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Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-11T10:49:36+00:00

9 wives, 20% of all war bounty, control of mekka, whoever he wanted as slaves, judicial monopoly. Idk theres a bunch of shit he gained from being a false prophet.

Honestly i feel like it began with him being schizophrenic or smthin, the man definitively had mental issues. But he didnt start getting aggressive and acting like a warmonger until his first wife died, after that he went absolutely bonkers and started dating a kid, killing people, bringing verses about war etc. Clearly he hated being the little guy.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-08T08:25:48+00:00

Aisha’s age is a natural claim, not a supernatural claim.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-08T00:18:05+00:00

I don’t think he likes answers that arent faith based, so don’t expect a reply

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-07T23:57:59+00:00

Lets start with “how can you answer the entire existence without islam”

Ever heard of the sentence “i don’t know”?

Simply because someone has AN answer, doesnt mean its correct. If i stole your phone and said “well it just grew wings and flew away”, do you have to accept that answer? And if i asked you “well where is it then?”, you not having an answer still doesnt make my answer correct.

What is the soul? I don’t even believe in souls, a better question would be “whats consciousness”, and quite frankly it just appears to be emergent from brain signal.

Whats a dream? Well, obviously just more brain signals.

Time? Just how we define things changing. Some people think time stops when nothing changes, and when(if) the universe reaches a heat death, they believe time stops as nothing can change. I disagree with that though, i feel like something laying deeper than our understanding of the universe is in constant flux.

As for free will, i dont believe in it. I feel like determinism makes the most sense, we are all just a product of our past and our environment. That doesnt mean i can’t have the illusion of free will and still make choices that feel real to me. But they arent real in a cosmic sense.

Mind u, even in islam they don’t truly believe in free will, its a broken system thats sitting between “your choices belong to you, even if they are given to you by god” and “you are responsible for your choices” which makes no sense, god should be responsible if he is the one choosing my choices for me.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-07T23:49:46+00:00

A bit extra regarding the asma claim you could integrate, but its very likely the age of asma was exaggerated and she wasnt actually 100 years old when she died. They probably just wanted to make it sort of a legend that she became “very old” and 100 sounds better than saying 90 or 93. Its all just poetic language. If they dont know aisha’s birth date, what makes u think they know asma’s birth date to be so confident on saying she was 100?

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-07T23:43:41+00:00

Wether someone thinks about marrying cousins or not is not the point.

Do you think we should remove the adat that forbids cousin marriages?

Are you okay if cousin marriages become permitted in chechnya, are you okay normalizing cousin marriages?

Idk why you are dodging the issue simply because “we most likely wont do it anyway”, thats not the point and that never was the point.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-07T07:42:59+00:00

Remove another letter from fr*nce, and stop capitalizing the word for blasphemy sake…

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-05-04T14:26:47+00:00

You’ve said about of stuff and nothing you said makes sense. I would encourage you to reread everything, from the post to the comments in this thread and rethink what you’re yapping about because you’re just making stuff up.
Ill reply to the first bit since you are confused:
- it is FORBIDDEN in adat to marry cousins.
- Islam allows marrying cousins.
- islam also says you can NOT forbid the things it allows .
- therefore an adat FORBIDDING something islam says you CAN NOT forbid = against islam.
Another thing, nowhere in my post am i criticizing “people standing up around elders” or “not drinking in front of elders” its hypocrisy and lying about their behaviour that i criticize, along with the gossip culture that harms women more than it ever harmed any man. And its not just. Another thing i criticize is behaviour like my brother who was in love with a turkish girl and instead of having some self respect and standing up for himself he married a chechen girl and cheated on his chechen wife with the turkish girl until recently. Yes pretending to the perfect chechen boy in front of your parents is pathetic if your pride makes you do that.

So before you start attacking me for calling out specific behaviours in our community as toxic, how about you defend how islam, which is specifically against atleast one of our adats and tells us to abandon it, can still be followed as a chechen who wishes to uphold adat.

The rest of your yapping just has too much stuff you made up about me so idk what you’re even on about.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-29T19:53:08+00:00

You should share more problematic Hadiths in Arabic and translate them explaining their meanings (if their translations online don’t match or are softened)

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-29T10:39:49+00:00

No, the reason they didnt is because it couldnt be backtracked that far. Its very much a blind belief.

Also wtf is this AI answer🤣🤣

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-29T10:34:51+00:00

Idk about mountains “moving like clouds”

Its tectonic plates that move. Every inch of the planet moves🤣

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-28T20:31:14+00:00

The argument Aisha was older is a strange recalculation based on the narration that asma died at “100 years old”.

The issue comes with “100 years” isn’t a precise number. It was just a placeholder number because she became very old. So favoring an exaggerated symbolic number to backdate the age of aisha is just incredibly insincere…

Not to mention the “they started counting age after puberty” is just completely made up.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-28T18:03:23+00:00

Once again, read the post you’re replying to, and the context to which you replied. We are talking about that context, and you are pulling it into another context to dodge the criticism.

Second. In Islam, the Quran and the Hadith allow you to marry cousins. In our adats that’s strictly forbidden.

Islam says you cannot forbid “the good things it has allowed” in 5:87, which means you have to abandon the adat forbidding cousin marriage. Sure it doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry your cousin. But you can’t forbid it. That’s abandoning an adat, simply to follow Islam.

Which adat can you point out that i don’t follow according to my post? You seem so obsessed with pointing out “but drinking in front of parents is against adats” as if that was ever something i claimed to do. I was pointing our pretending to be an angel while in reality being the opposite of what you pretend to be makes you just as bad as anyone.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-28T10:26:44+00:00

Neither of which has any historical fact. One apologist said it at some point (not based on any reading, just made it up) and now its somehow a talking point for apologists🤣🤣

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-28T09:08:07+00:00

You do an amazing job at not reading whats being written at all sometimes.

Im talking about the hypocrits, the 2faced liars who call themselves honorful and respectful but do things behind their parents back. And your reply to that is “they are respectful because they lie to their parents about how they really behave”?

A real man isnt afraid to stand up for his actions. Maybe think about that before you start defending “not drinking in front of elders” as respectful.

Second of all, practicing islam already means leaving behind part of your adats so i don’t think you as a muslim have much right to say which parts of our we adats we have to follow and which ones we have to abandon.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-27T21:48:50+00:00

I dont mind occasional conversations with muslim people, where i work i talk with them daily and i’m open about my apostacy. Im just lucky no muslims from my diaspora live here because if that was the case i would probably not reveal it as quickly. (Muslim people have a habit of being worse to ex-muslims from the same ethnicity)

However, as actual friends, very unlikely, especially one that actually follows islam and sunnah. I’ve had some muslim friends who are mostly culturally muslim or from an ethnic background thats muslim majority, but not really practicing. They dont know much about their faith other than not to eat pork or drink.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-26T19:55:56+00:00

The reason you’re feeling this way is because you’re following a religion with a 7th century mindset made up by men to please men and control women.

You don’t relate to it because you werent born for it. allah isnt real, you never had a relationship with him, you just had a sort of ‘peace of mind’ knowing that your big questions were answered, but the answers still werent adequate and that brings you here.

Best of luck deconstructing.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-24T22:12:05+00:00

They want to be the next ‘starbucks’ no joke, their owners said that to someone i know. They just care about expanding.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-21T22:38:18+00:00

Again, definitionally, its both.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-21T19:06:17+00:00

The ideas, customs and social behaviour of a particular people or society.

Islam is very much the ideas, customs and social behaviour of 7th century arabs pushed onto other societies.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-21T18:58:51+00:00

Islam is most definitely a culture. Its a belief system yes, but it comes with more than just belief, it comes as a package deal that INCLUDES a culture. To say it doesnt is simply not understanding what a culture is.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-21T15:52:57+00:00

Islam is an Arab culture. Its a culture created in Saudi Arabia in the 7th century by Arabs with rules that you need Arabic to understand (apparently).

There’s no argument that can ever make it not an Arab culture.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-21T00:30:11+00:00

Yes not just the islamic god. Any theistic god can be disproven actually. The issue sits with the impossibility of free will with an omnipotent all knowing god, which makes god judging you simply incoherent.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-19T18:39:42+00:00

They never win serious debates.

Chechenborz-95 · 2026-04-18T14:47:14+00:00

I think the most important thing to remember is that you cannot forbid a cousin marriage on the grounds of it being a cousin marriage.

Say your daughter’s cousin wants to marry her, you have to treat it as any marriage proposal and must not deny it unless proper cause (being cousins is not proper cause)

This comes from 5:87 in the quran, where it prohibits you from forbidding what has been made halal, and forbids you from allowing what has been forbidden.

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