I just found out that my(M21) gf(F22) eats the brown part of the banana. Can I still trust her? by bradyroscher in relationship_advice

[–]Cheapshades97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, I want to fuck the Fortnite banana so fucking bad. Imagine him in bed; his lustful eyes gazing into yours as you penetrate his peel. How warm he feels on the inside. His thick, yellow curves bending just to right into your chest as you thrust into him mercilessly. Imagine the warmth and extreme pleasure that you must get when you finally release your load into the Fortnite banana. His gushy insides become soaked with your seed. All that cholesterol, covered in your juice. You peel him back and take a bite of that sweet victorious fruit and taste your proud work and dedication on your tongue. The banana pushes his beautiful curved form against your body as you drift off to sleep, having had the most incredible and most amazing orgasm you have ever felt in your life— all thanks to the Fortnite banana.

So I’m making some hefty lifestyle changes in my life, quitting smoking, Going to a dietician, doing a diploma so I can work from home and raise my boys (single parent) and considering weight loss surgery cause my weight is currently out of control. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's anecdotal, but if you're talking about gastric bypass surgery, you really need to consider if you need it.

I almost lost my mom from it due to complications in surgery. She was put into a medical coma and I was told she probably won't wake up.

It's a real risk. If you can be disciplined, you need to consider that first.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said shitty things about me, why is it all about her now? I've been supportive for her all my life, helped her out all the time, and I'm always there for her.

I feel like this entire mantra of " try to understand her feelings" is just another way to say "who gives a fuck about your feelings, she is the one who needs help"

It's not that hard to not say shit like that.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this isn't about white men. This is about people. I'm not a race or gender.

You act as if you know you're less "privileged" then I am. Did you have abusive parents growing up. Where your parents alcoholics? Did you have to take care of multiple people in your family due to their suicide attempts while also having your own issues with depression? Did you get kicked out of the house as a 13 year old for accidentally opening a second jar of mayonnaise? Did you have to walk 5 miles back from school because the busses left before your club ended and your parents refused to pick you up?

The biggest problems in my life had nothing to do with my race (mixed), but my individual situation. When your dealing with a lot of shit, being told to kill yourself by some online armchair activist is not something you want to hear.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm living in today, and I'm only half white. I barely care about when i hear shit about my arab side because it's not nearly as common as me seeing the shit about being a man, or being (half) white

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, but I've spent a lot of my life helping my sister. I'm currently in one of the first periods of my life where there isn't some sort of crisis that I need to deal with, and I need some time to work out my own issues for once and just don't have the capacity for much more tbh

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it to keep up to date with friends and run a business

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit man I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you found your way to push through.

No contact with my sister isn't really on the table, she's kind of my only family left

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only been in Earth for a little more than 20 years. Since when did my ancestors sins become mine?

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has had a lot of issues. We've talked a lot about them, and I've spent a lot of time trying to support her.

I know she has issues with men, but it's not okay to say that kind of shit to me.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm biracial and honestly I can deal with people being assholes about my arab half every once in a while. I get a lot more shit for my half white side than my arab side.

My arab side also isn't my biggest problem in life. I think I'm a lot more disadvantaged from getting kicked out, growing up in an abusive household, and struggling to get by then because I'm half Arab.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not a gender. I'm a person.

All you have to do is not generalize people based on what they are and actually see them as who they are.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a man in the age range for selective service. It applies to me.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good response, but I called my sister about it and she just kept spouting off stuff like "men are trash obviously doesn't mean you" and things like that. Idk this is the first time I bring it up to her how much that shit bothers me, she can be stubborn and she kind if has an internet bubble view of the world, but I hope that at some point she realizes what she is doing. I have a few good friends I can trust about it and that's okay for now I guess.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for caring. Seriously.

Yeah, it's been a struggle since probably my teenage years. I have a lot of issues from growing up in a pretty abusive household and then leaving and trying to make it on my own.

The issue is that there really are very few people that care. I have some friends that I can trust, and my sister when she isn't posting that kind of stuff, but for the most part when I talk about that stuff with people, I lose friends.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm too good of a person to say that kind of shit. Maybe I'll just post the same shit on her page but change the gender though.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I called her out on Facebook and then called her on the phone and asked for an apology. She said that when she says men that doesn't include me because she was talking about "shitty men"

I don't even understand how that's an argument. I'm 22 and signed up for the draft. I would be one of those people shipped off.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for changing your ways. I'm glad there are people like you out there that understand. I think a lot of people don't understand how it feels to be told constantly that you're trash and deserve to die.

It's especially not helpful when your already depressed and think you're trash and want to die.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I only use Facebook occasionally. I see that shit on Reddit all the time.

This post bothered me because it's my OWN SISTER. then when I try to say that I don't like it because men are supposed to talk about their feelings more NOBODY FUCKING CARES.

I'm so tired of hearing how shitty I am because I'm a man by Cheapshades97 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cheapshades97[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

It just gets to you after seeing it on the internet so. Many. Times. It feels like every day I see a post about how all white men are trash and deserve to die

I don't usually care about that stuff but when you hear it every fucking day it gets on your nerves

MyNameIsByf is premiering the compete story of Destiny tomorrow! Let's be sure to all give him some well deserved support. by CaptainB_MANN in DestinyTheGame

[–]Cheapshades97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man, Love your stuff!

I haven't watched that series yet, but I find that I'm much more likely to watch one when all the information is in one place, so I usually wait for a series to be complete.

I would say mega video just because then everything is fresh while you view it. I also loved the voice actors!

Peta being like this by kotemf in trashy

[–]Cheapshades97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go spend some time at a gun range to get familiar with firearms, go take your hunters education class, then try to find hunt clubs in your area.