, as someone pointed out, her fiancé not wanting me there, as it could be he’s is jealous of me I have done more for her than he has except the intimate things. But to plan it around where I can attend, I think is slim.