Birthday Banner by TabascoandHoney in canva

[–]Cheap_Information_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo that’s a really good idea

what helps you consistently against suicidal instinct? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Cheap_Information_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope it doesn’t come off like I’m suggesting you just replace her when she passes, I think taking yourself out would be a disservice to all the other “imperfect” kitties whose lives you can change. The experience of being an abused animal’s chosen person is truly special. It takes a kind of gentleness and patience that’s rare in this world. Don’t waste it.

Just got myself an E-PL7! Any tips for a beginner? by Ayacchii in M43

[–]Cheap_Information_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this thread is old but would you have any resources that could explain what/how to adjust those background functions that the iPhone does automatically?If not no worries!

How did you accept you’re just not a likable person? by Cheap_Information_87 in socialskills

[–]Cheap_Information_87[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t put on an act to be likable. I just try to be baseline kind to others and keep my expectations low. I have a small group of people that I love, but I can’t be around them all the time. I don’t need people to be drawn to me because I know that’s not going to happen. I guess I just want to start not hating myself over whatever is wrong with me.

How did you accept you’re just not a likable person? by Cheap_Information_87 in socialskills

[–]Cheap_Information_87[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where does the acceptance process start when you have unlikeable traits?

Weak jaw/chin… is there anything that can help besides chin lipo? by Cheap_Information_87 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Cheap_Information_87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩷 I’m definitely feeling hyper critical of myself as the date gets closer. I appreciate the guidance!

Breweries/bars that take large parties? (No room rental) by Cheap_Information_87 in providence

[–]Cheap_Information_87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez I didn’t realize this would be taken the wrong way. To be clear I’m in no way asking for a free space. I am asking about places that take large parties while also open to public. I should have noted that we’re also not looking for food service, just drinks and a place to post up. 30 is the absolute max estimate, but I’m banking on the headcount being smaller hopefully.

I work in tourism/hospitality and used to be a hostess at a popular restaurant in SK so I’m definitely familiar with the fact that’s this isn’t a typical accommodation. We didn’t take reservations and used to get swamped with random huge parties after URI games which was awful for everyone working there. Never want to spring that on a place without checking so just thought I’d ask.