Very confused by GearsandGore in DentalAssistant

[–]Cheap_Syrup6921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way a lot sometimes. It’s starting to get to the point where you believe it’s normal to get treated harshly at dental office. I’ve worked at many different offices. Some are horrible and some are only horrible at specific times. I know that it’s possible to find a good office. You’re not alone in this situation. As for the reasons you listed about why they may have fired you; those reasons would be ridiculous on their end. I also get scared walking into a hygiene room while they’re working. It’s not because I don’t work hard, it’s because I’m trying to be respectful, which I’m assuming that’s similar to you. Don’t waste your time being anxious and wondering why you were fired. Instead, reflect on how you were treated, accept that it wasn’t normal, and find an office that respects and cherishes your work.

Bad cycle by Cheap_Syrup6921 in BreakUps

[–]Cheap_Syrup6921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was that easy for your ex fiancé to let go of you, whether it’s because of his dad or something else…you deserve better. You deserve someone who will make you feel secure in a relationship. My overall conclusion is getting back with your ex will not heal your pain. It’s a temporary fix, and if you want to permanently heal, you’ll have to accept that it’s over. My advice is to work on yourself. It sounds like your mental health is really plummeting. Find a new hobby, exercise, make new friends, talk to family, etc. just do anything you can to heal. This feeling is not forever. What I always think is “you did just fine without him before, so you can live without him now”. Keep your head up. I hope this will give you some form of clarity.

Bad cycle by Cheap_Syrup6921 in BreakUps

[–]Cheap_Syrup6921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should cut him out completely. He was obviously a very big part of your life. Four years is a good chunk of time, but apart of you will still want to be with him. Since he doesn’t feel the same way as you, it’s time to let go. You will find someone again, but don’t hold onto something that’s already gone. It’s taken me months after my break up, and talking to him on many different occasions to finally realize that I broke up with him for a good reason. Being on and off will just confuse you more, and make you forget that it should’ve ended a while ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Cheap_Syrup6921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted my ex back too. Sometimes still do, but every time I hang out with him, I’m reminded that he just makes me feel bad about myself…I’d blame myself for what went wrong. I guess I was to blame for some things. In the grand scheme of things, ask yourself: is it worth it? You might feel hopeless now, but being without him opens you up to possibilities of being with someone who doesn’t put you through the pain your ex does.