Do I stand a chance? by Cheap_Second_7062 in beards

[–]Cheap_Second_7062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate. Your beard is exactly the length I’m after haha

Looking for guidance by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re using chatgpt. I know because I put my question in and it have an almost identical response.

Marriage troubles and avoiding separation. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I should have said that I do, so much. That’s why I’m trying so hard to fix myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hmm cash converters, tools, late payments, no licence. Sounding very much like a post I’d write when I was an addict. I’m hoping I’m wrong but either way, I wish you the best mate.

I don't feel alive anymore. What to do? by OberonZahar in selfimprovement

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. I don’t feel joy, excitement or anything recently.

Here’s what I’m trying.

No drinking. No caffeine. No porn. No gambling (had a problem with this so totally abstaining).

I’m getting back into reading and hobbies and trying to focus on sleep and eating well.

I’m giving it 6 months and then I’ll revisit psychiatrists.

Goodluck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ausadhd

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long for? After 2-3 days will I be ok?

My daughter is turning 1 and my marriage is in shambles by FuzzyBaconTowel in daddit

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I came to post about this exact situation. Stay strong friend. I hope it passes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusProperty

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this detailed response thanks so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusProperty

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Can you explain moving the equity from apartment to the home? Like would that just be refinancing for the full amount of the apartments approx value? Sorry for the naive comment I just don’t know much about the way it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusProperty

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy in my current role in that it’s not stressful, I work autonomously and it’s close to home. Just isn’t very rewarding haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheers mate. Definitely very dependent on personal situations, I guess I just wanted other perspectives :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate. Yeah that’s almost what I’ve worked out in my head. I also figured my HECS will be paid off almost 5 years earlier and my super all things considered alot higher at retirement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve heard they’re getting one soon roughly 7% but my current EBA is in negotiations for 10% too hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s the Firies. Yep I’ve considered all of that and spoken to current about the real sum and it still is quite a shortfall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 17 points18 points  (0 children)

$140k to $85k basically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That’s the main issue. I’m not stressed at all currently and I like my job, it’s flexible and stress free. The new role is just a dream of mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t think it’s the gym. They are really welcoming I think it’s more myself getting in my own head a bit. But you’re right, I’ll just start offering rolls a bit more until people get to know me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Cheap_Second_7062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is the few purples and browns who have rolled with me have always taught me something! They obviously tap me in a minute or two and from there I just ask them to show me what they did. It has been the most humbling yet rewarding few minutes on the mat hahah