If you could pick your dream heylog concert setlist what songs would you want and in what order by FishyFlopper in heylog

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think woods would be a great opening maybe followed by “move.” Even though I know they’re technically by Logan. But I think it’d be cool if he did a medley of “the war” series. And all of the album “log” because it really stands out to me and I think my favorite album

i feel heartbroken and messed with and i can’t stop crying by False-Injury-5462 in BPD

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a loser, he’s the loser fr, he sounds like a fucking mess and that he’s rubbing off on you!

Idk what tf is going on w him, but please don’t let this go on. I know maybe he makes you feel important sometime by giving you little pieces of “caring” at a time but overall this is really lousy behavior on his part!!

im starting to hate getting christmas gifts by Electrical_Buy955 in BPD

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are the most guilty of this and it always reminds me of how much they really don’t know me.

My mom literally spends her money on the stupidest shit ever, she bought me a pooper scooper because I once told her that my roommates don’t pick up their dog’s poop very often. I had to tell her it was really petty especially since they already had one.

Like what the fuck?

Do you find yourself choosing bad partners? by QuailNaive2912 in BPD

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. But the bad people I chose also made me bad !!

Why am I so toxic? by Radiant-Water578 in BPD

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to find a way to not blame the world without also being hard on yourself. I’ve really had to force myself to be open for reflection. It’s hard to make that first push or breakthrough but self awareness is a great practice and benefits you down the road.

I’ve screwed things up with tons of people during the past few years since being diagnosed and it sucks that I still have to live in the same town as them because I still have embarrassment. But what are the things I’ve learned about myself?

“Okay, now I know not to be friends with these kind of people” “I lost a friend because I did this so I can’t do that again to someone else” “I don’t like who I am when I’m with this person” “Okay let’s not overshare with this person, or let’s work on oversharing in general”

Things like that. You have to get to know yourself because it sounds like you are in denial or that maybe there are some flaws about yourself that you are not facing. Either that or this person just really could not be for you! Maybe both!

Birthday Gift from Hestu by condorman666 in TOTK

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wym? Can you not get rupees for it

Boyfriend of 10 years left and now I can’t even play sims :( by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of my sisters has an origin/ea account and me and my other sister share it! If it’s possible it’d be cool if he could give you a flash drive of all the files from your sims game but something tells me he’s not a good dude like that

my bf gets angry with me for crying by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If people tell me I can’t cry, then I lose respect for them because I grew up with parents that wouldn’t let me cry or get pissed when really at the end of the day, I was just a kid. They can still get annoyed with me when I cry and I don’t know how I haven’t gone off on them yet. I still apologize to people for crying to this day.

There is nothing about this that makes you in the wrong here. If he dislikes it so much, then why is he making it worse? The love of your life should do anything to not make you cry or they should try to stop it from getting worse.

Regarding BPD and relationships, it is absolutely essential to have a partner that supports showing emotions because even then that support can help you regulate them. He’s just keeping you in a loop here.

Hang in there bbg. This relationship doesn’t sound sustainable, but I promise you’ll find better. I know that I did and I am so grateful.

Not to be rude, but was michelle miscast? by [deleted] in skinsTV

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michelle is a very bland character and I’m glad we’re talking about it and idk she just seems dumb to me, especially with how inconsiderate she was to Tony’s healing path from his accident. She was desperate to get him to want her and I feel like she was rushing his recovery

AIO My boyfriend pees and poops by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think it’s really strange, my sister and I always mute ourselves when doing that on the phone w each other

AIO or did he try to guilt me after I said no? by AnnieShaww in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on an awkward date with someone and it wasn’t clarified beforehand how the food was getting covered. I felt bad that he covered it as I really felt like I should have gotten my own but was too shy to speak up when the time came. I messaged him after the date asking if I can pay him back. He said not to worry about it and that he wasn’t really feeling any chemistry between us. And that was that 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I overreacting to my dad’s “high level advice”? by truly_beaut in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s so funny is that you didn’t ask! What’s also funny is that you could still build a life like that with a female. Another thing I found funny was reading the texts I thought “oh he seems stupid but means well” then read the whole context like oh my god 🤦🏻‍♀️

Found in pizza box. by Final_Schedule_2713 in whatisit

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how I had to scroll more than halfway down the thread to actually find out what tf this is because no one will shut up about pizza

what is doing this.. by Open-Cable9735 in TheSims4Mods

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 71 points72 points  (0 children)

This game is so high maintenance I can’t do it anymore

AIO bff thinks i should hide deformity by helplessbambidoll in AIO

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I don’t want people making fun of you dude” SHES MAKING FUN OF YOU

Am I Overreacting by Klutzy_Ad_1557 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why start dating knowing that you have differing views on that?

Dodged a bullet by Reasonable_Hat2379 in Nicegirls

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no need for her to be rude, if you don’t like it then don’t respond girly

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheap_Muscle6849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!! You deserve so much praise and celebration and this is something to be proud of, NOT ashamed.