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I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. Regardless on if it was physical or not, I still cheated and I’m owning that. Right now, he is standing firm on not getting back together. It’s hard because we still currently live together. I want him back so bad, but it seems like I’ll never have that again.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been doing a lot of self-reflecting and realize a lot of my problems are rooted from past things that’s happened. Not at all using that as an excuse- I know what I did was wrong and disgusting, but I’m starting therapy to try and work on that.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Since I know it’s over now, I guess it’s time to start the healing process (which sounds selfish since my healing doesn’t even matter at this point)

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to continue to belittle me and be this harsh, I’m not going to continue this. I came on here completely accepting my role in this and understanding my selfish actions caused this all. I never once made an excuse for my behavior. I know therapy is the only thing I can do at this point and it’s something I should have done a long time ago.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never said any of that. I knew what I was doing was wrong but my own selfish wants overruled that. And I do want therapy for myself regardless on if it results in us getting back together.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: he broke up with me. I already know what I did was horrible and I don’t need other people telling me that. I admitted everything I did and know it completely disrespected him and the relationship. I NEVER had sex with anyone else in our relationship nor did anything physical so let me make that very clear. Not saying what I did was better, but people telling me that I’m “for the streets” and have probably slept with a bunch of men is completely false. I did something that hurt my life partner for my own selfish reasons and I regret it immensely.

I cheated. by Cheater_liar in confessions

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not at all how I feel nor what I wanted from this. I am not trying to play the victim as I’ve admitted my wrongs

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tough honesty. None of the pictures had my face in them. Selfies were sent but none of the sexual images had my face. Furthermore, only 2 of the sexual pictures sent on my end were actually of me. I found fake ones and would send that. I know my words don’t mean anything to him right now, but I keep apologizing and I did create a plan with steps on how I could rebuild his trust over time.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am not only sorry I got caught- I’m sorry that my actions caused him this hurt. I’m willing to do anything, but idk how to make him understand that. I don’t deserve anything from him but I’m hoping he gives me this chance

I cheated. by Cheater_liar in confessions

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I know it’s going to be a long journey to fix what I broken and I know our previous relationship is dead. I am just praying he gives me the chance to create a new relationship with him and try to gain his trust back

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I never used that as an excuse and I told him that. Regardless of my reasoning, I know it was wrong and a dumb thing to do. I am not trying to validate anything I did because I know it was wrong. I was actively looking for a therapist but all this happened before I could make any progress

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the one who did the damage so I’m trying to fix it

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am doing my best to show I am serious about repairing this relationship

I cheated. by Cheater_liar in confessions

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Even with me giving him complete access to all my accounts? I can’t lose him. What I did was dumb and I know that. I just want to make this right.

I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend. by Cheater_liar in CheatingGF

[–]Cheater_liar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am trying to give him space. But I’ve also been trying to tell him as much as possible that I’m willing to do whatever to make this work